A girl I like doesn't like me back

[AishaBarri]

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[hinters]

@ecipde are you good looking and tall? If you were. She would be drooling over you.

I am tall, I'm average looking, there's some room for improvement there, my face is a little bit chubby and my jawline isn't very defined but I'm not fat

 

[liftbrah]

Lol naah you guys are confused fr. Your gender has a conquering mindset. I’m starting to believe men love *****es can’t be too nice yk

An advice ill give you is, if you sleep around thats fine. When youre done and want to settle never tell a man your actual body count. A miskeen girl can go from wife material to dumped in some guys eyes. Madonna complex unfortunately exists.

Either never bring it up or lie about it.

 

[AishaBarri]

An advice ill give you is, if you sleep around thats fine. When youre done and want to settle never tell a man your actual body count. A miskeen girl can go from wife material to dumped in some guys eyes. Madonna ***** complex unfortunately exists.

Either never bring it up or lie about it.

I don’t sleep around but yeah thanks for the advice. I’ve noticed you can’t be too honest about certain things. It’s good to know.

 

[Dualke]

Years

religious or westernized diasporan, if former youre missing out if latter it is what it is

 

[Phiirso]

That's pretty much it. I feel so heartbroken and sad and I don't know what to do. She says it's not me or my looks or personality, she just doesn't feel that way about me.

Any advice would be appreciated

I give you a crayon as a gift, you hate crayons but this one because it's a special crayon you become attached to it. You use it everywhere, for signatures, for writing, for drawing, etc.


A month later I come back and ask you for my crayon back.


You going to refuse me my shit? Give me my shit and go deal with your emotions.


It's not about a girl you're asking, it's how to deal with your emotions.


Go figure this out.

 

[sagegreen]

That's pretty much it. I feel so heartbroken and sad and I don't know what to do. She says it's not me or my looks or personality, she just doesn't feel that way about me.

Any advice would be appreciated

What's wrong with you. She did reject you. Move on saaxib. Have some self-respect and respect the girl's choice.

 

[hinters]

What's wrong with you. She did reject you. Move on saaxib. Have some self-respect and respect the girl's choice.

I did respect her choice I'm not sure what you mean. I just feel quite sad and I have to find some way to channel all my emotion, perhaps weight lifting

 

[Boqorada]

I did respect her choice I'm not sure what you mean. I just feel quite sad and I have to find some way to channel all my emotion, perhaps weight lifting

Buy a tub of ice cream, pizza, wings then put on a sappy movie (preferably a Meg ryan and Tom Hanks one) then cry till you wake up in a fetal position with half eaten slice of pizza in one hand and your foot dunked in the empty tub of ice cream.

 

[citrus_samurai]

Buy a tub of ice cream, pizza, wings then put on a sappy movie (preferably a Meg ryan and Tom Hanks one) then cry till you wake up in a fetal position with half eaten slice of pizza in one hand and your foot dunked in the empty tub of ice cream.

Very detailed

 

[Boqorada]

Very detailed

Thank you, I tried.


I'm waiting to get my heart broken to be this dramatic

 

[hinters]

Buy a tub of ice cream, pizza, wings then put on a sappy movie (preferably a Meg ryan and Tom Hanks one) then cry till you wake up in a fetal position with half eaten slice of pizza in one hand and your foot dunked in the empty tub of ice cream.

That...also works...I suppose

 

[sagegreen]

I did respect her choice I'm not sure what you mean. I just feel quite sad and I have to find some way to channel all my emotion, perhaps weight lifting

You did not. You are asking us what to do as in fixing something bye

 

[liftbrah]

Buy a tub of ice cream, pizza, wings then put on a sappy movie (preferably a Meg ryan and Tom Hanks one) then cry till you wake up in a fetal position with half eaten slice of pizza in one hand and your foot dunked in the empty tub of ice cream.

The last thing OP needs is to get fat and deter more women.

 

[hinters]

The last thing OP needs is to get fat and deter more women.

Yes haha, I assume she was joking by how specific she was being but you're right

 

[HuunoHunter]

That's pretty much it. I feel so heartbroken and sad and I don't know what to do. She says it's not me or my looks or personality, she just doesn't feel that way about me.

Any advice would be appreciated

Was she a Xaliimo?

 

[hinters]

Was she a Xaliimo?

No

 

[mr.overeasy]

You came on a forum to share the fact that a girl rejected you. Shame is free in this life

man is sad, we can spare him the riffing and help out a brother in his time of need.

We also don't know what else is going on in his life and how is social life is looking, the fact that this man came to his somali brothers instead of others is pretty important.

 

[mr.overeasy]

Years

this is just how it is bro, every man has had that one girl he liked and many never said anything.

its time to take the L with stride, its part of being a man to let every L shape you into a better version of yourself.

Go lift some weights and try to hustle on the internet for business. Go start a youtube channel and talk about something halal that you are passionate about.

InshALLAH in no time you will be successful and will have a loving wife (or 4).

I will keep you in my dua bro

 

[hinters]

this is just how it is bro, every man has had that one girl he liked and many never said anything.

its time to take the L with stride, its part of being a man to let every L shape you into a better version of yourself.

Go lift some weights and try to hustle on the internet for business. Go start a youtube channel and talk about something halal that you are passionate about.

InshALLAH in no time you will be successful and will have a loving wife (or 4).

I will keep you in my dua bro

Thank you bro, I really appreciate it.

I am starting the road of self improvement and reflection. Inshallah I will succeed