Somali girl proud of her roots nothing more beautiful.

[VixR]

It's what you're implying since you constantly berate them thus proving my cause.

It seems like you are very defensive considering you cannot even speak your native tounge.

Is 68 IQ real?


Shut the f*ck up and let your white man whip you, naaya.

Nothing. Yeah, I thought so.

 

[Zakeriya]

“Some” has to be the biggest lie you’ve told yet. I’m not bitter, and what I said is true. Bite me. Are you that hard-headed, you can’t accept my own feelings. How is that sane? I’m really curious what your deal is.

If you’re feelings are based off judging the whole somali people than yeah you’re a bigot. Not a hard concept. Hell there are somali SJWs, somali homos, Somalis that live the street life and more that don’t give a damn about the hijab let alone it being on your head luv. Scale it down a little bitIt’s 2020 and you think hijab runs top 10 on what the community is thinking about. Maaan there are whole alcoholics out there and you talking about mean words. Looool go ahead and be the hijabless rebel you think you are but really it’s not that deep. At best people look at you then go home to laugh. But you tough you don’t care so why is it an issue.

 

[Apollo]

@VixR

I noticed you really like debating these newbies. :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Jaydaan]

Its like talking to a wall. Its just proving how patient I was with this mental case. Its time to accept we are dealing with severely mentally ill person guys

 

[Veteran]

Nothing. Yeah, I thought so.

"I thought so."

 

[VixR]

I never uttered more Subhaballah 3azza wa Jal than on this thread tonight. Really baffling folks you are. Congratulations.

If you’re feelings are based off judging the whole somali people than yeah you’re a bigot. Not a hard concept. Hell there are somali SJWs, somali homos, Somalis that live the street life and more that don’t give a damn about the hijab let alone it being on your head luv. Scale it down a little bitIt’s 2020 and you think hijab runs top 10 on what the community is thinking about. Maaan there are whole alcoholics out there and you talking about mean words. Looool go ahead and be the hijabless rebel you think you are but really it’s not that deep. At best people look at you then go home to laugh. But you tough you don’t care so why is it an issue.

You must be an SJW yourself since reality is bigotry now. If you would’ve told me, we could’ve saved ourselves a lot of headache.

 

[VixR]

@VixR

I noticed you really like debating these newbies. :siilaanyolaugh:

Can you block me from them?

 

[Zakeriya]

I never uttered more Subhaballah 3azza wa Jal than on this thread tonight. Really baffling folks you are. Congratulations.

You must be an SJW yourself since reality is bigotry now. If you would’ve told me, we could’ve saved ourselves a lot of headache.

Bigots lump groups together and judge them off their worst people. Literally what you’re doing. Just don’t wear a hijabNo one cares abaayo dis is mareykanka ii bashal

 

[Abdisamad]

@VixR

You told us on numerous occasions that your interaction with Somalis is very limited.. How are you complaining about being judged by Somalis for not wearing hijab if you don't even meet or interact with them in the real world?
Walahi it doesn't even make sense

To be honest I personally couldn't give a shit weather a Somali girl wears hijab or not.. It's her personal choice.. If she only wants to be shagged by white dudes, I don't care

But if she's ing about Somali guys 24/7 while putting white culture on a pedestal you better believe we'll react to it . This is not date a white dude forum its somali spot.. Our forum.. Most of the time we're joking with each other .. We ridicule each other.. But at the end of the day we are proud of being Somali.. I never feel ashamed of my peoples culture or religion. I wear it like a batch of honor.. Anyway who will accept an individual who looks down on his or her own people.. a rootless individual who is seeking validation from everyone but his/her own people..

 

[PhySom]

Excuse you. I live in America, thank you very much. And it’s not a big Somali community either. Small enough I can go eons without seeing one unplanned, and they’re still dogmatic/judgy when it comes to hijab. Arabs are ironically way better, and judge you on character. If anything, I wouldn’t trust an average gaal Somali guy either. You are in the list.

I wouldn't expect anyone to trust an anonymous person on the internet, nor was that the subject of the topic.

So let's recap :

1. You intentionally go out of your way to not meet Somalis due to internal biases.

2. You grew up in an extremely westernized environment with minmal Somalis.

Lord knows how you can form any assertions about millions of people from this sample size.

I have found that its somali women who are actually more judgemental then their male counterparts.

Somali men often harbour negative connotations but other than the zealous , few will call you a for not wearing a hijab.

As for the Arabian comment, Arab is such a large set of nations that the claim is anecdotal at best.

