You could punish me anydayWho doesn't suffer from cognitive dissonance. Except for dead people. It's part and parcel with living. As the the NPD. I resist the pathologizing and already self-diagnosed as a narc long ago only to realize it wan't the best fit. Unfortunately. But you know having a Somali Joe that just so happens to be a lass would be awesome. I would even take requests. @Medulla I don't want to think small and get dembi for these boys and collect their sins. No thanks. But I could be a bounty hunter. Call me if your husband is cheating (which also includes in the market for a second wife). We will devise the best form of punishment and I will beat the monogamy into him or dispose of him (alive of course).