Somali Sister has an Advice for Somalis who travel for BBL Surgery

First time I heard the #BBL term was here in SSPOT and was recent. :jcoleno::holeup::kodaksmiley:


Any how, this Somali sister has an advice to Somalis who go to Turkey or Dominican Republic to get #BBL . 👇


 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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It has one of the highest fatality rates for aesthetic procedures. It also looks wildly unnatural. I say accept your lot in life or work out and change your diet.

I'm very much against body modification unless it improves someone's quality of life. I'd strongly advise they get psychological/psychiatric counseling beforehand to interrogate why they are motivated to change their appearance radically.

I blame social media for this 'dis-ease.'
 
It has one of the highest fatality rates for aesthetic procedures. It also looks wildly unnatural. I say accept your lot in life or work out and change your diet.

I'm very much against body modification unless it improves someone's quality of life. I'd strongly advise they get psychological/psychiatric counseling beforehand to interrogate why they are motivated to change their appearance radically.

I blame social media for this 'dis-ease.'
I genuinely believe all human beings are beautiful if we only eat right, drink water, exercise regularly and smile more. Sad that our beautiful Somali qalanjos think so lowly of their bodies so as to seek body modification.

Also, as a guy when I see a woman with plastic surgery its an immediate turn off because its just like she's so overtly fake about who she is and is willing to do the most for public preception. Guys can really only enjoy natural women. Plastic surgery women are just for optics.
 

Qeelbax

East Africa UNUKA LEH
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I didn’t know abdis were getting bbls like that. Them asses been looking fatter lately, wasn’t just me.
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Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
I genuinely believe all human beings are beautiful if we only eat right, drink water, exercise regularly and smile more. Sad that our beautiful Somali qalanjos think so lowly of their bodies so as to seek body modification.

Also, as a guy when I see a woman with plastic surgery its an immediate turn off because its just like she's so overtly fake about who she is and is willing to do the most for public preception. Guys can really only enjoy natural women. Plastic surgery women are just for optics.
I miss the good old days when plastic surgery was prohibitively expensive for the common person. Now you have people risking their lives as medical tourists in developing countries merely for some social media validation. I presume most of those who die from these procedures have fat grafts injected into a muscle and go for lower-budget options. Only to succumb to a fatal pulmonary embolism.

I blame the increasing trend in this surgery (disproportionately among women of colour) due to social media influencers and reality tv contributing to this exaggerated frame's popularity. I think aiming for an aesthetic because it's on trend will come back to haunt you when you become an ayeeyo. Gravity comes for everyone. Imagine a paralyzed face from excessive botox and a dislocated hip from an old BBL.

:stressed: These people are not thinking of their quality of life years later. Even the inveterate plastic surgery addict Kim Kardashian is trying to shrink her infamous diaper booty.
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I miss the good old days when plastic surgery was prohibitively expensive for the common person. Now you have people risking their lives as medical tourists in developing countries merely for some social media validation. I presume most of those who die from these procedures have fat grafts injected into a muscle and go for lower-budget options. Only to succumb to a fatal pulmonary embolism.

I blame the increasing trend in this surgery (disproportionately among women of colour) due to social media influencers and reality tv contributing to this exaggerated frame's popularity. I think aiming for an aesthetic because it's on trend will come back to haunt you when you become an ayeeyo. Gravity comes for everyone. Imagine a paralyzed face from excessive botox and a dislocated hip from an old BBL.

:stressed: These people are not thinking of their quality of life years later. Even the inveterate plastic surgery addict Kim Kardashian is trying to shrink her infamous diaper booty.
Kim-Kardashian-Butt-Implants-Plastic-Surgery-claims.jpg
I do not know what Kanye was thinking when he encouraged his wife to get it done.

I miss the good old days too. Days when life was simple. I think social media is not the root cause. The root cause of the demand for these sorts of bodies is the sexual immaturity of popular music (mainly mainstream Hip Hop culture) as well as the rampant consumption of p0rnography which have portrayed women as mere sexual objects.

