Why Somali men like Inquisitive are mad at somali girls

[Muji]

So I noticed both you and @Reiko are gunning for @Abdalla so maha.. Is that why you both get along so well because you're planning to become sister wife's


Waryaa @Abdalla what did you read on these birds? Do you give afternoon classes on how to catch birds?

since @Reiko is MJ she can have him. If I was interested in a darood farax it would be @teeri_alpha now watch how mad Abdalla gets

 

[NAAFO]

@NAAFO, love your postive post. Continue spreading positivity. Next time could you separate it into smaller paragraphs, my eyes tend to skip lines.

@QueenSamaale No problem walaasheyda I will correct that please feel free to give me anymore feedback my sister I'm open to any suggestions Jezakullah Qayrun

 

[Raage]

You gotta love dabcasar.. Funny dude .
I like the episode where they're breaking into his hotel room in Somaliland


The bandage on his head

Where did he go???

 

[Abdisamad]

Where did he go???

I'm not sure but I think it was in hargeysa

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

So I noticed both you and @Reiko are gunning for @Abdalla so maha.. Is that why you both get along so well because you're planning to become sister wife's


Waryaa @Abdalla what did you read on these birds? Do you give afternoon classes on how to catch birds?

Sister wives? I don’t share my fries let alone a man, secondly I’ve been nothing but nice to @Abdalla I know it’s weird for you Somali men to have someone be nice to you guys.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

since @Reiko is MJ she can have him. If I was interested in a darood farax it would be @teeri_alpha now watch how mad Abdalla gets

What does qabiil have to do with this?


@teeri_alpha will beat you just for smiling. Be careful!

 

[Leila]

Abaayo @Knowles I used to think like you until I met my farax in shining armor

 

[NAAFO]

@Qoordeer you're putting me in a tough spot. Queen knowles will karbaash me. very well, I QueenSamaale shall Bless you with my wisdom.

Tbh, Lets not act blind and bash knowles, cuz her Posts have Some truth in them. I don't necessarily agree with her faarax bashing posts. She mentioned Somali men oppressing women and making them house slaves. Wallah I've observed many families and I've heard of many were the men of the house cannot be considered men both Islamically and culturally. They dont spend time with their children, are ungrateful, some even beat their wives. Absolute dayoothiin.

Wallah, I'm also wondering if some Somali women are into masochism. Qaar waa musiiboyiin, they intentionally annoy their husbands and some are not even willing to do their share in marriage. It's as if they want to be beaten. When the husband actually hits her, they divorce for a short period. After a day or two you'll see them happily married. What kind of woman tolerates abuse? We can all agree no man should beat his wife, and the one who does is a dayooth. Nayaada, if your husband is working 8 hours and you are at home, do your share cooking and cleaning is becomes your responsibility. If the are kids then I think the husband should help out.

Then their is the prefrence of Male children alhamdulillah, my parents have never been like this. Some times you'll hear of Somali girls doing all the house work alongside uni/high school. School itself is stressful imagine having to take care of the whole house.
At the Same time I see a lot of Somali girls bash their hooyos saying that girls do all the hool. This type of behaviour makes my blood boil. Were is the fact that perhaps her son is disobidient and causing trouble for her. We all know that boys are harder to manage when they are past a certain age. Some will start doing drugs some will probably enter gangs. So only way to keep her son out of greater danger, she becomes his "servant". Shell cook, clean and wash his clothes because she wants to keep her son the house for even a second longer. Besides, who said you have to be the same as your caasi brother, why can't you be the baari one? As the great careys ciise once said "Hooyada was Lama huraan." You may not agree with hooyos, but at least respect the love they and dedication they have. I blame all of this on the lack of religious knowledge and the fathers lack of presence.

One thing Somali men of sspot need to do, is to empathize with women. Women go through so much struggle( not saying men dont) In life, labour, menstruation and constant mood swings. My message to men is your posts may be for jokes but us women never forget, so please stop indulging in bullying women. Another thing is a lot of Somali men complain and are way too emotional, saying heblaayo said this about let's generalize this to all Somali men. Know that, the you found on the dustiest corner of social media, isn't me or any other SOMALI woman. NO Woman can call herself true Somali without loving her other half- Somali man. Rag iska dhiga, sida dumarka yaa loo murmin. Occasional banter between the sexes is ok.


You men have been placed with great responsibility. look(men and women) at this verse and reflect.
(4:34) Men are the protec-tors and maintainers of women56 because Allah has made one of them excel over the other,57 and because they spend out of their possessions (to support them). Thus righteous women are obedient and guard the rights of men in their absence under Allah's protection.58 As for women of whom you fear rebellion, admonish them, and remain apart from them in beds, and beat them.59 Then if they obey you, do not seek ways to harm them. Allah is Exalted, Great.

I ain't no xaliimo or Faarax basher, I karbaash them both. Waryaa, qoordheer you better appreciate this, It took me a long time to write this. For some odd reason Knowles seems like a sweet xaliimo who is living out her fantasies.

