20 year old female and not allowed to travel!!

Grigori Rasputin

Former Somali Minister of Mismanagement & Misinfo.
Staff Member
Wariyaha SomaliSpot
Okay then i can't understand why. Just sit down an communicate with them your concerns and hear what they have to say.

We’re not given the whole story. Perhaps parents see the girl’s tendency to disappear with boys in their city and mother thinks that now if she goes overseas that she’ll definitely gonna get pregnant.
 
We’re not given the whole story. Perhaps parents see the girl’s tendency to disappear with boys in their city and mother thinks that now if she goes overseas that she’ll definitely gonna get pregnant.
I wish there was more to this story but there’s not lol. My parents know I won’t do anything crazy.... I work and study full-time, go to dugsi after maghrib during the weekend. I think it’s more from a safety POV
 
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Was it Cambodia or Thailand ? I might be talking about a different one but this one was founded in the sea. She went out to swim on her own (bad idea). Now who knows if she got raped and drowned?

@Local Eedo Your mom is afraid that you might end up having sex. That’s what it all comes down to. She’s afraid that she wouldn’t know your whereabouts like she does now.
she doesn’t know my whereabouts now though lool... my mom doesn’t doubt me but it’s from a safety perspective
 
I'm in a tough predicament. My parents have always been fairly lenient on me and I've never given them a reason to doubt me. I am a full-time uni student and work full-time as well. But my mom refuses for me to go overseas, even countries where I have IMMEDIATE family. They tried to use the religion card on me, but I even stated that I'm willing to pay for my older brothers ticket. My mom had the audacity to say "markaan guri yeelatid"ie when you get married you can travel. Im sick and tired!!! ive been the perfect child and wallahi im heart-broken that my parents would ever refuse such a simple request. Someone help me out!!!!
It is not safe for a grown woman to travel in this world. Your parents have a legit reasons to worry. I am way older than you my parents still worry. It is in their blood as parents try to be understanding. I promise you its coming from a good place. Iff it helps take someone with you dint travel alone maybe that will calm their fears.
 
Mothers instincts are amazing walaahi. Follow them. Once i visited my mother back in Somalia, coming back to Us, i had something that i thought i could hide in my suitcase, but with her wisdom, she took it away with my protestation. I was mad.

Lo and behold, when i arrived at MPLS airport, my case was random chosen to be checked. Everything was removed. First time.


PS of course i cant tell u what it was lool
Khat? Hilib geel? Other drugs? What was it lol
 
@Local Eedo

UK? Walaal ma waalatey? I hope your mum prevails. If you said Ireland, I would’ve scratched my head, but UK? I wasted 9 months of my life in that hellhole, go somewhere else.
Lmaaooo sis there’s a reason I’m going. There’s this university charity event that gets held once a year that I want to participate in.... that’s the only reason why I want to go
 

Vanessa

Support interracial love 💕
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Sisni

sis I’m not trying to get married to travel lool
I think you misunderstood. You can travel with your future hubby before having kids.


Uk sucks. Don’t be bother going there.

I suggest you to go to Scotland or Iceland, Croatia and Netherlands. They have beautiful sceneries and fun places to go.
 

Exodus

Alienist
Contact your family members in whatever country you want to visit and ask if you can stay with them while you visit. If they say yes, then talk to your parents, they shouldn’t have any problems with you travelling then.
 

Yahya

2020 GRANDMASTER
VIP
Was it Cambodia or Thailand ? I might be talking about a different one but this one was founded in the sea. She went out to swim on her own (bad idea). Now who knows if she got raped and drowned?

@Local Eedo Your mom is afraid that you might end up having sex. That’s what it all comes down to. She’s afraid that she wouldn’t know your whereabouts like she does now.
One happened this month and another in august. One was raped and killed in thailand and another was found drowned in cambadia this month.
 
Contact your family members in whatever country you want to visit and ask if you can stay with them while you visit. If they say yes, then talk to your parents, they shouldn’t have any problems with you travelling then.
My family confirmed everything but they still refused... that’s what’s frustrating about this whole situation, there’s nothing logical about it
 

Exodus

Alienist
My family confirmed everything but they still refused... that’s what’s frustrating about this whole situation, there’s nothing logical about it
Are your parents and these relatives on good terms? Try asking your relatives to speak to your parents about letting you travel, and reassuring them that you’ll be taken care of by them while your there.
 
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