You guys are moving like gaalos. Mehr is a woman's right in Islam. Just find a woman who loves you and doesn't want to finesse you. Mehr doesn't have to be a lot of money. It doesn't even have to be money.
Forget being 20 even if you're 50 I don't see the reason to pay more than 5k for mehr. But people are different and different people accept different things. Also some men are willing to pay large amount because they just got it like that. To each their own though.
Ik damn well abu Rastafarian ain’t payin it why we different
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I realize now I’d probably have to marry from a different stateForget being 20 even if you're 50 I don't see the reason to pay more than 5k for mehr. But people are different and different people accept different things. Also some men are willing to pay large amount because they just got it like that. To each their own though.
What's wrong with yours?I realize now I’d probably have to marry from a different state
I don’t know where to beginWhat's wrong with yours?
Imagine a man paying meher when he can use the money to make his life better financiallyYou guys are moving like gaalos. Mehr is a woman's right in Islam. Just find a woman who loves you and doesn't want to finesse you. Mehr doesn't have to be a lot of money. It doesn't even have to be money.
Then just don’t get married until you’re ready.Imagine a man paying meher when he can use the money to make his life better financially
Even if am ready I won't.Then just don’t get married until you’re ready.