A message For Our Somali Queens,

[Samaalic Era]

I as a man say that, Asian men are men, in contrast to useless Somali males. Do you think im to proud to admit that, because of this childish gender wars. Allah made every man responsible for the females of his households. It is no coincidence that majority Asian girls are good girls.

Somali females lack a man to lead them. The mothers are crazy with no Dhaqan and ran after every Somali event to dance in the ages of 40-60. If a man in the household would put them in place, this would not happen. The daughters see a useless mother and a weak father. Alx in my family we are more like Asians and have a strong culture.

If you wanna get to know a guy, you'll have to ask your male relatives to assist you, there is no excuses. Of course we have a culture for halal dating. When my in law wanted to marry my sister he dated her in our house. He came like a gentle men with his family and the we got to know him. Every girl can so the same, they just don't want to. Dating several guys is so cheap. Like how embarrassing is this for your family when you daughter/sister tries out different men, completly shameless, even if she "keeps it halal". This is what i mean with no culture, no female of my house would think like that. If a woman dates one guy were she is sure that he is the right one and her intentions is to marry, then this is a different case. I would not blame her. But Somali girls are in the dating scene beginning from the age of 13 and date plenty guys.

When I got married, I made my wife wear the niqab and her parents were happy with that but her cousins tried to interfere with our marriage. It's the carrot and stick approach. As long as you can balance it out, she will follow you and be loyal.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Look you can talk to a guy in a halal manner and after speaking to him you realise he not the one and then talk to someone else. That is not ceeb. Same for a guy.

You might get to know a girl and then not like her personality and then end things and talk to someone else.

I've had people come to my house talk to them and then realise i want nothing to do with them. Women have the right to choose.

Women should have their husband selected for them like the Sahabi women or does that not suit your feminist agenda

 

[Mehmet]

i noticed a lot of brothers, , you really hate somali girls/women

to be honest, i have never met a female more attractive, stronger, smarter, more gorgeous, more elegant than a somali female,

my wife calls me boqor, all the females in my family are educated, hard working and only want a somali man, my wife wants to submit to me, she is happiest when she submits to me, she likes me to take the lead, to be in charge, she is feminine like all the halimos i have met,

why the toxic hate brother? tells us, what happened,


truth be told boys, a woman is your reflection, if she is horrible you deserve it because you are horrible, if your nice/respectful, she will be what you are, what you deserve,

please lads, dont be hating our queens, i will never ever in a day replace her with a smelly foreigner

halimos are God sent, foreign man love love our naago, they want to marry them, becasue they know how amazing they are

stay positive girls, i noticed all these teenage lads raised in the west have Been corrupted by bad music and hollywood music, we have lost our culture, becky doesn't want you lads, stick to your halimos

treat them well, they are queens, beautiful, hardworking, strong,

how many Somali females you seen where the useless dad has left chasing other naago for marriage and the strong somali mum raises 6, 8, 9 kids alone, pays for their holiday, teaches them deen, takes them to tution,?

they are the perfect mothers, they need help from dads, wallahi when i become president of Jubaland insha Allah and invade xamar with 50,000 tall strong Ogaden lads to kick bantus out, and thus declare myself president, i will make a law that says any farax who ditches the wife to run around marrying, will go to prison if he doesn't pay for his kids and supoports the wife, man have become useless, our grandfathers would be ashamed,

the somali community is worst in the west because of the dads, they take no responsibility,

somali female are the backbone of our society, our race but seriously man have let them down massively, so badly our awows of old would be shaking in their graves what man have become today,

so useless, deadbeat dad always chasing the youngest model with our carrying about the kids and previous 5 wives he left,

i would loved to put an end to this, oh Allah lord of the worlds please give me 50,000 heavily armed cagheeer soldiers so i can rectify so many things wrong with the somali race, insha Allah,

every kid shot, i blame the dad for he left them 10,15 years ago and has divorced 6/8 wives around the global, why do somali man thing their duty is to make children but take no care of their kids?

