if you say or do that on a first date then you’ll probably not get a second one and she’ll say to her friends ur broke or some shit. but they wanna be all about equality at the same time it don’t make sense. *not all women but most.
Most women know there is no real equality in relationships. We are the ones giving birth and doing most of the cooking and cleaning within the relationship later on. Also, men pursue women usually. Saying 'hEy, bUt yoU LoT WaNted equalITY' is just manipulative at this point. So the fact that she has her own money doesn't cancel out anything.
Furthermore, If a girl calls you up and says 'hey, I want to take you out', then yes, you can expect her to pay for you. You lot are doing the chasing, inviting ect. Common decency dictates that you pay up.