Ajnabi & a revert says Somali women are cheap (Twitter).

[Assata]

@VixR @Zuleikha
Stop arguing with these xoolos.

They worry what dirty ajanabis and reverts have to say about us.

They probably take what these ajanabis and reverts say as the word of God.

 

[mid_kale]

When we (Somalis) constantly shiiting on each other, why shouldn't the lowest of the low shit on us too ..?

 

[The Ash'ari]

Yeah except when a salafi marries a Somali in Birmingham mosque for a few weeks and passes it onto his friends after divorcing her and letting others marry her. You're a bold face liar what did you thought you're the only person from uk here? Birmingham has its Fair share of Somali concubines at the mosque. In London most of my ajnabi friends are married to Somali girls & some of them are just Muslim by name, I call it how I see it, it is what it is somali girls are done wallahi viewed by most as an easy lay it's pathetic these xalimos can't handle the truth.

Abu Khadija has at least 40+ Somali 'concubines' in his Mosque in Small Heath. Do you even know what they're primary roles are?

Serve the 'akis'. Wallahi.

Each one of them went through at least 20+ 'Iddah periods.

 

[VixR]

Your the Queen of Deflection.

Did you even read what the he wrote? We are not holding onto anything. Congratulations for any woman who marries out, there is nothing wrong with that. Nobody here is talking about interracial marriages/relationships.

We are discussing why Somali girls are very cheap in the fashion in which they marry out. When a Somali woman pays a Nigerian man to marry her and this tradition continues unabated. Then this issue becomes public knowledge.

Ask yourself, why not Indian girls, why not Pakistani girls, why not Arab girls? Why is this phenomenon, only exclusive to Somali girls/women?

That's what we are talking about

Yes, you are. They DON'T want you, and it couldn't be clearer in that case. Let them go.

A girl who wants an ajnabi and only an ajnabi as requirement by hook or crook like that will get an ajnabi, and there's nothing you could do about it. Absolutely nothing.

 

[ChickenOriental]

Girls that marry out with ajnabi as their only requirement want out period! You need to learn to let it go.

But don't the brothers have a right to be upset/offended/put out by this? If there was a trend of Somali men walking out on us, I would be hurt by that too. Especially if those men had double standards and expected all sorts from a Somali woman meanwhile treating an ajanabi woman like a princess purely because she is not Somali.

This issue exists in the AA community as well but in reverse. The men bash and want to marry anything other than AA because it's their 'preference' and the AA women - rightly, in my opinion - are offended by this self-hate and discrimination.

 

[kulan1]

Who hurt you?

The other Somali men on this thread are just joking around and also making a good point about some xalimos. You are the only one that is straight up hating. Chill out.

Right I don't think he is somali to be honest. Someone is jealous and mad.

 

[ChickenOriental]

Right I don't think he is somali to be honest. Someone is jealous and mad.

He has since apologised.

 

[ChickenOriental]

Abu Khadija has at least 40+ Somali 'concubines' in his Mosque in Small Heath. Do you even know what they're primary roles are?

Serve the 'akis'. Wallahi.

Each one of them went through at least 20+ 'Iddah periods.

 

[The Ash'ari]

Yes, you are. They DON'T want you, and it couldn't be clearer in that case. Let them go.

Denial

 

[Bahal]

Who is Abu Khadija?

 

[VixR]

Denial

Where's the denial? I'm telling you the truth of it. A girl like that you describe wont look at you twice.

 

[Bahal]

Where's the denial? I'm telling you the truth of it. A girl like that you describe wont look at you twice.

The question is where did it go so wrong?

 

[Jubba_Man]

It's not that serious, but you're pretending to be one now. It's not affecting how I group views of ppl offline, but it definitely shows sides and I think the internet is raw and uncut, and where the truth seeps out into the webosphere.

Lol, this is what I mean. In almost all of these gender wars you have 4 types on all sides:

1. The trolls.
2. The sheltered.
3. The mentally compromised.
4. The reactionaries.


I was obviously in group 1 and only desisted after a forumer I respect told me sincerely to stop. For whatever reason, many Somalis cannot simply take this as simple banter and it actually affects their psyche. Just logging off and stepping outside into the real world would be enough to dispel all of this but that would be too easy, wouldn't it?

 

[The Ash'ari]

Where's the denial. I'm telling you the truth of it. A girl like that you describe wont look at you twice.

Good. That's fine.

Now address the actual points. Please don't tire us out by deflecting.

Try and keep in sync.

Why is this only Somali girls exclusively and nobody else. You find self haters in every community. But the apples and oranges are primarily a 'Somali' women phenomenon. Why is that?

Don't deflect.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Have you no shame or heart, brother?

Shame? There's no shame in the truth wallahi I'm speaking about what I've seen in England what do you rather I do paint a rosy picture & sweep it under the rug so Somali girls can get violated by ajnabi men in peace

 

[VixR]

Good. That's fine.

Now address the actual points. Please don't tire us out by deflecting.

Try and keep in sync.

Why is this only Somali girls exclusively and nobody else. You find self haters in every community. But the apples and oranges are primarily a 'Somali' women phenomenon. Why is that?

Don't deflect.

What deflection? The case you describe is explicit, don't you think? They want out, period, exclamation point.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Abu Khadija has at least 40+ Somali 'concubines' in his Mosque in Small Heath. Do you even know what they're primary roles are?

Serve the 'akis'. Wallahi.

Each one of them went through at least 20+ 'Iddah periods.

Wallahi the shit I've heard from there makes my stomach turn they literally use xalimos like concubines

 

[The Ash'ari]

What deflection? The case you describe is explicit, don't you think? They want out, period.

It certainly can't be that issue only. White women sometimes want out, black women sometimes want out, same goes for every ethnic group on the planet.
But their decision to go 'out' never correlates with them downgrading or cheapening themselves or compromising their deisres and ideals just to get with a foreigner. But these are attributes which are very common in Somali women.

Why? Don't deflect. Lol

 

[VixR]

But don't the brothers have a right to be upset/offended/put out by this? If there was a trend of Somali men walking out on us, I would be hurt by that too. Especially if those men had double standards and expected all sorts from a Somali woman meanwhile treating an ajanabi woman like a princess purely because she is not Somali.

This issue exists in the AA community as well but in reverse. The men bash and want to marry anything other than AA because it's their 'preference' and the AA women - rightly, in my opinion - are offended by this self-hate and discrimination.

See, I don't think AA women should moping and wailing online either. If their counterparts want white women, they want white women. Make do with the ones that want you and live your life. Somali men marry out, they're just not highlighted with a jumbo marker, my dear.

 

[VixR]

It certainly can't be that issue only. White women sometimes want out, black women sometimes want out, same goes for every ethnic group on the planet.
But their decision to go 'out' never correlates with them downgrading or cheapening themselves or compromising their deisres and ideals just to get with a foreigner. But these are attributes which are very common in Somali women.

Why? Don't deflect. Lol

Relative. The mehr thing isn't of highlight with an ajnabi. What I see in what you describe is a clear aversion to Somali men and/or culture, and tbh I especially understand the culture aspect and have criticized some things on here many times. You need to interview one of these chicks you speak of and candidly ask her why.