girls, pray to Allah i get my heavily armed 50,000 Ogaden soldiers so i can clean up somali and somali man in the west,

i am sick and tired of what most somali man have become in the west and back home, gossiping, chat chewing useless caaqs,

but insha Allah not under my watch if Allah every gives me power,

so this is a homeage to somali girls/females, stay amazing, yuo are in my opnion when of the very few good things left of our pathetic race,

strong, caring, nauturing, reliable, clean, loyal, honest, islamic, good fearing, good manners, gorgouse, and able to riase so many kids evwen after the dead beat dad has left,

it breaks my heart when i see so many somali man leave their kids, their daughters fiffled by tyrone the adoon and their boys langusing in prisons, and the caaq is baosting i have 5 ex wives and 20 kids yet has never ever given 1 cent to feed his kids and has not seen them 10,15 years,

i have 5 abtis who got divorced, something remakrble, each one of them took their kids after they negotiated with the wife and riased their own kids, i have 13 abtis, laxmi abtis, and 17 aunts from mum side,

my grandparents always say take the kids, the new husband might nit be Ogaden or treat them well, take the kids and bring them to us or get a maid, - in kenya, to raise them,

this is how somali man were back in the days, caring, devoted fathers, now we have usless dead beats who have no single idea what their kids are up to because he is on wife number 7 hunting and pretending he is still a 20 year old young man on shuknais when he is 50 with bidaar faking it and spending his kids future money on the latest conquest he will no doubt leave,

when my dad divorced his first wife, he took all the kids, he brought them up till he married my mamma,

when my great granddad, my awows father lost his wife, my great grandmother in Qabridhaar Ogadeniya in 1949, my great granddad was asked why don't you marry another wife to look after kids, she dead in child labour with 4th kid that survived,

my great granddad said i fear the new wife might mistreat my kids, i will look after them my self, he never remarried, in 1949, he raised them alone,

look at the wisdom of old, the wise ideas man had

yet one time a halimo married a Jamaican adoon ex prisoner fake muslim convert who never told her he went to prison for rape, one day she came home and saw her 7 year old somali kid with bleeding arse, he raped the somali kid, the fufu run off, the police told her he was ex prisoner and sopent 5 years in prison for rape, this happened in UK about 10 years ago,

where was the somali dad? why did he allow his kid to have a fufu step dad?this breaks my heart

this is why all my 5 abtis always bribed the wives and took the kids home, why my dad took his 3 kids and raised them from first wife,

man had wisdom, they cared about their kids,

shame, shame, shame on you dead beat dads, yuo do not deserve the title father,

somali girls raised with out dad are selling their bodies now in kenya, london, where is the dead beat dad,

also a girl raised in two parent household make good wives, she has that respect for her dad as he is around and will respect her husband, yet now we have this cycle of high divorce because no one has respect for the sanctity of marriage, no one,

dead beat dads, lick my caghdeer feet, yall have destroyed the somali family and race,

shame,

They only call me boqor as they know i am the orginal suga don dada

 

[HalimaJ]

Women should have their husband selected for them like the Sahabi women or does that not suit your feminist agenda

There is nothing in the deen that says a woman should be forced or that her husband has to be selected.

Khadijah choose the prophet S.A.W.

Stop chatting rubbish and be gone, you weirdo.

 

[Mehmet]

its the truth bro,

show me one somali females, raising kids alone who is not strong, wallahi it takes guts what they do, single mother raising 6,8 kids alone, tuition, deen, holiday, working, saving hard, on her own

Some chased out their men because of their families

 

[Samaalic Era]

There is nothing in the deen that says a woman should be forced or that her husband has to be selected.

Khadijah choose the prophet S.A.W.

Stop chatting rubbish and be gone, you weirdo.

Before Islam was revealed by 15 years.
Did fatima choose her husband? Did any of the women of Ahl Bayt choose their husbands?

