Where are the Somali virgin guys?

[Anab]

Do they even exist? I was speaking to a guy recently and the topic of virginity came up. He was taken aback I asked him that and said something along the lines of: find me a Somali guy who is a virgin. I felt disgusted and slowly dissociated myself from him. My question is: why are somali guys either horn dogs who f*ck anything in sight/ non-virgins or basement dwellers with no self esteem?

Even the ones who are virgins are crazy, wanking every night and are only virgins because they don't have the confidence to speak to a girl. Are there any somali guys out there who are keeping their virginity out of self control? It seems like you have to settle with one or the other

 

[ALittleBitItalian]

The amount of somali virgins are equal for both men and women. If anybody from both of these groups want to engage in premarital sex, then there isn't away to stop them.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

I am a virgin somali dude. 20 years old

To answer your question it all the depends truly on the person. For me personally even though I'm not super religious I always stay away from the major sins atleast.i don't drink, I don't smoke, and right now I'm not really trying to get into a relationship. at this point I have had opporutnities to have sex but I wasn't really attracted to those chicks. So it was pretty easy to curve those chicks. I have been trying to become a better muslim for the past year and I am on the right track. before I was literally a Ramadan muslim. also since I messed up in college my first two years I have been focused on school a lot more So I haven't really been chasing after females at school. I have met some pretty nice and cool chicks but I just haven't pursued. I don't want to bring a girl along with me right while I'm trying to boost my gpa.

I recently found out a lot of somali dudes aren't virgins. I honestly just guessed that they didnt' really agree with the concept of staying chaste till marriage so they decided to start dating and fucking other chicks. I went to the masjid a lot with these dudes and I thought honestly they were more religious than I was since they went to duqsi longer than me and memorized more surahs than me.But these dudes turned out wilder than I thought. I live in the west so during high school being a virgin seemed wack. you earned some cool points if you weren't a virgin.

overall there are some of us out there. A lot of us grew up being told it was haram to date and enter relationships and that premarital sex was haram.a lot of the guys I know who are virigns at my age or near my age don't want to focus on losing they virginity until marriage and most of us don't want to get married until we finish school and get educated. We aren't in high school anymore no one is trying to convince us to lose our virginity.

 

[Khayyam]

I am in my early twentties, and have had a lot of opportuniyies to have sex with chicks but won to handle my lust and still remain virgin

 

[Jake from State Farm]

also just to add. For many years going to the masjid and sitting down in lecutures and I never really heard a sheikh or iman talk about having relationships with the oppostite sex. The only thing I have learned was to just stay away its haram. So some of us literally limit interactions with females. I personally wont try to chase a chick to get her number for any other reason besides school work.

 

[Radical]

You sound like the type of woman who'd divorce her husband because he's not virgin

 

[Jake from State Farm]

lol let me add one more thing.

the people who have stayed virgin have controlled there urges. Some somali dudes cant resist and usually f*ck a chick. other somali dudes usually control their urges by masturbating.

zina is haram and masturbation is haram. But zina is looked down upon the most.

would you rather marry a dude who couldn't control his urges and has sex or a dude who controlled his urges by just masturbating.

 

[Anab]

I am in my early twentties, and have had a lot of opportuniyies to have sex with chicks but won to handle my lust and still remain virgin

Masha allah! Noolow. we need more of your type

 

[Haggiss]

I'm glad I grew up in a religous environment in Africa back when technology wasn't so ubiquitous.

I remember if you wanted to shukaansi a girl you liked you had to go to her house and converse with her infront of her whole family. No going to the movies and all that calaacal.

Sometimes they would say they weren't home when they actually were but eventually they would give in if you persisted.

I might be a virgin but I have some eggsbiiriens :siilaanyosmile:

 

[Anab]

I am a virgin somali dude. 20 years old

To answer your question it all the depends truly on the person. For me personally even though I'm not super religious I always stay away from the major sins atleast.i don't drink, I don't smoke, and right now I'm not really trying to get into a relationship. at this point I have had opporutnities to have sex but I wasn't really attracted to those chicks. So it was pretty easy to curve those chicks. I have been trying to become a better muslim for the past year and I am on the right track. before I was literally a Ramadan muslim. also since I messed up in college my first two years I have been focused on school a lot more So I haven't really been chasing after females at school. I have met some pretty nice and cool chicks but I just haven't pursued. I don't want to bring a girl along with me right while I'm trying to boost my gpa.

I recently found out a lot of somali dudes aren't virgins. I honestly just guessed that they didnt' really agree with the concept of staying chaste till marriage so they decided to start dating and fucking other chicks. I went to the masjid a lot with these dudes and I thought honestly they were more religious than I was since they went to duqsi longer than me and memorized more surahs than me.But these dudes turned out wilder than I thought. I live in the west so during high school being a virgin seemed wack. you earned some cool points if you weren't a virgin.

overall there are some of us out there. A lot of us grew up being told it was haram to date and enter relationships and that premarital sex was haram.a lot of the guys I know who are virigns at my age or near my age don't want to focus on losing they virginity until marriage and most of us don't want to get married until we finish school and get educated. We aren't in high school anymore no one is trying to convince us to lose our virginity.

