Should I ditch my yemeni fiance for my parents

[Geeljire Sandheer]

Shoud I leave her my girlfriend is yemeni and somali and she is pretty good person but my father is against our relationship ??

 

[Malikfiqi]

Shoud I leave her my girlfriend is yemeni and somali and she is pretty good person but my father is against our relationship ??

If you love her it really doesn't matter

 

[Geeljire Sandheer]

If you love her it really doesn't matter

I do love her but the thing is my parents hate her she is mixed with somali aswell but they say the ceeb is too much and I should end my relationship im not gunna end it but I can't make my parents upset either so im in a peak situation right now

 

[Jodeci]

I do love her but the thing is my parents hate her she is mixed with somali aswell but they say the ceeb is too much and I should end my relationship im not gunna end it but I can't make my parents upset either so im in a peak situation right now

what do you gain by marrying her?

 

[Hades]

Are your parents marrying her? She's your fiancee and they have nothing legit against her but her ethnic background, which is wrong on their part. You need to have a serious talk with them.

 

[Geeljire Sandheer]

what do you gain by marrying her?

Well she is the only girl I have been able to trust for such a long time and were planning on having 6 kids together so kinda alot

 

[Jodeci]

Well she is the only girl I have been able to trust for such a long time and were planning on having 6 kids together so kinda alot

That's it ? You can find any normal Somali girl willing to have 3+ kids, dont get impressed by that

What else does she bring, is her family rich, is she educated? What else does she bring to the table

do you have more assets then her, is she marrying up by marrying into your family?

 

[Boqor]

No marry her and procreate so you can make beautiful timo jileec children yassss

 

[Starscream]

Are your parents marrying her? She's your fiancee and they have nothing legit against her but her ethnic background which is wrong on their part. You need to have a serious talk with them.

Op probably has the same tradition as my family on wedding day the father gets to f*ck his sons new wife

 

[Hades]

Op probably has the same tradition as my family on wedding day the father gets to f*ck his sons new wife

the f*ck are you telling me this for

 

[Geeljire Sandheer]

Are your parents marrying her? She's your fiancee and they have nothing legit against her but her ethnic background which is wrong on their part. You need to have a serious talk with them.

Truee but its easier said than done they keep telling me to just replace her but I invested alot of time and care into her so I don't know what to do pick her and be disowned or pick them and lose her

 

[Starscream]

the f*ck are you telling me this for

Don't look down on tradition

 

[Geeljire Sandheer]

Op probably has the same tradition as my family on wedding day the father gets to f*ck his sons new wife

Lool that tradition is there too but that's not the problem here

 

[Hades]

Truee but its easier said than done they keep telling me to just replace her but I invested alot of time and care into her so I don't know what to do pick her and be disowned or pick them and lose her

Which parent is the lenient, more understanding one? All you have to do is soften them up & they'll come around and hopefully back you up (works like a charm).

 

[Jodeci]

Op probably has the same tradition as my family on wedding day the father gets to f*ck his sons new wife

What tribe does this? ? Can you expand on this because I never heard of it

 

[lone]

Op probably has the same tradition as my family on wedding day the father gets to f*ck his sons new wife

I almost choked on my drink.

 

[Geeljire Sandheer]

Which parent is the lenient, more understanding one? All you have to do is soften them up & they'll come around and hopefully back you up (works like a charm).

My mum isn't strict so if I can get her to meet my mum I think she would get along fine with her but my dad is against anything that isn't in our tuulo so I don't know what to do about him

 

[Hades]

My mum isn't strict so if I can get her to meet my mum I think she would get along fine with her but my dad is against anything that isn't in our tuulo so I don't know what to do about him

sounds like a good start.

 

[Geeljire Sandheer]

Thanks hades you really gave me good advice I just planned to bring her to my house this weekend to meet my dad and mum I will have my young bride whether they like it or not

sounds like a good start.

sounds like a good start.

 

[Hades]

Thanks hades you really gave me good advice I just planned to bring her to my house this weekend to meet my dad and mum I will have my young bride whether they like it or not

All the best