Studies seem to show generally women are more harsh towards promiscuity :
https://www.google.com/amp/s/bigthi...re-likely-to-punish-sexualized-women.amp.html

 

[PhySom]

You don’t have to be dressed like a for Somalis to think you’re a . You just have to not wear hijab. A White guy will at least treat her normally with no preconceived notions of what kind of person she is, and obviously without trying to make her start to wear one.

Anyway, I dated a Somali guy seriously without one, but that was after I’d picked up the hijab on my own initiative before we’d met. He was still there when it came off, but he was a goner by then. And even though I found he wasn’t religious at all, I don’t think he would’ve been serious had he met me without one. I’m 99% sure would’ve thought I was beyond him, or a . That’s just how you guys are. I don’t

Feminism, she took perceived assumptions about her made a 180 and applied it to herself. Narcissistic behavior if I ever seen 1.

It's not feminism its ignorance..... feminism has nothing to do with argumental fallacies.

 

[PhySom]

Again you’re judgement is clouded by past experience. A relationship with a white boy doesn’t work unless he converts for you or you denounce your religion. And how can you convert him if you yourself aren’t living by the religion? Hijab is commitment you have to take when you are ready and then you never go back. You haven’t even gotten to that point and you already looking for someone ignorant of our religion?

Exactly..I told you I was joking and you’re still saying “You’re coming at me by definition” lol and do you think this culture is unique to somali men? You have an issue with us because you see us the most and deal with us the most. You know how many white women are tired of white men? How many Hispanics complain about their men? How many madows are sick of madows? At the end of the day you’re somali your kids will be somali, work with it. Somalis aren’t a monolith, there’s probably some SJW somali boy waiting for you out there

I am just baffled by this weird notion that people will still love you regardless of your actions. If you intentionally wear a hijab and enter a relationship you are signalling that you are a Muslim. Which implies an islamic form of relationship and adherence of religious norms.

By taking off the hijab you suddenly signal that you are not muslim and its no surprise that someone leaves due to a boundary being crossed.

If the white guy supports X and you claim to also support X in the beginning of the relationship , he has a preconceived notion of you. By leaving you wouldve changed his notion of you and hence the relationship might falter.

9/10 times if X is a religion then the relationship fails. As religion is a strong basis.
for a relationship.

 

[PhySom]

@VixR

I noticed you really like debating these newbies. :siilaanyolaugh:

Been here since '17



I still remember when you had that somali pepe the frog

 

[Zakeriya]

I am just baffled by this weird notion that people will still love you regardless of your actions. If you intentionally wear a hijab and enter a relationship you are signalling that you are a Muslim. Which implies an islamic form of relationship and adherence of religious norms.

By taking off the hijab you suddenly signal that you are not muslim and its no surprise that someone leaves due to a boundary being crossed.

If the white guy supports X and you claim to also support X in the beginning of the relationship , he has a preconceived notion of you. By leaving you wouldve changed his notion of you and hence the relationship might falter.

9/10 times if X is a religion then the relationship fails. As religion is a strong basis.
for a relationship.

I mean some times it’s how people are raised. You’re suppose to raise the child to seek the hijab on her own so you don’t have to force it on her later. So maybe the parent had a child wear one without really teaching it’s purpose. As for the marrying outside the group thing, we all know an ajanabi or cadaan concert that’s probably more serious than people born into it. Remember most of the prophets pbuh biggest allies were converts. What I was saying is it’s harder to tie your husband to the religion if you’re not ready to commit to the hijab yourself.

 

[VixR]

I am just baffled by this weird notion that people will still love you regardless of your actions. If you intentionally wear a hijab and enter a relationship you are signalling that you are a Muslim. Which implies an islamic form of relationship and adherence of religious norms.

By taking off the hijab you suddenly signal that you are not muslim and its no surprise that someone leaves due to a boundary being crossed.

If the white guy supports X and you claim to also support X in the beginning of the relationship , he has a preconceived notion of you. By leaving you wouldve changed his notion of you and hence the relationship might falter.

9/10 times if X is a religion then the relationship fails. As religion is a strong basis.
for a relationship.

I never implied such a thing. The fact of the matter is, he was never religious, yet he was happy to date a religious-appearing person. I didn’t grow up wearing hijab, and prior to meeting him, I was attempting the whole religion thing of my own accord (this was prior to giving it up altogether, I was never Muslim-appearing or practicing and started to attempt to take it seriously), so what he saw me go through was a whole process. And mind you, we didn’t falter, but the fact of the matter is, he met a hijabi. Even you non-religious gaal types are comfortable with hijabis over non-hijabis, that’s just the fact of the matter.

I wouldn't expect anyone to trust an anonymous person on the internet, nor was that the subject of the topic.