@QueenSamaale

Wow what a post sister I'm truly in awe of you Wallahi your reasoning as well as your intellect and maturity beyond your years, wallahi their are young people and I'm assuming sister that your quite young who don't have the foresight & objective thinking you do and even older people who don't think and behave in a way that reflects their age. Its so refreshing to see a young person who is confident and dedicated to wanting the best for their community and reforming it Mash'Allah sister may Allah grant you & your family paradise Insh'Allah amin

 

[Abdurahman_somali]

Abaayo @Knowles I used to think like you until I met my farax in shining armor

You just proved my point, Thanks. Hopefully the youngsters will understand that feminism is just a cult.

 

[Raage]

I'm not sure but I think it was in hargeysa

No I mean where is he these days. He doesn't make videos anymore

 

[Abdalla]

So I noticed both you and @Reiko are gunning for @Abdalla so maha.. Is that why you both get along so well because you're planning to become sister wife's


Waryaa @Abdalla what did you read on these birds? Do you give afternoon classes on how to catch birds?

Just insult and put them in their places, they will love you. Don't be a simp like @AussieHustler. He tried to be civilised and hide his qabiil. But @Knowles is an expert and pinpointed his region by analysing his spelling.

@Reiko is different breed and you need to be prepared for a daily rematch.

 

[Inquisitive_]

Robin welcome to the forum. Glad to see you have already worked out our friend @Inquisitive_ .

My goal and purpose with these posts is very simple, to expose the reality of these lunatic breed of out of control home-wreckers and prove they are broken beyond repair to many of our younger brothers that are unaware.

80% of the dysfunction and destruction of our communities in the diaspora has come through there hands, and it's getting worse and worse in the next generation, no Muslim community is worse then us today.

At some point the rational mind will enquire why this disarray, chaos and dysfunction is not found back home despite abject poverty and lawlessness? if this was truly a farax issue?

Why do the Xabashi's/Arab's/Asian's not experience this type of dysfunction in there households? why is our divorce rates ridiculously higher?

Why is it that our females are the most obese out of all the groups and the young clueless males gang banging?

The answers are very simple, broken community which is caused by broken families, and those broken families in the vast majority of cases are brought about by these same home-wreckers.

This is the conclusion any sane mind that deeply reflects would come to, and as a person that hates to see more households being destroyed.
I am encouraging the brothers to go back home to start one and not continue flogging dead horses in the west.

When you meddle with the forces of nature! the hell hounds of chaos are let loose.

Lately inquisitive has been referring to Somali girls as “homewreckers” lol, which is a new descriptive in his monologues. I’m dying to know what happened.

It's truly sad, that as contemptible and abominable as you are in your moral compass, I have more faith in you as a gaal then I have in these hypocrisy filled sanctimonious home wreckers in the diaspora.

 

[VixR]

It's truly sad, that as contemptible and abominable as you are in your moral compass, I have more faith in you as a gaal then I have in these hypocrisy filled sanctimonious home wreckers in the diaspora.

How is it I can imagine you talking to females like this and expecting positive outcomes Oh how negging never ceases to backfire!

I’ll humor you. Why do have more faith in contemptible, abominable me?

 

[Sophisticate]

How is it I can imagine you talking to females like this and expecting positive outcomes Oh how negging never ceases to backfire!

I’ll humor you. Why do have more faith in contemptible, abominable me?

The brother is on a crusade. I think we should support him in waking up the sleeping Abdis to these high BMI HOMEWRECKERS!

 

[NAAFO]

The brother is on a crusade. I think we should support him in waking up the sleeping Abdis to these high BMI HOMEWRECKERS!

@sophisticate Walaal excuse my ignorance what is BMI?

 

[Hybrid()]

Inquisitive is a socially awkward dude who spends most of his times reading books and articles about Pseudoscience and Somalia. You can tell by the way he writes that he never had a proper conversation with a woman.

 

[Sophisticate]

@sophisticate Walaal excuse my ignorance what is BMI?

No worries. It just means Body Mass Index.

 

[VixR]

The brother is on a crusade. I think we should support him in waking up the sleeping Abdis to these high BMI HOMEWRECKERS!

The guy never writes anything under 6 paragraphs, and everything he says is a remix of his last post to the point I was able to spot a new word instantly (homewrecker lol).

I imagine him on the offchance he speaks to a woman at all, droning on and on about how women are so horrible, forgetting or not caring that he’s addressing one, only for his profound loneliness to be triggered by the sound of her walking away.

 

[NAAFO]

@sophisticate walaal do you think sometimes their are certain sisters at fault like narcisitic mothers

 

[Sophisticate]

The guy never writes anything under 6 paragraphs, and everything he says is a remix of his last post to the point I was able to spot a new word instantly (homewrecker lol).

I imagine him on the offchance he speaks to a woman at all, droning on and on about how women are so horrible, forgetting or not caring that he’s addressing one, only for his profound loneliness to be triggered by the sound of her walking away.

I caught on also.

I think he's stuck in a negative thought loop.