Single mothers aren’t to blame

[KobeBryant]

A responsible mother can teach all the male skills to their son you done have to have a **** to be able to do that

A man a women are different whether you like it or not. A father can’t teach a girl certain things in life. Nor can a women teach a boy. Single mothers are the strongest people on earth. But don’t undermine a good father just because it may not be common in your life.

 

[Averagegyallie]

A man a women are different whether you like it or not. A father can’t teach a girl certain things in life. Nor can a women teach a boy. Single mothers are the strongest people on earth. But don’t undermine a good father just because it may not be common in your life.

I just don’t believe that a father can teach his son things a mother can’t. A responsible father can teach their daughter all they need to know about being a women just the same way a mother can to her son

 

[Lum]

A women can teach a man how to be a man aswell just the same as a father if not better

How?

 

[Abdi Caato]

Men are raised by men

It is not the single mother's fault if she is alone (she is praiseworthy for raising her children without a father), however there is only so much she can do

 

[IftiinOfLife]

Well that’s your expirence I ind that single mothers are generally more affectionate towards theirs kids. But yes I do agree we tend to blame those around because it’s easier

Affection , what’s that

But I agree , we need to support and be nice to the single moms.

I know a few Somali families in my area with poor or absentee ee dads, I give those kids lunch money every week, cause it puts less stress on the mom. Sometimes if they text me I’ll pick them up from their bus stop and drive them home. I paid for 1 kids college/uni application fee cause nobody would give them money for it.

But why can’t we all as a community do that ? Why are we so selfish? I never understood that.

But we have the energy for useless ‘talk’ shows but never real concise actions. Fucking Somalis!

 

[haramcadd]

I think it all comes down to whether the household is poor or not. My dad was involved in politics and business that he had no time to stay home. So basically my mom had the responsibility of looking after us but didn't have to worry about money. Also i mostly grew up in Nairobi so i think that played a huge role

 

[repo]

Why do people always blame single mothers for everything? A boy turns into a gangster “he grew up in a dysfunctional single mother home” girl becomes a “ it’s cuz she has no father figure and is raised by a single mother”. I think single mothers are the best mothers out there they’re hardworking, determined and spoil there kids with love.

They don't blame the single mother for everything but the predicament of being a single mother and how to avoid it.

 

[Samaalic Era]

A women can teach a man how to be a man aswell just the same as a father if not better

What a load BS

 

[Lostbox]

@Averagegyallie are you a single mom?

 

[Averagegyallie]

@Averagegyallie are you a single mom?

Nope I only admire them

 

[VixR]

I could tell you single mothers are numerous among Whites as well. It’s just that they don’t typically start at the bottom in a shitty neighborhood, comparatively. And they have more capital. Over half of the people I’ve know have divorced parents, but they typically know/ see their fathers regularly/semi-regularly.

 

[Tukraq]

I could tell you single mothers are numerous among Whites as well. It’s just that they don’t typically start at the bottom in a shitty neighborhood, comparatively. And they have more capital. Over half of the people I’ve know have divorced parents, but they typically know/ see their fathers regularly/semi-regularly.

single mothers are bad for kids across the board

 

[VixR]

single mothers are bad for kids across the board

You can’t control divorce rates. You can, however, select for coparenting if you do divorce. Somalis don’t, really. It’s like they divorce the kids as well.

 

[Tukraq]

You can’t control divorce rates. You can, however, select for coparenting if you do divorce. Somalis don’t, really. It’s like they divorce the kids as well.

who really coparents in general? usually one parent wins custody and the payments/alimony and the other moves on

 

[VixR]

who really coparents in general? usually one parent wins custody and the payments/alimony and the other moves on

White people, I have to admit lol. My sample set might be biased.

 

[Younes Osman]

tbh, i think both men and women failed in general to be honest. You got saggid faraxas selling drugs..... tbh somali dudes changed since the last 10 years.... damn ….

 

[Basra]

Why do people always blame single mothers for everything? A boy turns into a gangster “he grew up in a dysfunctional single mother home” girl becomes a “ it’s cuz she has no father figure and is raised by a single mother”. I think single mothers are the best mothers out there they’re hardworking, determined and spoil there kids with love.

 

[Younes Osman]