i always used to think that only females fall for bad guys and not the good guy but I realized men also chase after bad girls and have the same faults as well.
Okay, here's the deal. I hate to sound cheauvanistic, but I really like pretty girls. And that isn't a problem per say, but hear me out.
There's this one girl I know who's totally cool in just about every way. She has good taste in music, she's a nurse she's intelligent, witty, and fun to be with. I'm not sure if I've met a cooler girl.
Unfortunately, she's not very pretty at all. And I hate to say it, but that really does make a difference to me. I wish it didn't. But I occasionally think about the kind of person I would want to marry later on, and I wouldn't want to marry someone that I wouldn't want to have sex with, you know?
The thought of kissing her just sends chills down my spine! Now, that may sound really cold hearted and mean, but it's true. I wish it wasn't.
I suppose what I hate the most is that I'm often attracted to really stupid flakey girls that are totally air-headed and have no personality at all. Why? Well, because they're really really good-looking. And I hate that!
It's kind of like my brain is saying to me, "Hey! What are you thinking!?! This girl is stupid! She's not interesting at all! You have nothing in common with her! When it comes down to it, you find her boring!" but my body is just like, "Hey baby..." But on the same tangent as not wanting to marry an ugly girl, I wouldn't want to marry some stupid chick without personality...
So, often times I'll blow off the girls with personality for some stupid ditz. I really wish I wouldn't, but it almost seems like I can't help it. . . Why does both guys and girls always sideline the realistic partner for unfit once?
Okay, here's the deal. I hate to sound cheauvanistic, but I really like pretty girls. And that isn't a problem per say, but hear me out.
There's this one girl I know who's totally cool in just about every way. She has good taste in music, she's a nurse she's intelligent, witty, and fun to be with. I'm not sure if I've met a cooler girl.
Unfortunately, she's not very pretty at all. And I hate to say it, but that really does make a difference to me. I wish it didn't. But I occasionally think about the kind of person I would want to marry later on, and I wouldn't want to marry someone that I wouldn't want to have sex with, you know?
The thought of kissing her just sends chills down my spine! Now, that may sound really cold hearted and mean, but it's true. I wish it wasn't.
I suppose what I hate the most is that I'm often attracted to really stupid flakey girls that are totally air-headed and have no personality at all. Why? Well, because they're really really good-looking. And I hate that!
It's kind of like my brain is saying to me, "Hey! What are you thinking!?! This girl is stupid! She's not interesting at all! You have nothing in common with her! When it comes down to it, you find her boring!" but my body is just like, "Hey baby..." But on the same tangent as not wanting to marry an ugly girl, I wouldn't want to marry some stupid chick without personality...
So, often times I'll blow off the girls with personality for some stupid ditz. I really wish I wouldn't, but it almost seems like I can't help it. . . Why does both guys and girls always sideline the realistic partner for unfit once?
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