A good example of a great halal meher back home

[TekNiKo]

And he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The best of Mahrs is the simplest (or most affordable).” (Narrated by Al-Hakim and Al-Bayhaqi, classed as authentic by Al-Albani in Sahih Al-Jami`, 3279)

@Inquisitive_ @The alchemist @The truth seeker

This is why marriage back home lasts long and is successful, alhamdillah

 

[TekNiKo]

More and more men are waking up, heres a say wallahi brother comparing marrying a girl who grew up in Somalia and a say wallahi girl


War @Inquisitive_ listen to this sxb wallahi wa run

 

[Devilsadvocate]

And he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The best of Mahrs is the simplest (or most affordable).” (Narrated by Al-Hakim and Al-Bayhaqi, classed as authentic by Al-Albani in Sahih Al-Jami`, 3279)

@Inquisitive_ @The alchemist @The truth seeker

This is why marriage back home lasts long and is successful, alhamdillah

i actually advocate for cheap mehr for women so they can pay it back asap if they need to initiate divorce.

 

[gasara]

i actually advocate for cheap mehr for women so they can pay it back asap if they need to initiate divorce.

You have to pay your mehr back??

 

[lovelypeaches]

Wtf who would accept 100$ mehr . My shoes cost more than that . How can a man that cant even afford to pay for a good amount mehr, even afford to provide for his family

 

[Abu Hesi]

i actually advocate for cheap mehr for women so they can pay it back asap if they need to initiate divorce.

if the woman asks for a divorce, the mehr is usually forgiven all together.

 

[Kisame]

1.I've Never seen a good looking and financially stable Somali nigga preaching about marrying chicks from back home.

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[Angelina]

Good for them. Small Mehr or large Mehr as long as the couple are happy and the marriage is halal.

No point comparing girls back home to the West, the divorce rates are actually very high and ridiculously so for a trad society.

 

[Angelina]

You have to pay your mehr back??

Yes, if you ask for Khula.

Another downside is that even if a man is abusive he can easily trap you and say I won’t release you from marriage unless you give me all of your Mehr. Even worse in the West since we don’t have proper Islamic courts so that might be the only way to leave.

 

[Devilsadvocate]

You have to pay your mehr back??

Yeah you do if you initiate the divorce as a woman.

 

[Devilsadvocate]

if the woman asks for a divorce, the mehr is usually forgiven all together.

That’s not true at all, you have to pay your mehr back if you initiate Khula.

 

[Abu Hesi]

That’s not true at all, you have to pay your mehr back if you initiate Khula.

we are saying the same thing, misread your op.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

And he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The best of Mahrs is the simplest (or most affordable).” (Narrated by Al-Hakim and Al-Bayhaqi, classed as authentic by Al-Albani in Sahih Al-Jami`, 3279)

@Inquisitive_ @The alchemist @The truth seeker

This is why marriage back home lasts long and is successful, alhamdillah

I think that hadith is not obligation upon womens and it is just advise
And i think if they don't want to follow that hadith it is their choice also if womens don't want low meher I think mens don't need to use that hadith guilt trip against womens

 

[LilBang]

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Nah bro you need to chill looks arent everything

 

[EyiPunter]

1.I've Never seen a good looking and financially stable Somali nigga preaching about marrying chicks from back home.

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Mr futo cunay that comment was not needed

 

[LilBang]

Mr futo cunay that comment was not needed

Exactly dude thinks that looks are automatically necessary when it comes to a woman

 

[Kisame]

Mr futo cunay that comment was not needed

Not trying to end up in a dead bedroom

Exactly dude thinks that looks are automatically necessary when it comes to a woman

It's mainly broke or ugly niggas hyping up chicks from back home. No decent looking nigga that's financially stable is looking for a wife back home.

 

[The Oponian Guild]

1.I've Never seen a good looking and financially stable Somali nigga preaching about marrying chicks from back home.

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Disgusting comment

 

[therandomone]

Wtf who would accept 100$ mehr . My shoes cost more than that . How can a man that cant even afford to pay for a good amount mehr, even afford to provide for his family

Allah will take care of him

 

[Kisame]

Disgusting comment

Sucks that I had to say it. The worst FGM type is common in Somalia too. A lot of our women back home will probably never be able to enjoy sex.

At that point sex is just a chore to them. A lot of these women had no choice in this decision either. They got completely fucked over.