Not even Hasan and Husayn could choose their wives let alone the women of the Sahaba

 

[Mehmet]

They need tough love for sure

 

[HalimaJ]

Before Islam was revealed by 15 years.
Did fatima choose her husband? Did any of the women of Ahl Bayt choose their husbands?

Not even Hasan and Husayn could choose their wives let alone the women of the Sahaba

Traditionally, same in Somali dhaqan a man proposes. Parents tell the girl about the proposal.and the girl says yes or no to the man.

That is choosing. The prophet S.A.W proposed to his wives and they accepted. They all had the choice. So what are you trying to say?



A woman in islam through her wali can also propose. There is no dispute in that amongst the scholars so what are you trying to say?

 

[Samaalic Era]

Traditionally, same in Somali dhaqan a man proposes. Parents tell the girl about the proposal.and the girl says yes or no to the man.

That is choosing. The prophet S.A.W proposed to his wives and they accepted. They all had the choice. So what are you trying to say?



A woman in islam through her wali can also propose. There is no dispute in that amongst the scholars so what are you trying to say?

That wasn't what you were saying before but that's fine and is Islamically correct.

 

[HalimaJ]

That wasn't what you were saying before but that's fine and is Islamically correct.

Yes I was.

I had guys come to my house as they proposed to my dad. I got to know them and respectfully chosen not to marry them.

I spoke to him and didn't like him.

If I had married him, he would be someone I had CHOSEN not my abo.

 

[Farjano-Walad]

I have both of my parents at home you can keep your "strong" cagdheer/Ogaden single mothers

i didn't say anything about caghdeer only, all somali mothers are strong wallahi, you can never do in 2 hours what they have done in 20 years, where many raise the kids despite the dad running around marrying 5/7/9 times,

 

[Farjano-Walad]

Your post made me day
Ps. Keep that caghdeer feet fetish to yourself. Thank u.

just remind these haters to lick my feet, they have mothers, sisters, aunts who they must likely with a very high percentage know have struggled yet have the audacity to insult them here constantly,

because i am fasting i dont want to swear hardcore, but they can certainly lick my caghdeer feet,

coming here to proof me wrong when all i said was plain and simple to see, go to any community and 99% of somali mothers struggle because of useless dead beat fathers who seem to think their entire reason to exist is to constantly marry the latest halimo with out a care in the World for how he will fend and feed the kids he is creating,

 

[Vanessa]

just remind these haters to lick my feet, they have mothers, sisters, aunts who they must likely with a very high percentage know have struggled yet have the audacity to insult them here constantly,

because i am fasting i dont want to swear hardcore, but they can certainly lick my caghdeer feet,

coming here to proof me wrong when all i said was plain and simple to see, go to any community and 99% of somali mothers struggle because of useless dead beat fathers who seem to think their entire reason to exist is to constantly marry the latest halimo with out a care in the World for how he will fend and feed the kids he is creating,

Why do u always have to mention feet? Sorry if I offended u.

 

[Farjano-Walad]

First of all i don't need to remind you what you say in the politic section about women from different tribes, right ?

Secondly not all Somalis females are my queens. Why should i call a cheap Somali women in the west, who interact for free with a guy, call a Queen ? If you look at other societies like pakistan, i tell you 95 percent of the girls never date or have any interaction with her men, before they meet their husband. If i were Pakastani i would have no problems talking about my Pakistani Queens. As for Somalis their females are known for completely the oppostite. They are shameless and even in this forum they talk proudly, what guys they've dated and their former boyfriends, regardless if they wear hijab or are married. They lack both: a father who cares for them, disciplines them and make sure they behave and a mother, who teaches them how a Muslim female should be. Unfortunely most mothers are buisy partying in events and talking on phone with friends and don't teach their girls anything. They make 7 children, but all they do for them is cooking and cleaning. With a useless mother and a father, who doesn't care, you'll see that the vast majority of Somali girls are known for being loud, dating several guys, for having many boyfriends, most of them need attention and they generally speaking the most shameless Muslim women in the west. Sugar coating won't save our problems, we need to address problems. Such women have no right to be called Queens. My Queens are only my female relatives and every Somali girl who has Deen and Dhaqan. As for the rest they can be your queens.

