Yea I understand that she repented but i still have no respect for them nerdy cuckmalian niggas since they the ones that rlly failed to do a background check at first
Some men don’t care if you have a past.
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attash
Amaan Duule
If she has the skills to get with a successful faarax now even with her past, she could have done it ages ago. The reason why she got with him now is because she realized that she's about to hit the wall and she needs to settle down quick. Face it, she sees him as just a walking, breathing bank account. Even the way you talk about him shows this, saying that she "secured the bag" and such.
Imagine totally devoting yourself to a woman who doesn't even love you and sees you as just a debit card that can talk. Just thinking about it is depressing.
Even if she had a past sexual experience it is between her and Allah. She has right not to expose her sins to you or any husband to be
That’s fine, she shouldn’t deceive men.
if a man says he requires a virgin & she knows she is not one. She should just say that we are not gonna work out & end it without having to expose her “sins” & not make him throw a wedding for an unchaste women.
Garaad Awal
Zubeyri aka Targaryen of the Awalid Kingdom.
The guy she married is taking an L and so are any future children produced by that union.
It’s not unfair. It’s natural for a women to go for her interests.
I don’t blame her a single bit.
I blame the cuck
Lmaoo now I understand why this thread is going the way it is it’s a bunch of ciyaal and teens up in here. I thought I was talking to adults.
Get some life experience first before engaging in these types of discussions. Not even 20 yet kulaha
Yeah, its a bunch of 18 year old boys with zero life experience and a lot of false bravado.
We have enough life experiences to not end up with a wh0re
The only odd thing is the extreme examples given. Some highly experienced woman with a shocking past or a virgin.
The interesting thing is you don't even know who is a virgin or what that looks like? That is what scares you most. Uncertainty.
That girl in the jilbaab might not be a virgin. While that outgoing and self-focused non-hijaabi could be. That ambivert girl who is scholarly in the abaya might be. While the hijabi influencer might not be. You simply cannot tell. I understand the anxiety. The fear that maybe just maybe your daughter will take after their mother who had a past. It is smart to marry wisely but there is no telling. Also, children might be radically different from their parents. The hilarious thing is some of these habos in their youth who were crazy can have miskeen daughters.Conversely, a crazy hooyo could be a poor role model.
My parents know their peers and I have Intel but gosh. I was suprised. Appearances are deceiving.
For the most part, I think there are more virgins in the Somali community than these ludicrous estimates. As Somalis we are from a conservative faith and more adherent than many. It's an easier bet. The stories of the former hijabi turned Love Island contestant is not the norm. If you don't know the past of a girl or her associates and you lack faith than don't marry her. I have been lied to by Abdis about their past but I fact checked. At this stage I would rather an honest, consistent and reliable person with active listening skills. I know good boys who earn 6 figures that lack in that. I myself have never been with anyone and I don't even date but I have a low threshold for emotional immaturity and those who don't do the inner work or who refuse personal development. You guys talk too much about virginity (which is a bare minimum expectation) and not enough about what makes marriages and courtship last and flourish which is loyalty, consistency, committement, integrity, exemplary communication and compassion on both sides.
All this is true, laakin iska guurso sis.
Do you want children?
Feisty.
attash
Amaan Duule
How long did it take you to make that?
You don’t know if she is unchaste or not she could have asked forgiveness to Allah it’s none of your business or concerns. Men like you never hold the same standards to men you all only worry about what’s between a woman’s legs and what she does with it and these days if she smiles yall think she’s doing something with someone
get a grip.learn to respect women
That’s not true.
this is what I said to a girl on this thread, this is the thing about you, you judge me so quickly.
On a WH000000REThought that 50k mehr shit was a meme. Niggas dropping whole salary amounts on only mehr? In this economy?
I would understand if he dropped 50k on a young 16 year old virgin from back home. She is in her prime & her value is up there. But a dh1lo oo dhamaatay that has been around the block & smashed all his niggas and bragged about it too. Subxnallah
Reminds me of this pic
Even the dog got to hit before that cuckmalianOn a WH000000RE
I would understand if he dropped 50k on a young 16 year old virgin from back home. She is in her prime & her value is up there. But a dh1lo oo dhamaatay that has been around the block & smashed all his niggas and bragged about it too. Subxnallah
Reminds me of this pic
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