Why do people act like marrying out is haram?

[Baarisiyomoos]

The way people be talking about it you'd think its the worst sin in the world Allah never forbid us from marrying out of our culture. If it's two muslim people who love each other that are getting married why does their background matter?

 

[pirater]

I mean I want a rendille baddie or a somali (rahanweyn and Hawiye cause I don't wanna marry my cousin)

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

I mean I want a rendille baddie or a somali (rahanweyn and Hawiye cause I don't wanna marry my cousin)

poor guy

 

[AbdiS]

It's because it's selfish and short-sighted.

When your children grow up, who & what are they going to identify themselves with? What if you want to take him/her back home, how are your Grandparents or clan elders are going to perceive your child? What if your child face ostracization from both communities on his/her parent's sides?

All these are factors one must consider.

 

[486th President]

The way people be talking about it you'd think its the worst sin in the world Allah never forbid us from marrying out of our culture. If it's two muslim people who love each other that are getting married why does their background matter?

DOESNT mean you have to fam. Just because something is halal doesn’t mean you need to do it same goes with polygamy. It’s something that’s a choice but doesn’t mean you need to really

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

It's because it's selfish and short-sighted.

When your children grow up, who & what are they going to identify themselves with? What if you want to take him/her back home, how are your Grandparents or clan elders are going to perceive your child? What if your child face ostracization from both communities on his/her parent's sides?

All these are factors one must consider.

Its true and im not saying im shilling for it but to pretend like its haram is wrong

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

DOESNT mean you have to fam. Just because something is halal doesn’t mean you need to do it same goes with polygamy. It’s something that’s a choice but doesn’t mean you need to really

I agree you don't need to but people shouldn't be shamed for doing so

 

[nuurka]

It's because it's selfish and short-sighted.

When your children grow up, who & what are they going to identify themselves with? What if you want to take him/her back home, how are your Grandparents or clan elders are going to perceive your child? What if your child face ostracization from both communities on his/her parent's sides?

All these are factors one must consider.

People who inter-marry can also get ostracized as well. Things like qabil and economic status can be a big issue. It's much easier to marry someone with the same culture but that doesn't mean your marriage or children will be better than marrying someone ajanabi.

You have to make sure that you marry someone you are compatible with. Many people focus solely on love. Love is important, but it is only one piece of the puzzle.