So let's recap :

1. You intentionally go out of your way to not meet Somalis due to internal biases.

2. You grew up in an extremely westernized environment with minmal Somalis.

Lord knows how you can form any assertions about millions of people from this sample size.

I have found that its somali women who are actually more judgemental then their male counterparts.

Somali men often harbour negative connotations but other than the zealous , few will call you a for not wearing a hijab.

As for the Arabian comment, Arab is such a large set of nations that the claim is anecdotal at best.

Studies seem to show generally women are more harsh towards promiscuity :
https://www.google.com/amp/s/bigthi...re-likely-to-punish-sexualized-women.amp.html

I don’t “go out of my way”, it’s simple demographics. What I’m trying to get through to you is that even despite the fact that it’s a small community in a Westernized environment, they’re still overzealous about hijab more so than any other sub-community I’ve interacted with, and definitely men more so than women. I know for a fact there’s plenty of girls who secretly wish not to wear it. Mindful of what I know to be true, you cannot convince me otherwise. Let’s just keep it at that and agree to disagree. You’re arguing out of interest to appear indifferent to hijab as the male group. My own observation coupled with the absurd reality that it’s men who are its prescriptivists, it’s certainly a funny argument you’re pushing, and I promise the irony is not lost on me.

 

[Saintly]

How did a video about Somali Stew turn into a religious debate?

 

[PhySom]

I never implied such a thing. The fact of the matter is, he was never religious, yet he was happy to date a religious-appearing person. I didn’t grow up wearing hijab, and prior to meeting him, I was attempting the whole religion thing of my own accord (this was prior to giving it up altogether, I was never Muslim-appearing or practicing and started to attempt to take it seriously), so what he saw me go through was a whole process. And mind you, we didn’t falter, but the fact of the matter is, he met a hijabi. Even you non-religious gaal types are comfortable with hijabis over non-hijabis, that’s just the fact of the matter.

I don’t “go out of my way”, it’s simple demographics. What I’m trying to get through to you is that even despite the fact that it’s a small community in a Westernized environment, they’re still overzealous about hijab more so than any other sub-community I’ve interacted with, and definitely men more so than women. I know for a fact there’s plenty of girls who secretly wish not to wear it. Mindful of what I know to be true, you cannot convince me otherwise. Let’s just keep it at that and agree to disagree. You’re arguing out of interest to appear indifferent to hijab as the male group. My own observation coupled with the absurd reality that it’s men who are its prescriptivists, it’s certainly a funny argument you’re pushing, and I promise the irony is not lost on me.

Dont project your exes situation on us as a whole, your lack of statistical discernment is worrying.

My partner doesn't wear a hijab and nor did any of my previous relationships.So that would be an explicit counterexample.

Furthermore your X still had the preconceived notion of base religiosity. Even liberal members of Islam are against non-hijabis due to the relationship not having an outward religious basis.

He wanted a relationship where the outside world would see him as religious and you accepted that role through wearing a hijab.
You broke the role and obviously that caused some internal rifts.

Next time you enter a relationship, instead of expecting magic you should be explicit & implicit in your non-religiosity. This reduces your pool of Somali men but attracts those who are a fit.

I won't argue that the somali community is not zealous in nature but that marginalized small communities are actually more insular in nature and thus are more zealous then larger Somali populations.

Good luck.

 

[VixR]

Dont project your exes situation on us as a whole, your lack of statistical discernment is worrying.

My partner doesn't wear a hijab and nor did any of my previous relationships.So that would be an explicit counterexample.

Furthermore your X still had the preconceived notion of base religiosity. Even liberal members of Islam are against non-hijabis due to the relationship not having an outward religious basis.

He wanted a relationship where the outside world would see him as religious and you accepted that role through wearing a hijab.
You broke the role and obviously that caused some internal rifts.

Next time you enter a relationship, instead of expecting magic you should be explicit & implicit in your non-religiosity. This reduces your pool of Somali men but attracts those who are a fit.

I won't argue that the somali community is not zealous in nature but that marginalized small communities are actually more insular in nature and thus are more zealous then larger Somali populations.

Good luck.

You have severe reading comprehension, I’m sorry to say.

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

That rice look good af shieeet

 

[astorecalledkmart]

Being Muslim, I'm looking at it from the opposite direction, but I agree with @VixR in that Somalis are obsessed with the hijab to a fault. Many non-practicing Somalis are often more concerned with worldly appearance and the opinion of other Somalis, rather than the deen. Also, while admittedly many do, not all Somali men think badly about Somali girls who don't wear hijab walaal