Let's start with the biggest issue that comes from her video. It is a lack of self awareness about her own self. The biggest issue why people are not able to move forward in life whether it is careers, money, relationship etc is lack of self reflection. The inability to look at one self and think what could i do better to make or improve myself so that i can reach my goals in life.
She describes herself as bossy independent, loud etc etc in a sort of admiring way. Somewhere down the line someone or something or her brain told her that this traits are to be admired and magnified.
Now here comes the deal. These traits are good in certain situations. In say a line of work like the medical field where lives are at stake, you cannot be hesitant, unsure. You have to be sure and firm footed. people doctors nurses patients all need a person to take control and lead them. However even then if you have to be very empathetic sensitive and understand people. And not rough shod on them
But being bossy to your significant other is something else. This trait in my opinion is very unattractive to most males. A man by definition whether he is a high getter or just the average man all desire a woman who surrenders to him, not tells him off like his mother, bosses him around or just loud 24/7
Unfortunately alot of women bring that go go in your face attitude to their personal lives and wonder why men are not receptive.
Secondly look at her. As in look at her. She is what i would call an average xalimo. Not ugly but not that great either. Now if you are not that great in looks department you need to be able to compensate in other ways. Either a great vibrant warm personality that lets men be themselves and feel attracted to you.
Or a social status/wealth that inherently attracts men to those parameters. But putting videos on youtube does not afford you a social status unless you have a million subscribers.And I don't know about her wealth but i don't think she has a career in a STEM subject. From what i can see. So i would be interested in her career aspirations at her age. Because by her age you should be having well endowed career or career goal. Or a buisness.
In any case i can only speak for myself. I have got a highly rewarding career, good pay good job prospects for promotions. I have everything i need. I am also alhamdulliah religious, pray regularly fast, go to the masjid etc etc. I grew up in a single parent household so my mom who raised me means the world to me. I look after her, my relatives and also people back home in somalia.
So i thank Allah that he has blessed me with everything he has given me. And i can tell you judging by what i saw on the video, she would not be in my radar and i suspect 90% of decent farahs as well. The sort of farah who is doing well in life and looking after his interests.
Come on bro just say you want a housewife
