A Somali housewife was divorced for being too obedient.

[Omar del Sur]

Feminism was present during Prophet Muhammad’s time, the Muslim women had rights, educated, and highly regarded.

Of course women have rights. No reasonable person disputes that. If you read what I said about feminism, I'm clearly describing something else when I refer to feminism.

"one moment it's promoting zina, one moment it's promoting OnlyFans, one moment it's promoting lesbianism, one moment it's pushing abortion, homosexuality, witchcraft ("witchcraft is empowerment for women"), women taking off the hijab, women becoming apostates"

obviously those things are not the Islamic concept of women's rights (except maybe abortion in certain specific circumstances)....

I'm for women's rights if we mean women's rights as per the rights given by Islam- and not just for women but for all people. Human rights come from God. A person can't just make up an imaginary right that people have to walk outside naked.

Like, for example- a woman can't be forced to marry against her will. That is an actual right of women.

I'm talking about the modern-day feminist movement with women marching topless and stuff. As for actual women's rights given by God, of course they have to be respected.

If you are a feminist and you mean being against forced marriage for example there's nothing wrong and you're actually doing something good.

The issue as far as ANY ideology is if it goes against Islam. If what you mean by feminism doesn't go against Islam there's nothing wrong with it. But I'm referring to the modern movement with topless marches and stuff.

 

[elite1337]

if yall really think hard working men who actually get shit done want an annoying btch who doesnt respect him you are wrong
at the end of the day bums attract bums
also dont confuse submission to being a slave because thats not what it is
You cant just take 1 case of someone divorcing because of this and making it seem like we dont like that kind of stuff

 

[Basra]

What do men really want? They scream at the top of their lungs that they want a housewife who's obedient (I don't agree with this) but when they find a rare one then they divorce her because he doesn't want to go to hell for not fulfilling her needs. I'm beyond confused.

Not fulfilling her needs? Maybe he is gay and can't fulfill her robust healthy sex appetite

 

[Shogun]

I've heard some men find 'yes' women rather dull. I'm not downgrading obedience because listening to your husband is a good thing in Islam, but from being on sspot for some time it seems to me that many men want a stepford wife like woman who jumps through every hoop, devoid of strong opinions, assertiveness and passion for life. Differing opinons, a woman having her own interests outside of the home ect is what makes conversation.

So Faraaxs. If your wife is at home day and night. Doesn't express strong opinions ect that differ to your own ect. What will you talk about?

Being submissive and being a drone are two different things. She is an entirely independent human being and not an extension of myself.

Wallahi it was an older lady that made me realize a few years back that "men like what they can get". I couldn't agree with her because it felt insulting at the time, but she spoke the truth. To put it in context, it was an argument surrounding male preferences. She said men will say they like feisty women as a testament of what they'll put up with. It is a simple truth that men generally don't want an assertive woman as much as women don't want a submissive man.

 

[bluebird]

I've heard some men find 'yes' women rather dull. I'm not downgrading obedience because listening to your husband is a good thing in Islam, but from being on sspot for some time it seems to me that many men want a stepford wife like woman who jumps through every hoop, devoid of strong opinions, assertiveness and passion for life. Differing opinons, a woman having her own interests outside of the home ect is what makes conversation.

So Faraaxs. If your wife is at home day and night. Doesn't express strong opinions ect that differ to your own ect. What will you talk about?

tbf angelina I feel like traditionally the ideal wife in somalia is one who is tough, savvy and a diligent homemaker. I don't think they like the pampered 50s housewife type. they want their wife to be able to carry sticks in her back and handle the house when they aren't there.

 

[Factz]

I've heard more cases of wives divorcing their husbands because of boredom despite everything going well in the relationship. I highly doubt that was the case for this one.

The overwhelming majority of men prefer obedient women who are submissive and cooperative. It's like women who want men to provide and protect the same way men want women who are submissive and good homemakers.

No woman would stay with a beta man who is feminine, submissive docile, and weak. They want a real man who is more in tune with his manhood and masculinity. Someone who is assertive and believes it was his God-given right to lead.

The small minority that want toxic love and drama in their relationship do not represent most men because these men are misguided and will eventually regret their decision. Most working men prefer peaceful homes. Trash men do not represent good men. That should be the message.

 

[Basra]

tbf angelina I feel like traditionally the ideal wife in somalia is one who is tough, savvy and a diligent homemaker. I don't think they like the pampered 50s housewife type. they want their wife to be able to carry sticks in her back and handle the house when they aren't there.

HA HA HA HA H A

 

[Hali]

HA HA HA HA H A

Are you a good housewife Basra ?

 

[Basra]

Are you a good housewife Basra ?

huuno i aint carrying sticks on my back thats for sure. I am Boss lady, my kids carry the sticks, i just make sure hubby is a provider or am kicking his farah a$$ out

 

[Hali]

huuno i aint carrying sticks on my back thats for sure. I am Boss lady, my kids carry the sticks, i just make sure hubby is a provider or am kicking his farah a$$ out

Sitting pretty then

 

[bluebird]

HA HA HA HA H A

its true lol. I heard in somalia feminine soft women are considered as doqon. They like a woman to have a healthy amount of both masculine and feminine energy so they will be more productive and less work to handle

 

[waryabdi]

The way it’s going a lot of Somali women are going to die alone or marry beta males/dayuuths

 

[IstarZ]

The way it’s going a lot of Somali women are going to die alone or marry beta males/dayuuths

We will all die alone sxb. Taas la isma weydiinaayo.

 

[Basra]

its true lol. I heard in somalia feminine soft women are considered as doqon. They like a woman to have a healthy amount of both masculine and feminine energy so they will be more productive and less work to handle

Well Xaliimo already have a stereo-typical way of being tuff, sporty and tom boyish. it varies in degrees or spectrum. From a full blown lesbian butch to the 5% masculine extreme.

 

[bluebird]

Well Xaliimo already have a stereo-typical way of being tuff, sporty and tom boyish. it varies in degrees or spectrum. From a full blown lesbian butch to the 5% masculine extreme.

there's a deep psychological reason why...shall I tell you?

 

[bobsburger]

@united nations Blease help me United Nations... ethnic women are out to get me

Stay right there!
we are coming!

 

[dr.leorio]

Like the brother @Omar del Sur already mentioned, modern day feminism is an extension of Marxism. And Marxism is an extension of Satanism. As we all know (hopefully) Satan is doing the bidding of Dajjal in the unseen (ghyab) world until he appears in our world and claims to be the Messiah. This cannot happen until the entire world is rife with degeneracy, trials, tribulations, bloodshed and the utmost demoralizing decadent society history has ever seen. It will literally be so bad that the Prophet (pbuh) said that we will need to coercively restrain our women so that they don't follow Dajjal and his ideologies. Don't believe me? Read this Sahih Hadith:

“The False Messiah will come upon this marsh of Marriqanat (near Medina). Most of those who go out to him will be women, until a man goes back to his wife, his mother, his daughter, his sister, and his aunt to shackle them tightly, fearing they would go out to him.”

Personally, I believe most of these women are far gone and will follow Dajjal and his way of life. Preaching is a complete waste of time. It's like arguing with a brick wall lakin I respect the Muslim men still fighting for Islamic ideologies. I'll be taking my talents overseas where women are still fit and feminine.