Majority are Especially when it comes to domestic chores Ive witnessed and I know a lot of guys who didnt do any help at home cause it wasnt expected of them to do any chores
Theres 2 reasons for this cause the first is wives expect and tolerate it
When you have grown up in a house where your mother has tolerated your fathers refusal to help, you expect your husband to be the same way
around the house.
The 2nd one is guys expect it I mean same as women, when they have grown up in an environment where your mom did all the household work and your dad didn't lift a finger to help leads to them having similar expectations of their own marriage
And I know others who did help.Me I was no exception to this I mean being the eldest son of 9 children.
I had to learn how to cook entire meals for the family like bariis, baasto, pizza, lasanga and on top of that bake bread all of this at the age of 12.
My moms reasoning was that a good husband cooks for his spouse and good wife cooks for her husband, While that could very well be true i felt like she wanted me to set an example for my siblings.
I kinda hated it in the beginning cause it felt unfair but that feeling dissappeared when I realized I was helping my family and with time I actually gotta liking for it and now Im a great cook if I say so myself.
Theres 2 reasons for this cause the first is wives expect and tolerate it
When you have grown up in a house where your mother has tolerated your fathers refusal to help, you expect your husband to be the same way
around the house.
The 2nd one is guys expect it I mean same as women, when they have grown up in an environment where your mom did all the household work and your dad didn't lift a finger to help leads to them having similar expectations of their own marriage
And I know others who did help.Me I was no exception to this I mean being the eldest son of 9 children.
I had to learn how to cook entire meals for the family like bariis, baasto, pizza, lasanga and on top of that bake bread all of this at the age of 12.
My moms reasoning was that a good husband cooks for his spouse and good wife cooks for her husband, While that could very well be true i felt like she wanted me to set an example for my siblings.
I kinda hated it in the beginning cause it felt unfair but that feeling dissappeared when I realized I was helping my family and with time I actually gotta liking for it and now Im a great cook if I say so myself.