Samaalic Era
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You cant make food sxb. Your female relatives will make it and you have to ask.
If you make your own food, you will become the local clown
Somali men how do you approach somali women who you are attracted to ?
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If you make your own food, you will become the local clown
Looool wtf it's not that emasculating. Somalis are something elseA man cooking in Somalia almost seen as blasphamy. I once washed my plate and my relatives were making dua that no one else saw
You cant make food sxb. Your female relatives will make it and you have to ask.
If you make your own food, you will become the local clown
lucky u get to be lazy while i have to make own food every morning and evening
Since autism is on the rise on the Somali communities in the diaspora, Somali parents should seriously think in organising programs like this for their adult autistic children because it will help them with their social skills in establishing strong relationships/marriage with others.
That's great and all but are you implying you sense autism in OP?
That's great and all but are you implying you sense autism in OP?
@Kanini
Quiet the contrary, since the thread is on approaching females, I'm just highlighting their dilemma because there might be others who suffer from autism and asking themselves the same question and it might be helpful to them. I know a couple of autistic Somalis who will never find a partner on their own and get married and they will be shipped to Africa to get married to someone who will never understand them.
Damn that took a sad turn because it's so true but i'm glad you care though
@Kanini
Ty, many others suffer from social anxiety and would find approaching and socialising with others excruciating painful. They need help too.
Please give me tips and advice THANK YOU
Why only Somali women bro? There's lots of other females out there too...keep your options open & do no limit yourself to just 1 group of women
Tip on approaching any women
1st look presentable...clean cut...well groomed...clothes crispy...a little bit of aftershave or perfume helps
Confident...
Start off the convo how you would chat to any of your friends
Thats it
Get her contact details if she gives them to you
Socials
Her digits...whatever
Holla at her
Set up a date
See how it plays out
If she rejects you just laugh it off and walk away...she probably had a shitty personality anyway lol don't say that to her tho
One tip.
If you do all the basics, like grooming yourself in a nice presentable way, being a good listener, showing that you do care and she is not interested, remember always to turn her into a good friend because she might have a change of heart about you or she could become a great asset as a good friend in introducing and recommending you to her friends and relatives. Be always confident (not cocky) and friendly and No, rejection never killed a man.
If you do all the basics, like grooming yourself in a nice presentable way, being a good listener, showing that you do care and she is not interested, remember always to turn her into a good friend because she might have a change of heart about you or she could become a great asset as a good friend in introducing and recommending you to her friends and relatives. Be always confident (not cocky) and friendly and No, rejection never killed a man.
@Younes Osman, A ex-Londoner to a Londoner.
I am married to a life-long sweetheart of mine. Same school for the most before I left. I was a typical boy. Annoy her so that I can get her attention. Then start to compete in tests to ensure that I beat her. After that, getting close to her brothers, friends and her cousins. Made them my best mates. I continued this cycle, even when I left the country. At the end, I got it, the love of my life. But the main thing is that, a) If you have a girl in mind, keep it, do not change it. b) Do not act big. Acting big will get you the wrong ones, the s. c) When and if you annoy her, make sure you end it with a sorry. Even if she is annoying, you apologize. She was a beautiful one and I was fat as f*** (Back then). She was way out of my league!
P.S - Look clean and presentable. Beauty yourself
My advice to you is this!
I am married to a life-long sweetheart of mine. Same school for the most before I left. I was a typical boy. Annoy her so that I can get her attention. Then start to compete in tests to ensure that I beat her. After that, getting close to her brothers, friends and her cousins. Made them my best mates. I continued this cycle, even when I left the country. At the end, I got it, the love of my life. But the main thing is that, a) If you have a girl in mind, keep it, do not change it. b) Do not act big. Acting big will get you the wrong ones, the s. c) When and if you annoy her, make sure you end it with a sorry. Even if she is annoying, you apologize. She was a beautiful one and I was fat as f*** (Back then). She was way out of my league!
P.S - Look clean and presentable. Beauty yourself
My advice to you is this!
Luciddreamer
Certified bakhti
A man cooking in Somalia almost seen as blasphamy. I once washed my plate and my relatives were making dua that no one else saw
I wear these when i wash the dishes idgaf
Everyone in my house doesnt give a fk and pile their sht on my mom so sometimes i help out.
Kudos brother. I was indeed the same, the maid to my mother, but It was done for a good cause!I wear these when i wash the dishes idgaf
Everyone in my house doesnt give a fk and pile their sht on my mom so sometimes i help out.
Luciddreamer
Certified bakhti
I think that makes us the manliest men out here and we should be celebrated tbh
At the beginning I was mocked, even if I cooked for my mom, my brother would say I am the female and something is wrong with me. Well guess what people, I am the funder of their education and everything. The female became the male!
Galaxy brainwoman i like that
Sxb, did you just make up a character for me? I’m honored. I’ve always wanted to be a superhero.
where’s my credit?
Sorry, I screwed up.
I have never approached a Somali woman in my life, and probably never will, and yet I am married to a Somali woman.
Some however take normal small talk as a signal that you are interested, which is interesting. I once said good morning to a sister, and asked for the time. She proceeded to go on a diatribe about how men and women cannot interact and that I should speak with her father if I wanted to proceed anything further with her.
. I was honestly gobsmacked as we went to the same university and she was talking with non mahram males every single day.
Some however take normal small talk as a signal that you are interested, which is interesting. I once said good morning to a sister, and asked for the time. She proceeded to go on a diatribe about how men and women cannot interact and that I should speak with her father if I wanted to proceed anything further with her.
. I was honestly gobsmacked as we went to the same university and she was talking with non mahram males every single day.Trending
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