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Ubax45_

QUOTE="tima, post: 1995564, member: 12199"]Sometimes I rather be xasid than broke :nahgirl: I might have to start implementing this.[/QUOTE]

When ppl use the word Xasid= why are you not letting me manipulate you?

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Muhammad Bire said:
U think these xoolo kids gonna obey a “contract” kkkk
A lot of these kiddos don’t even follow actual laws :drakelaugh:
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Ubax45_ said:
QUOTE="tima, post: 1995564, member: 12199"]Sometimes I rather be xasid than broke :nahgirl: I might have to start implementing this.
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When ppl use the word Xasid= why are you not letting me manipulate you?

:nahgirl:





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Don’t tell me you one of them kkkkk
 
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tima said:
The only stuff I spend money on is makeup, skin care products, and other people. My younger sister spends all her money on clothes so I just go shopping in her closet. I'm a daddy's girl so my dad still pays for my phone bill. I sew so I make my own skirts and dresses for me and my sisters and mom. I cook food and pack my own lunch. If I spend even 5 dollars on outside food I get upset with myself. I still have money saved from 4 summers ago. It helps me out so much being money conscious because i'm able to help my parents or family back home when they need it but I feel like I'm always debating over making memories or saving money. I have lost friends because I never want to go out. Two summers ago my friends and cousin went to Italy and they had so much fun I still see pics till this day and regret not going.:banderas: I didn't go to prom because I wanted to save (Although I don't regret it now because it's haram).

I use to have a reputation of being the kindest in the house now I think it's stingy. Everyone knows I have money so my siblings always want to borrow money from me and I use to always give them but I don't do it that much now or I only let them borrow because it's not fair. You go out with friends, go on trips all the time, go shopping etc and I sacrifice that to save money just for me to lose that money while you reap all the benefits. I give my sister money all the time. Last week I gave her 500 because she said her bank account was in the negatives. Last month I gave her 3,000 because she didn't have enough for school. She always says she will own me back but once I ask her for the money back she says I'm stingy and xasid so I just drop it. She probably owes me 15k in total :kanyehmm: The biggest mistake I ever made was in grade 12. I applied to every single scholarship I came across from grade 11 to 12 and when I was almost done 12th grade I made an instagram post with all my scholarships and how I was able to get so much money in scholarships. I put the exact amount too.:wow1: I was really happy with my hard work but that was the dumbest thing I ever did. Since then every person I came across needs financial help. :faysalwtf: My biggest regret till this day is telling people about my finances including family.

Wallahi money comes and goes. We are are going to return back to Allah with nothing so I'm trying to make up for lost time right now and just enjoy myself but it's hard. Jimce wanaagsan and Thank you for reading this. May Allah fulfill all your halal dreams and desires. :icon e biggrin:
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MadMullah99

MadMullah99

Boqor of Boqors. The man your wife fantasises of.
You are emotional. You are going in a downward spiral with those actions so listen to me. Do you know what financial literacy is? If not search it up and learn how to do it.

There is a lot of advice for somebody like you so I am going to make it really short so listen. First, saving is good but you need to know why you are saving in the first place. Don't save just for the sake of it. You need to have a mission and a goal in place. For example retirement, emergency fund etc figure that out first.

Memories vs saving? Listen very closely. f*ck the Money. when you are 80+ plus in a damn hospital or care home bed you will only vividly enjoy and remember your good times and your memories so never substitute that with a piece of paper. The best way to save money is to make more so instead of suffering, go out and make more and live your dreams. As far as family and friends, don't be a yes girl - you will be good once you figure out what i mean.
 
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tima

MadMullah99 said:
You are emotional. You are going in a downward spiral with those actions so listen to me. Do you know what financial literacy is? If not search it up and learn how to do it.

There is a lot of advice for somebody like you so I am going to make it really short so listen. First, saving is good but you need to know why you are saving in the first place. Don't save just for the sake of it. You need to have a mission and a goal in place. For example retirement, emergency fund etc figure that out first.

Memories vs saving? Listen very closely. f*ck the Money. when you are 80+ plus in a damn hospital or care home bed you will only vividly enjoy and remember your good times and your memories so never substitute that with a piece of paper. The best way to save money is to make more so instead of suffering, go out and make more and live your dreams. As far as family and friends, don't be a yes girl - you will be good once you figure out what i mean.
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Only recently have I figured some of these things out. :noneck: But thank you for the great advice walaal. I appreciate it.
 
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