My muslim friends, majority get pushed by there family to get married quickly, on the other hand my mother never has brought it up once and im in my mid 20’s
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My mom wants me to get married at 22-24 or when I get a stable job. I plan on getting married at 26-28 so I can experience life first. So I have 10 years before I can start the mehr debatesMy muslim friends, majority get pushed by there family to get married quickly, on the other hand my mother never has brought it up once and im in my mid 20’s
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only one married late, my sister in her 30’s last year, the rest early 20’s.
If you’re a man, it’s more acceptable/better to marry late. As for a girl, people expect them to marry earlier.
King Khufu
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Not everyone has the same calling nor life path.
Some are for the hustle (job, money, career)
Some are for the love (relationships, marriage)
Yet it's upto us to decide which part of that will become of us!
And at points one may have to do both to keep it all. Something to be considered, heh.
Take Time.
Some are for the hustle (job, money, career)
Some are for the love (relationships, marriage)
Yet it's upto us to decide which part of that will become of us!
And at points one may have to do both to keep it all. Something to be considered, heh.
Take Time.
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Why would you say that
Hmm, it depends. My mom got married at 27 and had kids at 29 and everything is happy.
I know it’s not the age that you get married that matters but I was just saying once you approach you mid 20s, parents who emphasize marriage have your best interest at heart. You’ll sometimes meet parents that discourage or never mention marriage and that’s not a good sign.
Abu Hesi
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I have some family members where the Men married in their 40's and the women in their 30's.
Lol not criticizing your mom, I’m just talking generally lolWhy would you say that
My mother got married at 16, i thought she would encourgae me to get married young too
Abu Hesi
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if she struggled a lot in her marriage she will probably delay her encouragement.My mother got married at 16, i thought she would encourgae me to get married young too
Abdisamad
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For the most part parents who doesn't wish their daughters to get married are dependent on an extra income their child brings home each month, I have seen some moms who are like this..
Abdisamad
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Thats very early wallahi.. Anyway you should start finding yourself a suitable manMy mother got married at 16, i thought she would encourgae me to get married young too
My mom was the same way, she never pressured any of her children to get married. But alhamdulilah I decided to marry at 23 after 4 years of getting to know him. It was the best decision I’ve made because it worked well for us. And in reality that’s all that matters, do what works best for you waalal.
