Black muslims fight uphill battle while dating

[Abba Sadacha]

I think it's more, it's not in a woman's nature to be with a man who makes less $ than her. I'm sure there are other factors, but that's a big part of it. If a man, let's say, is decent looking, works out, has memorized a good amount of the Qur'an, but is humble, has a humble job, humble car, humble clothes, etc; while the sisters have a benz or lexus or etc, makes big $$, etc, then she's less likely to consider the guy.

 

[Magan95]

Black Muslim Women Are Fighting Uphill Battle While Dating

It is very tough for high-achieving, successful Muslim women to meet Muslim men they marry, and this is especially true for Black Muslim women.

www.newsweek.com

What do you guys think about this issue This article was written last year but I found it interesting they interview black muslims from all over even a couple East Africans who voice there struggles interesting article everybody take a read

What do you guys think the Muslim community should do to tackle this issue ?

This victimization shit is getting old.
I feel like the internet has some kind of agenda against black women because reality is different. Most of the black women I know (including Somalis) have so many men of different races interested.

 

[Juke]

I think it's more, it's not in a woman's nature to be with a man who makes less $ than her. I'm sure there are other factors, but that's a big part of it. If a man, let's say, is decent looking, works out, has memorized a good amount of the Qur'an, but is humble, has a humble job, humble car, humble clothes, etc; while the sisters have a benz or lexus or etc, makes big $$, etc, then she's less likely to consider the guy.

A study from last month

https://spssi.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/josi.12573

In two studies, we find that climbing the societal ladder has positive associations with women's well-being and relationship outcomes but can also have negative consequences when women surpass their male partners in status.

I doubt that's all it is. Outside of africa, black gender dynamics are typified by an underlying contempt for their counterpart. Most don't want a madow partner as first choice not even another madow. They're bitter due to lack of options.

 

[Keep it a boqol]

This victimization shit is getting old.
I feel like the internet has some kind of agenda against black women because reality is different. Most of the black women I know (including Somalis) have so many men of different races interested.

Maybe some of these girls who badly want to be victimized can’t admit that as an individual they’re not attractive. It’s a humiliation kink at this point tbh

 

[Nikka]

I didn’t read it but being Somali it’s extremely easy to get a wife. From back home that is(but I don’t want to do this and is my last resort because of the difference in thoughts and intracultural differences)

Don't ever get a wife from back home. Their will be way to much friction and you will be like strangers.