Anyone else hate overly positive people?

[Vapour]

I lurk on a subreddit dedicated to people suffering from the same skin disorder as me. And it's absolutely infuriating to read posts from idiots who think this shit is some sort of blessing. God. Reddit is so pathetic at times.

 

[Vapour]

Having to apply make-up just to not get stared at is good thing?

 

[Hilmaam]

Hate is strong word kkk

 

[ForwardSweep]

Overly positive people seem really fake to me.

 

[Hilmaam]

People strange hating people for being nice. I’ve also seen term familiarity breeds contempt, if you make yourself to available and accommodating people will disrespect you. It’s good to cut people like this off, very toxic and backwards. My only thing is if you are being nice because of cowardice then you are just carpet to be stepped on

 

[Vapour]

People strange hating people for being nice. I’ve also seen term familiarity breeds contempt, if you make yourself to available and accommodating people will disrespect you. It’s good to cut people like this off, very toxic and backwards. My only thing is if you are being nice because of cowardice then you are just carpet to be stepped on

I hate people with false confidence. They only end up hurting themselves in the end. And they want other people to go down that path. If you have certain problems in life, you SHOULD be ashamed/insecure.

 

[Hilmaam]

I hate people with false confidence. They only end up hurting themselves in the end. And they want other people to go down that path. If you have certain problems in life, you SHOULD be ashamed/insecure.

Maybe some truth to that, but being ashamed and insecure is self destructive

 

[AbdiFreedom]

I noticed alot of Black people do so you're in good company.

 

[Radical]

There's nothing wrong with having a positive outlook on what life dealt you. The problem is when you ignore the inherent harmful nature and pretend it's some sorta blessing

Like take being fat for example, it's good to love yourself and pay no attention to the bullying and hateful comments from others, but ignoring the advice of medical professionals and denying the reality of it being unhealthy is going too far on the positivity scale

 

[Hodan from HR]

I am one of those people with an overly positive mindset

Sorry OP.

I promise I don't do this to downplay other people's sufferings. In fact, I encourage those around me to vent and express their anger. However, I struggle with expressing my anger. My therapist once jokingly said "Hodan, you could benefit from anger expression classes."

Some people may find me fake as a result and it can be a struggle making real connection with new people.

 

[Hodan from HR]

The other day, my friend and I almost got hit. Keyword here is almost. I said Alhamdullilah. She on the other hand, was having a mental breakdown, cursing the driver etc.. I genuinely feel like it could have been worse. We were safe with just a tiny scratch on the car. However, because I value our friendship, I felt the need to fake being upset to validate her feelings.


Now I ask you @Vapour, if you have a friend like me, would you rather I fake being upset so I don't appear fake to you?

 

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[00Scoe]

What u got vitiligo or somethin?
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[Basra]

I lurk on a subreddit dedicated to people suffering from the same skin disorder as me. And it's absolutely infuriating to read posts from idiots who think this shit is some sort of blessing. God. Reddit is so pathetic at times.

You r a demon huuno.

 

[Vapour]

The other day, my friend and I almost got hit. Keyword here is almost. I said Alhamdullilah. She on the other hand, was having a mental breakdown, cursing the driver etc.. I genuinely feel like it could have been worse. We were safe with just a tiny scratch on the car. However, because I value our friendship, I felt the need to fake being upset to validate her feelings.


Now I ask you @Vapour, if you have a friend like me, would you rather I fake being upset so I don't appear fake to you?

There is a balance to all of this. I don't think you should fake being upset all the time. Maybe just some of the time. I should be able to complain in peace sometimes. But there are times when you shouldn't validate my feelings. So that my perspective changes and I mature as a result.

 

[IstarZ]

I think it might be their way of coping. The truth is sometimes uncomfortable for some to face so they have to put on a facade.

 

[Sol]

Had the misfortune of sitting next to an American on a flight from Heathrow to Barcelona

 

[NidarNidar]

I lurk on a subreddit dedicated to people suffering from the same skin disorder as me. And it's absolutely infuriating to read posts from idiots who think this shit is some sort of blessing. God. Reddit is so pathetic at times.

You got vitiligo?

What u got vitiligo or somethin?
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I didn't even see this comment.

 

[The Oponian Guild]

I lurk on a subreddit dedicated to people suffering from the same skin disorder as me. And it's absolutely infuriating to read posts from idiots who think this shit is some sort of blessing. God. Reddit is so pathetic at times.

What freckles?

 

[Moon-]

The other day, my friend and I almost got hit. Keyword here is almost. I said Alhamdullilah. She on the other hand, was having a mental breakdown, cursing the driver etc.. I genuinely feel like it could have been worse. We were safe with just a tiny scratch on the car. However, because I value our friendship, I felt the need to fake being upset to validate her feelings.


Now I ask you @Vapour, if you have a friend like me, would you rather I fake being upset so I don't appear fake to you?

just be yourself don't fake being upset its very annoying she could probably tell too