Would you give money to an able bodied relative in the West who refuses to work?

[قوة الشرطة الصومالية]

My aunts daughter is a tomboy who refused to work and is very lazy. She constantly asks me for money in order to buy Cannabis. I always give her everybtime she asks since she’s family. She’s very lazy and never leaves her basement. She stays up all night and sleeps in the morning. Her mother doesn’t mind because she believes a man will come for her hand anytime. She also can’t cook and clean even if her life depended on it.

Do I still keep giving her the usual small sums she asks for to buy drugs?

 

[AbdiS]

Nah, f*ck them. How can you able bodied and not be able to work?

 

[karkaar]

My aunts daughter is a tomboy who refused to work and is very lazy. She constantly asks me for money in order to buy Cannabis. I always give her everybtime she asks since she’s family. She’s very lazy and never leaves her basement. She stays up all night and sleeps in the morning. Her mother doesn’t mind because she believes a man will come for her hand anytime. She also can’t cook and clean even if her life depended on it.

Do I still keep giving her the usual small sums she asks for to buy drugs?

This is beyond problematic

 

[digaagjecel]

why do continue to fund her, instead of being lazy yourself and giving her money. Why don’t you try to get her involved in productive things.

 

[Cartman]

Don’t worry, she’ll move to Somalia and embark in a life of politics with the knowledge she has gained from the bud > books.

 

[Shimbiris]

Don’t worry, she’ll move to Somalia and embark in a life of politics with the knowledge she has gained from the bud > books.

Word. These niggas think she's wasting time in that basement. This Xalimo is learning "race theory" and Machiavellianism, I promise you. She goin' be Somalia's first BLM Xalimo President and usher in an era of madness and cannabis over khat, I promise you.

 

[pirater]

No I'm poor

 

[قوة الشرطة الصومالية]

Nah, f*ck them. How can you able bodied and not be able to work?

Many diaspora are like that.

why do continue to fund her, instead of being lazy yourself and giving her money. Why don’t you try to get her involved in productive things.

I can’t make personal life decisions for her. She’s an adult. She’ll learn from this I suppose. I hope it’s just a phase and she will eventually outgrow it.

 

[elite1337]

Cannabis?? astaghfirullah only thing you should be paying for her some rehab session how old is she? dont buy the whole "cannabis is not a drug" shes clearly addicted to it if shes asking you for money all the time, and it could be a gateway to other hard drugs

 

[قوة الشرطة الصومالية]

Cannabis?? astaghfirullah only thing you should be paying for her some rehab session how old is she? dont buy the whole "cannabis is not a drug" shes clearly addicted to it if shes asking you for money all the time, and it could be a gateway to other hard drugs

Kids start taking cannabis in grade 9 or 10 here. Many Somali men and women consume cannabis, alcohol and other more damaging drugs. It’s littered in all the community housing and poorly funded public schools in their neighborhoods.

 

[elite1337]

Kids start taking cannabis in grade 9 or 10 here. Many Somali men and women consume cannabis, alcohol and other more damaging drugs. It’s littered in all the community housing and poorly funded public schools in their neighborhoods.

wow is weed legal were you live? what is she gonna do when your aunt kicks her out eventually, she needs help tbh just stop giving her money she obvs got an addiction

 

[قوة الشرطة الصومالية]

wow is weed legal were you live? what is she gonna do when your aunt kicks her out eventually, she needs help tbh just stop giving her money she obvs got an addiction

It is legal in Canada. The youth who are using access it at a very young age since it is trafficked in Public housing. Some start as young as middle school. We can all see what happened to the AA community and we are not far from being there. It will only get worse.

 

[Vanessa]

You're not supposed to give money to your cousin.

 

[Vanessa]

I'm too shy to ask for money from my parents, let along my cousin