Are Virgins worth more ?

[SOULSEARCHING]

yep

Why would I have multiple accounts?

 

[Waaqo of Punt]

Why would I have multiple accounts?

jk dw

 

[IftiinOfLife]

We are in agreement , virgins are worth more.

 

[Amal44]

The real question is what if you married someone who’s had sex before with multiple people

its very very common in the West.

If that was a phase in their life that's over with why would that still bother you? (Given they are healthy).

 

[Samaalic Era]

its very very common in the West.

If that was a phase in their life that's over with why would that still bother you? (Given they are healthy).

 

[Amal44]

LMAO i've never ever met a virgin over the age of twenty in my life

im jealous you are one.

 

[Samaalic Era]

LMAO i've never ever met a virgin over the age of twenty in my life

im jealous you are one.

Im married. Also, you are implying that your saqajaanad who sleeps around and wants to justify nimo:siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Amal44]

Im married. Also, you are implying that your saqajaanad who sleeps around wants to justify *****nimo:siilaanyolaugh:

Zina is not justifiable. But it is forgiven by Allah for one who repents sincerely. Why can't humans do the same?

 

[Samaalic Era]

Zina is not justifiable. But it is forgiven by Allah for one who repents sincerely. Why can't humans do the same?

Because someone who kept himself/herself pure and fought their desires have the right to have a spouse who also kept the same standards. Just because Allah swt forgives doesnt mean you can escape the consequences your actions in this life. Your Tawbah is between you and Allah swt and not the people. People have certain standards when it comes to marriage. Some want someonw is wealthy, others beauty, others want a virgin. Its there right

 

[Umm-al-Dhegdheeriyaa]

its very very common in the West.

If that was a phase in their life that's over with why would that still bother you? (Given they are healthy).

Phase kulaha, I’m not marrying a dirty saqajaan, who probably carries a disease

 

[Amal44]

Because someone who kept himself/herself pure and fought their desires have the right to have a spouse who also kept the same standards. Just because Allah swt forgives doesnt mean you can escape the consequences your actions in this life. Your Tawbah is between you and Allah swt and not the people. People have certain standards when it comes to marriage. Some want someonw is wealthy, others beauty, others want a virgin. Its there right

If you commit Zina and sincerely repent Allah will forgive you and if you never do it again that record can potentially be completely gone becuase Allah is the most merciful.
Not every family makes marriage as easy as it sounds. I know many brothers who are struggling to find a spouse because that spouse is never good enough for their parents approval. Now they are 28 living in a highly sexualized society where no generation ever faced this type of fitnah.

I'm not defending Zina but these are the facts. I commend brothers who held on to their desires but I don't judge others for not doing so when they were in college or whatever. As long as they are past that stage in life and are mature thats all that matters.

 

[Samaalic Era]

If you commit Zina and sincerely repent Allah will forgive you and if you never do it again that record can potentially be completely gone becuase Allah is the most merciful.
Not every family makes marriage as easy as it sounds. I know many brothers who are struggling to find a spouse because that spouse is never good enough for their parents approval. Now they are 28 living in a highly sexualized society where no generation ever faced this type of fitnah.

I'm not defending Zina but these are the facts. I commend brothers who held on to their desires but I don't judge others for not doing so when they were in college or whatever. As long as they are past that stage in life and are mature thats all that matters.

Total BS. Zina is something so filthy and disgusting but you want to make it seem like its some little mistake. Zina is evidence of a follower,lowlife and full display of how devoid of morals a person is. A zani should go marry someone who repented like them. Also, a muslimah who has kept herself clean should never marry a zani 'repented'. Its clear zina has been normalised and thats why people commit while telling themselves they will repent later. You cannot fool Allah swt. To you zina is some minor thing.

 

[Amal44]

Total BS. Zina is something so filthy and disgusting but you want to make it seem like its some little mistake. Zina is evidence of a follower,lowlife and full display of how devoid of morals a person is. A zani should go marry someone who repented like them. Also, a muslimah who has kept herself clean should never marry a zani 'repented'. Its clear zina has been normalised and thats why people commit while telling themselves they will repent later. You cannot fool Allah swt. To you zina is some minor thing.

Where did I say Zina was some minor thing? Now you're putting words in my mouth. i just finished saying Zina is not justifiable in my previous post. I agree with every point you made about how Zina is filthy. Its not a minor thing. But its incredibly common.

You haven't refuted my point again so I'll say it again: Name me another generation that faced this type of sexualization everywhere. With this technology anyone can easily go into haram, no other generation had this fitnah.

Haram is made very very easy. Just because I say this now you're saying somehow I look at Zina as a minor thing. Its not, not even close.

I make dua for those brothers everyday that can't get married because their parents make it impossible. Now they are pushing 30 or above with difficulty to maintain their purity. And you gloss over this fact and make it seem like its no big deal just becuase you don't have that issue anymore.

You're full of BS

 

[Mehmet]

We are in agreement , virgins are worth more.

Only if real ones who have never been touched even by a finger are worth it all

 

[Mehmet]

Zina is not justifiable. But it is forgiven by Allah for one who repents sincerely. Why can't humans do the same?

We can't forgive girls who give away their cookies for free but still want not to be judged and aslo high meher on top of it all

 

[Mimir]

I pay mehr while another man clapped those cheeks for free?

Never gonna happen

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

You a worth a million dollars. Keep it up.

 

[Caartan Boos]

Where did I say Zina was some minor thing? Now you're putting words in my mouth. i just finished saying Zina is not justifiable in my previous post. I agree with every point you made about how Zina is filthy. Its not a minor thing. But its incredibly common.

You haven't refuted my point again so I'll say it again: Name me another generation that faced this type of sexualization everywhere. With this technology anyone can easily go into haram, no other generation had this fitnah.

Haram is made very very easy. Just because I say this now you're saying somehow I look at Zina as a minor thing. Its not, not even close.

I make dua for those brothers everyday that can't get married because their parents make it impossible. Now they are pushing 30 or above with difficulty to maintain their purity. And you gloss over this fact and make it seem like its no big deal just becuase you don't have that issue anymore.

You're full of BS

Sister I don’t know why brothers listen to their parents when it comes to marriage, he’s A Man, He doesn’t need a wali, so it’s very silly for brothers to get dictated on who to marry, I recommend brothers to get married if they can urgently so that they don’t fall into zina, and sisters need to make themselves approachable by being modest and to be striving

 

[CaliTedesse]

Virgin Muslim men avoiding sex before marriage especially in sex-crazed society. They are real martyr.

Only the ones who are deemed attractive by females but stay away from p*ssy . Not the ones who just don't have any game.

 

[Cilmi-doon]

I agree , but I think for males it doesn’t matter, I never cared if my male friends were virgins or not.

I don’t think there’s such a thing as a ‘male virgin’.