If you're marrying from back home marry a second cousin or some other family.Other woman will exploit u and chew you out.Woman back home respect their parents really highly so if their dad is already your adeer or adeer labaad theres a lower chance of them wronging you.Generally I understand that marrying a woman from here or home both have their pros and cons, and im heavily conflicted.This is the only situation saxib where incest is wincest,and in this scenario it is best if your parents find/recommend the girl for u.