Terrible older brother Somali edition

[Killamenace78]

Wllhi I’m proud of the comment section these accounts are here to divide us

kulaha “why have we all not spoken to ours in 6 years”

 

[Internet Nomad]

People really need to stop generalising their personal traumas.

 

[Ozark]

Most siblings end up getting along as they grow older.

 

[Homerlilian]

People really need to stop generalising their personal traumas.

I’ve cited this many times but some xalimo on reddit claimed 60 percent of Somali homes were fatherless .

 

[Kisame]

Wllhi I’m proud of the comment section these accounts are here to divide us
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kulaha “why have we all not spoken to ours in 6 years”

People really need to stop generalising their personal traumas.

Personally I've only met one guy who was super controlling of his siblings. I recently found out he spent a portion of his childhood in the Gulf so Im just going to blame the Arab influence.

 

[Kisame]

I’ve cited this many times but some xalimo on reddit claimed 60 percent of Somali homes were fatherless .

They consider households as single parent homes if the father works all day and doesn't develop a relationship with his kids. So even if he theoretically isn't a deadbeat most people would still consider him a bad father. Hence why these guys are lumped in with the deadbeats.


I've said it on here before but I was genuinely surprised to see the amount of somalis complaining about deadbeat dads. It seems we have a lot of older men that wanted kids but had no interest in actually being an active father. The Somali way of raising kids doesn't work in the west.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

I’ve cited this many times but some xalimo on reddit claimed 60 percent of Somali homes were fatherless .

That thread went viral suugo science at its finest

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

They consider households as single parent homes if the father works all day and doesn't develop a relationship with his kids. So even if he theoretically isn't a deadbeat most people would still consider him a bad father. Hence why these guys are lumped in with the deadbeats.


I've said it on here before but I was genuinely surprised to see the amount of somalis complaining about deadbeat dads. It seems we have a lot of older men that wanted kids but had no interest in actually being an active father. The Somali way of raising kids doesn't work in the west.

The problem is their comparing their parents to western white parents which makes no sense we come from a different part of the world and have a different religion

 

[Homerlilian]

That thread went viral suugo science at its finest

The whole thread was telling her off but she was still saying otherwise .

it was clear as day projection of their own personal trauma . I really do hope she has a good relationship with her father

 

[Kisame]

The problem is their comparing their parents to western white parents which makes no sense

They were raised in the west bro. Seeing the standard of living privileged Cadaans have compared to poor minorities would definitely piss people off. In the west the best kids come from two parent middle/upper households. None of these people complaining asked to be born as well. They were given a childhood of suffering without permission.

A lot of poor kids are destined to fail. Especially if they were raised in a household without an active father figure.

 

[Yami]

Part 2088 of Somalis thinking the entire ethnicity is a hivemind with shared experiences

 

[Homerlilian]

They consider households as single parent homes if the father works all day and doesn't develop a relationship with his kids. So even if he theoretically isn't a deadbeat most people would still consider him a bad father. Hence why these guys are lumped in with the deadbeats.


I've said it on here before but I was genuinely surprised to see the amount of somalis complaining about deadbeat dads. It seems we have a lot of older men that wanted kids but had no interest in actually being an active father. The Somali way of raising kids doesn't work in the west.

I actually agree with you as far as fathers being active in their kids day to day lives instead of thinking his only role is to Put money on the table .

Incel epidemic , femcel epedemic etc would cease to exist if fathers instilled the right value into their kids lives . I have a father in my life I can’t put my head around half of these peoples antics without having brain rot

 

[rayxn3]

I’ve cited this many times but some xalimo on reddit claimed 60 percent of Somali homes were fatherless .

From the outside looking in, I would also assume most Somalis are fatherless.

 

[Laiss]

Wllhi I’m proud of the comment section these accounts are here to divide us
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kulaha “why have we all not spoken to ours in 6 years”

I’m so lucky I don’t have brothers. All my Somali friends with brothers were abused.. one of them beat my ex friend black & blue & his hooyo got mad at her daughter for calling the cops

 

[mrlog]

People really need to stop generalising their personal traumas.

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[Laiss]

Part 2088 of Somalis thinking the entire ethnicity is a hivemind with shared experiences

Are you a man or a girl

 

[Nin123]

Personally I've only met one guy who was super controlling of his siblings. I recently found out he spent a portion of his childhood in the Gulf so Im just going to blame the Arab influence.

Gaal ass boy

 

[Internet Nomad]

We are in high demand for psychologists within the somali community a lot of you niggas got weird family dynamics.

Alx i grew up in a stable household with both parents. They might not be highly educated but they were present and loving.

I think majority of somalis are the same. Its the people with fucked up family dynamics that are the loud minority. Normal people don’t make threads about their household because its boringly normal. Only people with fucked up household dynamics have made threads so they get over represented.

 

[scarecrow]

Most siblings end up getting along as they grow older.

True my older brother was the worst growing up literally caused a lot of my trauma, worst of the worst. Bullied me and used to beat me for no reason 13 years older than me. Anyway more than 20 years later he is the one there for me always and my closest sibling didn’t happen over night but people do change. So your statement is very true.

 

[seoulmates]

Her generalizing was wrong, but whenever Somalis open up about their trauma (especially women) you lot try to downplay their experiences.