I agree with you, it's not sensible to paint a broad brush with whole groups of people, that's when you transform into a bigot. Regarding xalimos, I think that a lot of somali men need to get this idea out of our heads that we own somali women, they are individuals of their own and they make their own decisions in life. We have no place to criticise them if we are not directly involved with them. We need to spread more positivity fr

. Also, I feel that a lot of somali men tend to limit themselves to somali women, I dont know if it's cos we like our dhaqan/ culture or if a lot of us simply can't bag foreign gabdho

, niggas need to start expanding their options