A lot of these people you'd never know they're not virgins. Even the ones who look innocent, regular masjid goers are moving like iblees. Ilaahay ha naga qabto

lol let me add one more thing.

the people who have stayed virgin have controlled there urges. Some somali dudes cant resist and usually f*ck a chick. other somali dudes usually control their urges by masturbating.

zina is haram and masturbation is haram. But zina is looked down upon the most.

would you rather marry a dude who couldn't control his urges and has sex or a dude who controlled his urges by just masturbating.

I would rather marry the latter ofc...

 

[Anab]

You sound like the type of woman who'd divorce her husband because he's not virgin

YES! how did you know?

you sound like the type of guy who's been around the block

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[Boqor]

Do they even exist? I was speaking to a guy recently and the topic of virginity came up. He was taken aback I asked him that and said something along the lines of: find me a Somali guy who is a virgin. I felt disgusted and slowly dissociated myself from him. My question is: why are somali guys either horn dogs who f*ck anything in sight/ non-virgins or basement dwellers with no self esteem?

Even the ones who are virgins are crazy, wanking every night and are only virgins because they don't have the confidence to speak to a girl. Are there any somali guys out there who are keeping their virginity out of self control? It seems like you have to settle with one or the other

Would you rather marry a "horn dog" or a virgin?

 

[DeadStar]

This thread.


Op is it that u are disgusted or are u afraid ur gonna be shit in bed?

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[Anab]

I'm glad I grew up in a religous environment in Africa back when technology wasn't so ubiquitous.

I remember if you wanted to shukaansi a girl you liked you had to go to her house and converse with her infront of her whole family. No going to the movies and all that calaacal.

Sometimes they would say they weren't home when they actually were but eventually they would give in if you persisted.

I might be a virgin but I have some eggsbiiriens :siilaanyosmile:

Haye, ka sheeke :siilaanyosmile: Which part of Africa did you reside in?

What kind of experience

Would you rather marry a "horn dog" or a virgin?

A virgin, I thought I made that clear in the OP. But even then, they are few and far between and most aren't virgins by choice but because they can't get any females..If a female gave themselves up to them, they'd probably jump at the chance

Still, I would rather go for a socially stunted farax with zero body count than a manwhore with possible STD

 

[cinina]

I personally don't understand why people think it's cool to do haram stuff. Especially sex, I mean don't you guys value your bodies?! You'd be willing to literally insert yourself into a stranger for some cheap self-gratification? Someone like that doesn't deserve the likes of me or Canabey @Anab !

 

[DeadStar]

I personally don't understand why people think it's cool to do haram stuff. Especially sex, I mean don't you guys value your bodies?! You'd be willing to literally insert yourself into a stranger for some cheap self-gratification? Someone like that doesn't deserve the likes of me or Canabey @Anab !

Men are not virgins. There is NO WAY virginity applies to men.
If u knw what I mean.

 

[Anab]

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Op is it that u are disgusted or are u afraid ur gonna be shit in bed?

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What is there to be afraid of? We will learn from each other... Good men are for good women.

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[Haggiss]

Haye, ka sheeke :siilaanyosmile: Which part of Africa did you reside in?

What kind of experience




A virgin, I thought I made that clear in the OP. But even then, they are few and far between and most aren't virgins by choice but because they can't get any females..If a female gave themselves up to them, they'd probably jump at the chance

Still, I would rather go for a socially stunted farax with zero body count than a manwhore with possible STD

I might not have experience in the sariirta but I have been able to wet some panties with just words.

After getting her comfortable, I would start reciting gabay oo jeceyl ka saabsan and I would finish her off in the end by mentioning I had Canadian bassabor. That usually left her dripping wet :siilaanyosmile:

 

[cinina]

Men are not virgins. There is NO WAY virginity applies to men.
If u knw what I mean.

mm k thanks for that image

 

[Anab]

I personally don't understand why people think it's cool to do haram stuff. Especially sex, I mean don't you guys value your bodies?! You'd be willing to literally insert yourself into a stranger for some cheap self-gratification? Someone like that doesn't deserve the likes of me or Canabey @Anab !

Cininay, ilaahay ha ku daayo! u sheeg wll. They are like animals, no self control. Some of them even have the audacity to request a virgin wife.

Tbf some girls wouldn't mind and some would even prefer a non-virgin, but for those of us who want a virgin we deserve not to be decieved. Wallahi some of these people waa adhi daaqayo