Are Virgins worth more ?

[IftiinOfLife]

I am a virgin and think deep down I’m worth more then people who has casual sex.

Is it wrong or mean to have this value. A lot of my female friends aren’t virgins , but I find that some are jealous of me for having such discipline.

 

[Keo]

As a female you are worth more if you are a virgin but as a male you are worth less if you are a virgin.

 

[IftiinOfLife]

I agree , but I think for males it doesn’t matter, I never cared if my male friends were virgins or not.

 

[Keo]

I agree , but I think for males it doesn’t matter, I never cared if my male friends were virgins or not.

You shouldn't care if they are just your friends. They are your friends for a reason after all.

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

You sound like femcel

 

[Saadambe]

You're gonna die one day. Live your life. Most people have mediocre or sexless marriages. Have some fun before that.

 

[Ayubi]

Nothing wrong with being a virgin especially if your not married. My advise to both Men and Women here is wail till your married, don't break your virginity before that. Do not care about what society is going to think about you, only care about what Allah thinks. Zina is one of the major sins in Islam that Allah has warned us against.

Allah says in the Quran- "And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way." Surah Al Isra [17:32]

 

[Halimo-2018]

I am a virgin and think deep down I’m worth more then people who has casual sex.

Is it wrong or mean to have this value. A lot of my female friends aren’t virgins , but I find that some are jealous of me for having such discipline.

I look at people as human beings not if they have sex or not unless is haram sex which totally different I honestly don't understand society sometimes. Is just ridiculous. may Allah protect us.

 

[Vanessa]

As a female you are worth more if you are a virgin but as a male you are worth less if you are a virgin.

Virgin Muslim men avoiding sex before marriage especially in sex-crazed society. They are real martyr.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Virgin Muslim men avoiding sex before marriage especially in sex-crazed society. They are real martyr.

It takes alot self restraint and emaan to stay away from zina. There is no excuse for zina for both men and women and a zani should be shunned, regardless of who they are

 

[VixR]

I think it’s good that it adds to your sense of self worth. It’s not wrong or mean to rate yourself based on your own values, but at the same time, I don’t think it’s cause for jealousy.

 

[Vanessa]

It takes alot self restraint and emaan to stay away from zina. There is no excuse for zina for both men and women and a zani should be shunned, regardless of who they are

Exactly

Zina is one of major sin. There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin and avoiding zina.

 

[Omar del Sur]

Exactly

Zina is one of major sin. There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin and avoiding zina.

Not only is it not wrong- it is virtuous and praiseworthy.

 

[Ayubi]

Not only is it not wrong- it is virtuous and praiseworthy.

Also to add on to what you said, We live such a perverted society where if you don't commit Zina, your made fun of and called names such as "punk, gay, wimp" and other derogatory words. When Muslim teens and young adults hear these words, they feel pressured to prove their "Masculinity."

It's really not worth it at the end of the day since Allah tells us to not even come near to Zina.

 

[IftiinOfLife]

It takes alot self restraint and emaan to stay away from zina. There is no excuse for zina for both men and women and a zani should be shunned, regardless of who they are

Exactly, I could have had multiple sex partners from the age of 14 and onwards, I just keep saying no thanks, tbh, when its a white person, i don't even give a shit when they talk about getting their back blown out and destroyed in the bedroom, but when its a muslim or somali, i feel disgust and shame lol and i try my disgust so they dont get offended lol

 

[IftiinOfLife]

I think it’s good that it adds to your sense of self worth. It’s not wrong or mean to rate yourself based on your own values, but at the same time, I don’t think it’s cause for jealousy.

I think they are jealous of virgins because they know some secretly look down at them. Just a reality of life I guess.

 

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

Yes you are worth more. Any woman who has sex (any kind) before marriage has lost all human value. Sometimes you cannot prove a thief but you can prove a female fornicator. Mashallah you will make your future husband happy. If you are seeking marriage, I have some brothers who are looking.

 

[pablo]

Yes

 

[IBRAHIM.]

I am a virgin and think deep down I’m worth more then people who has casual sex.

Is it wrong or mean to have this value. A lot of my female friends aren’t virgins , but I find that some are jealous of me for having such discipline.

im finding it very hard to believe youre a virgin. let alone a woman.

 

[Umm-al-Dhegdheeriyaa]

The real question is what if you married someone who’s had sex before with multiple people