Can I ask for divorce if the partner refuses to work after a couple of years after marriage?

Are we talking deen? or are we talking chicken? if deen listen to this and fear allah your creator

If a woman ask for divorce without a VALID reason she will not smell the fragrance of jannah

It is reported in the hadith of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), "If a women asks her husband for a divorce, for no reason, then the smell of paradise is forbidden for her". (At-Tirmidhi narrated it. He said this is a hasan hadith. Sunnah At-Tirmidhi #1187.)


The wife has to obey husband in everything as long as he does not tell her to do haram

If he says he does not want her to work she should obey him if she does not she is disobeying allah and his messsenger

so much so if the wife wants to do sunnah fast she has to take permisson from husband as the prophet said

“It is not permitted for a woman to fast when her husband is present without his permission, or to admit anyone into his house without his permission. And whatever she spends (in charity) of his wealth without his consent, ….” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 4899; Muslim, 1026)

You talking about working which is husband duty and here the prophet said you cant fast without husbands permisson subhanallah

we are muslims we hear and obey
I’m literally dying over here! :cryinglaughsmiley:

Why did we get a whole wall of text about the legality of women asking for divorce in Islam when the question at hand was some lazy arse freeloader saying he whats to divorce his hypnotical jinn wife for not giving him money?!?
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Basically this is what he’s saying...she does 150%(100% of household work + 50% of household income) and he contributes exactly 50%! Fathia absie called guys like that “calool weyne” for a reason. He wants to chill and eat and sleep on her dime, hard work and time 😂
I would help out with cooking and the kids. I don’t believe in the notion whereby Islam allows western women to save their money and burden the husband with the bills.
 
Who would've guessed sspot was such a hub for so many millionaires and top 1% earners, mashallah lol. Do people actually think you can support a family with one income?:heh:
 
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I would help out with cooking and the kids. I don’t believe in the notion whereby Islam allows western women to save their money and burden the husband with the bills.
Notice how you said I would “help out” and not I will do 50% of the household work. You already see it as her job and you’re just helping out lol.

Btw can you also help out with the pregnancy and breastfeeding? Maybe you can take turns? She gets pregnant one year and you get pregnant the next, deal? Until then the relationship will never be 50/50.
 
If she takes half of the bills your ass should take half of 9 months and morning sickness half of the postpartum depression half of the breastfeeding half of the showing your privates to the doctor for pregnancy check ups half of the diaper changing half of the tantrums half of the miscarriages. Fair?
 

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If she takes half of the bills your ass should take half of 9 months and morning sickness half of the postpartum depression half of the breastfeeding half of the showing your privates to the doctor for pregnancy check ups half of the diaper changing half of the tantrums half of the miscarriages. Fair?

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Notice how you said I would “help out” and not I will do 50% of the household work. You already see it as her job and you’re just helping out lol.

Btw can you also help out with the pregnancy and breastfeeding? Maybe you can take turns? She gets pregnant one year and you get pregnant the next, deal? Until then the relationship will never be 50/50.
We have maternity leave of 1 year in the west. A year is more than enough before getting back to work. My cadaan coworker has young kids but she still works 40 hrs a week.
 

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It’s funny you say that, being a mother is a full time job . Which comes with no pay. While you are sleeping , she is changing nappies, breast feeding, trying to put the child back to bed, cleaning their vomit, and you want her to go and WORK when she has had a sleepless night.

if you want your wife to work, than you must also do the household chores such as cleaning and cooking, feeding the children , putting them to sleep , not just expecting her to have done everything and you come to a clean home and food is served.

Abaha cuun !

We are not white women who have one child either, we expect 10 kids

You're a rational woman with no double standards. I hope you find a good husband, inshallah. The reason why I say that is because some women like to mix up modern and traditional roles when it's convenient for them but get mad when the men don't accept this offer because they realized it's unfair for them. The same thing can be said about men with double standards which is most common in the black community where they expect a woman to work full time and do 100% of the household chores which is also unacceptable.

As for @قوة الشرطة الصومالية I think he's trolling with this one and this thread was hilarious but if he's actually serious about this then he should go for modern white women because they will gladly accept this offer.
 

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