I actually have a Somali cousin who wanted to get a BBL done. I thought she was joking at first but overtime I realised she was being very serious. This cousin of mine has long been very insecure about her body, even though she is physically fit and healthy. She isn't dark skinned but complains about being too dark and proceeds to bleach her skin. I vividly remember going to her house a few years ago and using the bathroom only to see piles of bleaching creams there. It was so scary. Whats even more interesting is she is very young, like 28. I wouldn't have expected that sort of behaviour from our generation.

Its nice to know that women like you exist. May Allah bless you with youthfulness all throughout your life. And may He enable our sisters to be content in His perfection of their bodies.
 

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I can’t see why a modest xalima should ever get a bum surgery. Where are the fathers where is the xishood. Isnt these kind of procedures xaram?
 
I can’t see why a modest xalima should ever get a bum surgery. Where are the fathers where is the xishood. Isnt these kind of procedures xaram?
Will you be as angry about these procedures being haram as you are about FGM being equally haram? Where are Somali fathers to protect their daughters from FGM which is a haram practice?

 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
I do not know what Kanye was thinking when he encouraged his wife to get it done.
She was a plastic surgery addict well before him.
I miss the good old days too. Days when life was simple. I think social media is not the root cause. The root cause of the demand for these sorts of bodies is the sexual immaturity of popular music (mainly mainstream Hip Hop culture) as well as the rampant consumption of p0rnography which have portrayed women as mere sexual objects.
Beauty ideals are subject to flux and flow. What was acceptable in size 20 years ago has radically changed. Athleticism was emphasized in the 2000s-2010s. This was displaced by the Instagram baddie generation of the 2010s-2020s. Essentially the inflated lips, narrow waist, and unnatural curves. No offense but the current aesthetic looks somewhat inflamed. Even in certain subcultures, an AA woman from the 90s or 00s would be seen as too thin and toned by today's standards. :jcoleno:
I actually have a Somali cousin who wanted to get a BBL done. I thought she was joking at first but overtime I realised she was being very serious. This cousin of mine has long been very insecure about her body, even though she is physically fit and healthy. She isn't dark skinned but complains about being too dark and proceeds to bleach her skin. I vividly remember going to her house a few years ago and using the bathroom only to see piles of bleaching creams there. It was so scary. Whats even more interesting is she is very young, like 28. I wouldn't have expected that sort of behaviour from our generation.
She's quite young. Sorry to hear that she's insecure about her appearance. I suggest she shut off her socials and possibly consider therapy.
Its nice to know that women like you exist. May Allah bless you with youthfulness all throughout your life. And may He enable our sisters to be content in His perfection of their bodies.
Thank you. I'm far from young, but Alx, Somali genes come in handy. I feel we can maximize what were have from proper sleep, hydration, and nutrition. Even then, some are very lucky. My older cousin is 50+ and looks 30. She started having kids in her 40s and is still quite thin. Mash'Allah.
 
I can’t see why a modest xalima should ever get a bum surgery. Where are the fathers where is the xishood. Isnt these kind of procedures xaram?
God-fearing ones you mean. Don't think it's about modesty per say, as i've seen covered abaya wearing Arab women get boob and bbl procedures to impress husbands or maybe for their own self-esteem. A covered/modest woman might not want to impress the masses, but they're still susceptible to social media standards and want to look good for themselves or partner.

I don't know what fathers have to do with this, as a grown woman can always lie and say it is for xyz. What daughter is going to be upfront and tell her father she's going to get a bbl?

It is haram, but we have some crazy Islamic speakers saying it is acceptable to do this such as boob job for your husband ect. Personally I find it degrading and illogical. Isn't it crazy how some of them think. Very male centered. Something that would be haram in any other scenario become halal when it comes to the male libido. I don't know who they're fooling.
 
Really? Black women have a low Plastic surgery rate for their population. I’m not surprised that it’s bbls they’d want.
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That's what I read ,maybe it's the pressure or stereotype that all BW have big futo's so those women who are flat want those "black" features aswell :hmm:
 

Qeelbax

East Africa UNUKA LEH
VIP
That's what I read ,maybe it's the pressure or stereotype that all BW have big futo's so those women who are flat want those "black" features aswell :hmm:
Maybe, but I think it’s the ones who looks sloppy. Like they are heavy and don’t want the stomach fat or they don’t exercise so their bum isn’t looking too great. No exersice with a big bum can look disastrous so they get a lift.
 

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