16 Year Old Kid Finds Out He’s Going to Be a Father

[Dooyo]

Typical black shenanigans

Why are they so quick to record intimate moments like this? Other than the filming, it sounds like she did her part to prevent this from happening. Sat them down two years ago to warn them of the potential consequences of messing around. They didn't heed her advice, so it's time to face the music.

'I'm just a baby' lol. Seems like he was infantlized growing up. An active father figure would have been more effective at getting the message across that he needs to man up.

 

[idc]

yes, this whole thing is a mess. but honestly, everything about how he’s acting points to him being a future deadbeat. the way he’s handling this situation, the lack of responsibility, and the fact that he’s already showing zero maturity. it’s all setting up a pattern. he’s not going to suddenly change just because there's a baby involved. If anything, he’ll probably have multiple baby mamas by the time he’s 21, and the girl will be stuck in rafad while he keeps moving on with his life. she needs to take this as a hard lesson, don’t fall for the sweet talk and no damn teenage boy is going to pause his life to support you idc watch any doco or series on teen pregnancy, most of the dads are no where to be found. if he can’t step up now, he won’t later. being a single mum is tough, and the government or minimum wage jobs won’t fix it. she really needs to think about whether she’s ready for that kind of struggle, especially when the father isn’t showing any signs of maturity or commitment.

would you keep the same energy if the mom of the young pregnant girl was recorded and filmed and chastised just like this boy in the video?

i understand that some of you are upset about this situation with the mum embarrassing her son online, but let's not act like a viral post is the worst thing that could happen. a black teen girl going through something like pregnancy or simply existing in public faces way more intense judgment and hate than some footage. and i would never shame my damn child omfg.

tough love would've happened before any sex happened. The mom should've idk been a parent and at least tell them to be safe or not do the deed at all. Tough love happening when it's too late lol.

i said it in my previous comment, her lax parenting blew up in her face. she knew what was going on but didn’t act until it was too late.