For those who've been there, what did you only realize when you got there? How to avoid getting yourself in danger? What to do? What certain cities are like? And etc
Where did you live??Don't wear shorts
Don't wear a wifebeater
Only drink bottled water and soda
Don't eat at the restaurants or you'll get terrible food poisoning
Make sure the maids wash the meat before cooking
Some homes only have outhouses
Don't go outside at night without a car
Always take your local cousin with you to the stores or you'll get hustled bad
Never be seen with a non relative girl alone
Never turn down an invitation to eat at a guest or relatives house because they make a shit ton of food for you and it's the biggest insult to turn it down.
No one prays there (outside of my family at least) but never talk about atheism or lack of belief with anyone even though alot of people insult Islamic figures there for some reason
Always make sure you leave your shoes and belongings in a hidden place because guests always come in and out of the house and will rob you
Where did you live??
Don't wear shorts
Nah I wore shorts. Wearing shorts is ok if they go past your knees.
Can't be wearing short shorts.
It does though because there are some cities or villages where Somalis aren't that religious. Plus many people pray at home, My brother used to go to friday prayer right after dugsi but other days he and my family pray at home. Even mosques are used to learn kids or adults Quran sometimes, So there are no space to pray. I can confirm since I have practically lived there all my life.Doesn't matter.
People only pray Jumah and the entire outside of the mosque is full. Every other prayer, the mosques are only at 25% capacity.
Rumour has it... if you are a girl you have to wear a jilbaab or they'll call you a and throw stones at you. I'm just SHOCKED at the absurdity of that.
Also be aware of the locals (all do this) who pick their nose in public. They will roll it in a ball with their fingers and will flick it at any direction with total disregard at whose direction they threw it at. It can end up landing in your mouth or face if you don't pay attention (also common among London Somalis if you ever go there).
Also, make sure not too ask for extra food all the time because they usually save a plate for any poor locals who come by who are hungry.
It does though because there are some cities or villages where Somalis aren't that religious. Plus many people pray at home, My brother used to go to friday prayer right after dugsi but other days he and my family pray at home. Even mosques are used to learn kids or adults Quran sometimes, So there are no space to pray. I can confirm since I have practically lived there all my life.
No one prays there (outside of my family at least)
You won't stop even after we've meme tf out of your stupidity
When I was in Hargeisa, I used to pray in Ali Matan (3 floors) quite often because it's in the city centre and I'd always see people praying outside..That's just one mosque.
All y'all hear is rumors, This isn't actually true. Even habaryars and ayeewalk with baatis and loose hijabs and no one says a thing. Youmg girls tend to be catcalled and even raped, But no one throws stones. Maybe they call her behind her back and spread rumours but that stuff rarely happens.Rumour has it... if you are a girl you have to wear a jilbaab or they'll call you a and throw stones at you. I'm just SHOCKED at the absurdity of that.
BeentaInteresting. I guess that was because its downtown. Every neighborhood had like a mosque every two blocks. I'm not familiar with Hargeisa.