Theyre the ones obsessed with me. And I can’t lie they are pretty attractiveSyrians & Lebanese are pretty attractive but it’s not worth it sis
Syrian man’s family is against him marrying a Somali woman. Is it racism?
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I can already tell it’s gonna be another laiis platinum thread 🫢Ana Arabs after seeing this
There are Somalis married to Syrians and they are men and women. That does not say much of anything. It is not the same family nor individual. It is not always about race/ethnicity. To whine about it when people have a preference is a little odd. We know colourism is also rife across Asia. That should be understood. People should know the cultures and families they marry into and their baggage.
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It’s not racism. It’s perfectly fine.
I understand the parents, but if he loves her so much then he has to pressure them in every way.
Somali genes will do the rest
Let me play devils advocate; why pressure them & eventually bring kids into a dynamic like that?
May Allah protect the girl in this situation. People in situations like hers often find themselves alienated by their in-laws. The couple then hopes that perhaps the grandparents will warm up once children are born and theyre cute, but sometimes even those children end up being alienated and dont get to know a part of their family+heritage
Do you mean the Arabic proverb?
Kisame
Plotting world domination
Before I became child free the thought
of my generational wealth landing in the hands of non somalis pissed me off
.Ive said it on here before but I legit had an old madow co worker who's the only black person in his family pictures. He married an non black and non of his kids married a black person. His grand children just look Latino and white
Good for his family for rejecting foreigners, but the Xalimo need to find another Syrian man to marry. No farax should marry ajnabi left over.
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As I said before, he can calmly convince them and have the parents of the girl and the man meet, and it is possible that this problem will be solved in the end ,he will not run away from them.Let me play devils advocate; why pressure them & eventually bring kids into a dynamic like that?
You can't use her as an example to prove a point, there are too many variables to consider
No, the part where he mentioned wanting his kids to look like him is funny
the Arabic proverb is just the icing on the cake 
Why u hating forHow do you know this
There is a high probability that they will go out on him instead of her, given the Somali genesNo, the part where he mentioned wanting his kids to look like him is funny
No, it isn’t racism.
Even Somali parents wouldn’t be okay with their sons marrying a Syrian woman. Immigrant parents simply want their children to marry within. You can’t act like this is personal if our community is like this as well.
As for the girl, she probably doesn’t know the guys family aren’t fond of her. Her fiancé should be honest and hopefully they can make the right decision to split.
Even Somali parents wouldn’t be okay with their sons marrying a Syrian woman. Immigrant parents simply want their children to marry within. You can’t act like this is personal if our community is like this as well.
As for the girl, she probably doesn’t know the guys family aren’t fond of her. Her fiancé should be honest and hopefully they can make the right decision to split.
The kid will look like neither. It’ll probably look Indian
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