Which one matters to you in a partner? Beauty or a Personality?

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i always used to think that only females fall for bad guys and not the good guy but I realized men also chase after bad girls and have the same faults as well.

Okay, here's the deal. I hate to sound cheauvanistic, but I really like pretty girls. And that isn't a problem per say, but hear me out.

There's this one girl I know who's totally cool in just about every way. She has good taste in music, she's a nurse she's intelligent, witty, and fun to be with. I'm not sure if I've met a cooler girl.

Unfortunately, she's not very pretty at all. And I hate to say it, but that really does make a difference to me. I wish it didn't. But I occasionally think about the kind of person I would want to marry later on, and I wouldn't want to marry someone that I wouldn't want to have sex with, you know?

The thought of kissing her just sends chills down my spine! Now, that may sound really cold hearted and mean, but it's true. I wish it wasn't.

I suppose what I hate the most is that I'm often attracted to really stupid flakey girls that are totally air-headed and have no personality at all. Why? Well, because they're really really good-looking. And I hate that!

It's kind of like my brain is saying to me, "Hey! What are you thinking!?! This girl is stupid! She's not interesting at all! You have nothing in common with her! When it comes down to it, you find her boring!" but my body is just like, "Hey baby..." But on the same tangent as not wanting to marry an ugly girl, I wouldn't want to marry some stupid chick without personality...

So, often times I'll blow off the girls with personality for some stupid ditz. I really wish I wouldn't, but it almost seems like I can't help it. . . Why does both guys and girls always sideline the realistic partner for unfit once?
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Personality>beauty any day of the week. :mjdontkno: Waxa la yiri naag qurxoon walaga wasaa while you’re away. Qurux attracts the wrong neefs. Just get a middy and put barkin on her face when it’s time to bashaal.:silanyolaugh:
 
i always used to think that only females fall for bad guys and not the good guy but I realized men also chase after bad girls and have the same faults as well.

Okay, here's the deal. I hate to sound cheauvanistic, but I really like pretty girls. And that isn't a problem per say, but hear me out.

There's this one girl I know who's totally cool in just about every way. She has good taste in music, she's a nurse she's intelligent, witty, and fun to be with. I'm not sure if I've met a cooler girl.

Unfortunately, she's not very pretty at all. And I hate to say it, but that really does make a difference to me. I wish it didn't. But I occasionally think about the kind of person I would want to marry later on, and I wouldn't want to marry someone that I wouldn't want to have sex with, you know?

The thought of kissing her just sends chills down my spine! Now, that may sound really cold hearted and mean, but it's true. I wish it wasn't.

I suppose what I hate the most is that I'm often attracted to really stupid flakey girls that are totally air-headed and have no personality at all. Why? Well, because they're really really good-looking. And I hate that!

It's kind of like my brain is saying to me, "Hey! What are you thinking!?! This girl is stupid! She's not interesting at all! You have nothing in common with her! When it comes down to it, you find her boring!" but my body is just like, "Hey baby..." But on the same tangent as not wanting to marry an ugly girl, I wouldn't want to marry some stupid chick without personality...

So, often times I'll blow off the girls with personality for some stupid ditz. I really wish I wouldn't, but it almost seems like I can't help it. . . Why does both guys and girls always sideline the realistic partner for unfit once?
:cosbyhmm:
I like looks and personality, not one or the other
 
Beauty fades away eventually, personality stays forever. Both are important in their respective ways but personality got the edge.
 

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I'm sorry but if she's not at least a 7/10 no matter what her personality is I'm not looking at her more than once. I can deal with any type as long as they're not a complete b**ch or h*e. Good personality is just a plus.
 
i always used to think that only females fall for bad guys and not the good guy but I realized men also chase after bad girls and have the same faults as well.

Okay, here's the deal. I hate to sound cheauvanistic, but I really like pretty girls. And that isn't a problem per say, but hear me out.

There's this one girl I know who's totally cool in just about every way. She has good taste in music, she's a nurse she's intelligent, witty, and fun to be with. I'm not sure if I've met a cooler girl.

Unfortunately, she's not very pretty at all. And I hate to say it, but that really does make a difference to me. I wish it didn't. But I occasionally think about the kind of person I would want to marry later on, and I wouldn't want to marry someone that I wouldn't want to have sex with, you know?

The thought of kissing her just sends chills down my spine! Now, that may sound really cold hearted and mean, but it's true. I wish it wasn't.

I suppose what I hate the most is that I'm often attracted to really stupid flakey girls that are totally air-headed and have no personality at all. Why? Well, because they're really really good-looking. And I hate that!

It's kind of like my brain is saying to me, "Hey! What are you thinking!?! This girl is stupid! She's not interesting at all! You have nothing in common with her! When it comes down to it, you find her boring!" but my body is just like, "Hey baby..." But on the same tangent as not wanting to marry an ugly girl, I wouldn't want to marry some stupid chick without personality...

So, often times I'll blow off the girls with personality for some stupid ditz. I really wish I wouldn't, but it almost seems like I can't help it. . . Why does both guys and girls always sideline the realistic partner for unfit once?
:cosbyhmm:
So many times people look at couples and think oh gosh how is he with her she's so ugly, or vice versa.. but the truth is personality is EVERYTHING. Yes looks are what pulls us to want to pursue someone or get to know more about them BUT you might find out that, that attraction which initially first caught your interest starts to fade once you are around them more and realize there's nothing much more to them. They might not be able to hold a conversation, they might be very much into keeping up with their appearance, they might not even really be interested in you because they could be so self absorbed. And by no means am I saying everyone who is beautiful to a certain degree is just a bump on a log because there are also people who are both attractive & smart too but when your thinking of settling down with someone a person shouldn't be so wrapped up on landing a gorgeous or good looking spouse as their first priority. If someone catches your attention, or captures your heart because of their personality but their not so attractive according to what you would prefer I would say still try and give them a chance because who knows, slowly they might begin to grow on you and you may eventually just find them to be attractive for other reasons besides their look. Some woman can have this fun, out going , bubbly personality, they could bring so much joy and laughter into your life, and maybe even teach you new experiences but they might lack in the looks department but so what. They might just be the better fit for you then say the Beautiful woman or man who lacks any personality and is pretty much boring .
 
People will say personality to make ugly people feel better, especially in our PC era, but the fact remains that it’s in our primitive subconscious to seek an attractive mate to pass on the best possible genetics to our offspring. It is what it is :manny:
 

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Beauty has barely any value. As long as her face isn’t offputting and she looks after her body/appearance, it’s all good. Personality, values, etc are way more important.
 

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Personality.


Great Personality makes an outer ugly person beautiful both outer and inside
 

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People will say personality to make ugly people feel better, especially in our PC era, but the fact remains that it’s in our primitive subconscious to seek an attractive mate to pass on the best possible genetics to our offspring. It is what it is :manny:

Are you a good looking Halimo? you guys are rare breed.:wow1:
 

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always used to think that only females fall for bad guys and not the good guy but I realized men also chase after bad girls and have the same faults as well.
wallah not true I'm the nicest guy you'll ever meet good guy etc. but women still give me a chance because I'm real and don't play around

edit also I'm not rich neither attractive so go figure :mjdontkno:
 
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