The only part i agree is we have to teach Somali men how to be men. I don't call them men yet, most of them are just males. Females need to be lead by men, otherwise they end up like the useless mothers or the hyperactive daughters.

i disagree, 99% of somali girls do not date and are good islamic girls,

and any man that sees a few in the west lost its because he is also lost and you see what yuo look for, if you want a good daqan decent girl hanfg around in the right places,

also man are to lame if we have a few lost halimos because man are supposed to be there and raise them right,

did it accur to you maybe the pakistanis are better becasue their fathers are repsonble and threre and raise their diaghters right?

why cannt somalis do that,

i blame man, fathers to be exact, if your daughter is lost its because he is absent,

go islamic lectures, 99% of the time its good clean somali girls, mosques, Islamic lecturers at university its always good somali girls,

if your seeing a bad halimo its because yall hang around in shisha places,

also let me remind yuo, Pakistanis, arabs etc complain about their ladies just like we do,

i know arabs and pakistanis and indians who hate their girls too,

 

[Farjano-Walad]

Before Islam was revealed by 15 years.
Did fatima choose her husband? Did any of the women of Ahl Bayt choose their husbands?

Not even Hasan and Husayn could choose their wives let alone the women of the Sahaba

actually fatima was asked, she had choice, so did all the ladies,

also man ask, females get a chocie, so hassan and husain sort their ladies, they did the hunting,

stop making things up

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Every man deserves to have a place where they store their sperm a receptacle and just like any other woman xalimos are good receptacle

 

[Abdurahman_somali]

i disagree, 99% of somali girls do not date and are good islamic girls,

and any man that sees a few in the west lost its because he is also lost and you see what yuo look for, if you want a good daqan decent girl hanfg around in the right places,

also man are to lame if we have a few lost halimos because man are supposed to be there and raise them right,

did it accur to you maybe the pakistanis are better becasue their fathers are repsonble and threre and raise their diaghters right?

why cannt somalis do that,

i blame man, fathers to be exact, if your daughter is lost its because he is absent,

go islamic lectures, 99% of the time its good clean somali girls, mosques, Islamic lecturers at university its always good somali girls,

if your seeing a bad halimo its because yall hang around in shisha places,

also let me remind yuo, Pakistanis, arabs etc complain about their ladies just like we do,

i know arabs and pakistanis and indians who hate their girls too,

99% percent is a very high number. UK is the worst community an majority females there dates guys. You clearly don't have much knowledge regarding this. However other communities like Sweden, Norway, Denmark or Germany are far better than UK.

It is true that the general Pakistani male have more manhood than the general Somali, hence u see that their females most of the times are better than ours in the west.

But i was just talking about western Xalimos. The girls back home are to more than 95 percent good women.

 

[Samaalic Era]

actually fatima was asked, she had choice, so did all the ladies,

also man ask, females get a chocie, so hassan and husain sort their ladies, they did the hunting,

stop making things up

Ali ibn Abi Talib arranged all the marriages of Hasan and Husayn. Their wives were daughters of tribal chiefs so you need to check on your info.

Also, asking the daughter if she wants to accept or reject so and so proposal is normal. I'm not advocating forced marriages

 

[Farjano-Walad]

99% percent is a very high number. UK is the worst community an majority females there dates guys. You clearly don't have much knowledge regarding this. However other communities like Sweden, Norway, Denmark or Germany are far better than UK.

It is true that the general Pakistani male have more manhood than the general Somali, hence u see that their females most of the times are better than ours in the west.

But i was just talking about western Xalimos. The girls back home are to more than 95 percent good women.

 

[TekNiKo]

Begging xalimos on sspot wont give u free s11l