I saw a topic on another forum, where a woman talked about how when she was 13 years old, she and her friends were approached by a woman, who said she wanted to invite them to a Madow Hollywood party. Before she brought them to the party, she bought them some dresses and heels to wear.
She got lucky, because one of the men at the party, told her to stick by him, and he told other men to leave her alone. He told her to leave and never return, and if he saw her again, he'd beat her. This man saved her life, because her counterparts all turned into drug addicts, sex workers etc.
Anyway, these are not isolated incidents. Either a 'cute' boy will approach a young girl, pretend to be her boyfriend, groom her, and pimp her out, or a woman does (who herself was likely a childhood victim). A lot of times, this happens to girls from poor family structures, orphans, or those who have been caught slipping outside without parental supervision.
As for Somali 'parties', I've heard too many cases of girls being roofied and gang-raped. There is no such thing as a 'safe' party. And don't trust a girl or a woman who invites you either, for all you know, she's a pimp herself, or the pimp's intermediary.
It used to happen in Somalia too, where women set other women up to be raped, inviting them to houses where there are men lurking. Some of these women are part of the 'misery loves company' crowd, and want others to go through what they went through.
She got lucky, because one of the men at the party, told her to stick by him, and he told other men to leave her alone. He told her to leave and never return, and if he saw her again, he'd beat her. This man saved her life, because her counterparts all turned into drug addicts, sex workers etc.
Anyway, these are not isolated incidents. Either a 'cute' boy will approach a young girl, pretend to be her boyfriend, groom her, and pimp her out, or a woman does (who herself was likely a childhood victim). A lot of times, this happens to girls from poor family structures, orphans, or those who have been caught slipping outside without parental supervision.
As for Somali 'parties', I've heard too many cases of girls being roofied and gang-raped. There is no such thing as a 'safe' party. And don't trust a girl or a woman who invites you either, for all you know, she's a pimp herself, or the pimp's intermediary.
It used to happen in Somalia too, where women set other women up to be raped, inviting them to houses where there are men lurking. Some of these women are part of the 'misery loves company' crowd, and want others to go through what they went through.