What would you do if you found out partner lied about their virginity ?

[x z]

What if your background check missed out a few things and you find out much later in your marriage that your spouse had either a less pious path before you, or completely lied about previous marriages etc. ?

Grounds for divorce or does love power through those issues ?

Inspired by a YouTube video

 

[486th President]

Selling them to Al Shabab heard they need women for slave work and stuff

 

[Boogie]

Selling them to Al Shabab heard they need women for slave work and stuff

 

[Juliet]

What he or she did BEFORE they even knew you isn’t your business.

 

[Boogie]

What he or she did BEFORE they even knew you isn’t your business. Get over yourself

Common L

 

[Naa]

I would be upset cause they lied. I don't know if I would leave them though. if they left that lifestyle behind then it's not that serious.

They're still a liar tho

 

[486th President]

What he or she did BEFORE they even knew you isn’t your business.

They lied to you?

 

[Sloane Ranger]

I have every right to know about the kind of person I'm dealing with. Selling my a false reality is out of line and I'd get divorced immediately. I hate liars and frauds, I hate the idea of being married to one.

 

[x z]

Selling them to Al Shabab heard they need women for slave work and stuff

Answer like an adult although I know you’re 14

 

[486th President]

Answer like an adult although I know you’re 14

I’m 15 for your information I’ll slam her across the door and keep her in the attic may she love me forever

 

[x z]

What he or she did BEFORE they even knew you isn’t your business.

Elaborate ?

I definitely don’t want to be walking down the mall with my man and him awkwardly exchanging eyes with nearly every girl, them thinking ‘does she know he used to Darbi Saar me’

Especially as Muslims, we have every right to know ones past before deciding our future together

 

[Naa]

I’m 15 for your information I’ll slam her across the door and keep her in the attic may she love me forever

Awww that's so sweet

 

[x z]

I have every right to know about the kind of person I'm dealing with. Selling my a false reality is out of line and I'd get divorced immediately. I hate liars and frauds, I hate the idea of being married to one.

Do you think there will ever be a situation where you’d consider it though, cause everyone says never say never and you might end up in the situation and not know how to act.

I’d need people to reassure me about myself, cause love is dangerous and can blind you, you might corrupt your morals and beliefs for a a sakhajaan

 

[x z]

I’m 15 for your information I’ll slam her across the door and keep her in the attic may she love me forever

I know you’re 15 but I’m saying 14 to further infantilize you.

 

[Juliet]

Elaborate ?

I definitely don’t want to be walking down the mall with my man and him awkwardly exchanging eyes with nearly every girl, them thinking ‘does she know he used to Darbi Saar me’

Especially as Muslims, we have every right to know ones past before deciding our future together

I don’t care what he did in his past and he shouldn’t care what I did, as long as we remain loyal to each other

 

[Jakarta]

It depends on the woman. If she truly repented, and you’re already married to her then what you gonna do?

Divorce her and tell people it’s due to her not so pious past?

You’ve already fallen into the hole. So it’s best to forgive and hide her faults.

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[KaiMarvin]

I'm out of there unless she hooks me up with one her fine friends to even it out

 

[Sloane Ranger]

Do you think there will ever be a situation where you’d consider it though, cause everyone says never say never and you might end up in the situation and not know how to act.

I’d need people to reassure me about myself, cause love is dangerous and can blind you, you might corrupt your morals and beliefs for a a sakhajaan

I highly doubt that. I don't trust people naturally so if I found out my husband lied about such a thing I wouldn't be able to trust him again. It's disrespectful to sell people a false reality and if he is lying about this then what else? Why not be honest and let me decide from the start if I can accept his past ?

 

[Shogun]

I would say I am generally quite patient and understanding, but that is an instant divorce. Especially if she is Somali because she should know better.

 

[Lostbox]

So generous of you to think I can get a partner