Can you remain single forever?

[Febbie]

I overheard a conversation at work during lunch break between two friends once.

One said previous relationships have been so bad they're comfortable at the idea of being single forever.

The other friend instantly reminded them they're designed to couple up. It's in our DNA. Without this, they'll remain unhealthy and not balanced.

What are your thoughts...? Is there any truth to this? Does it matter about the gender? E.g. does it affect male more than female?

Generally women have more social bonding than men so can offset a romantic relationship with platonic ones - how true is that?

 

[Abu Hesi]

"And one of His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves so that you may find comfort in them. And He has placed between you compassion and mercy. Surely in this are signs for people who reflect." 30:21

it is not normal to be single, it is a choice many old people regret that stayed single and always lead to fahisha. But if a person is trully happy being single while guarding their private then kudos to them.

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

I’ve known several guys that passed away before they had a chance too. It’s whatever Allah wills is what you’ll get.

 

[ilmoweyn]

Majority of the time I think I would be happier single for life than with the ... odd men of our generation

Other times I know I'd get bored lol

 

[MalcolmFitzhugh08]

Well technically yes it's possible

 

[Lightshow]

Marriage is recommended for most, but not necessary. So yes some people (a small minority I believe) can go without marriage.

 

[Avalanche]

Marriage is not a must, as long as you can avoid Zina, it is not a problem.

 

[queasyian]

OP are you looking to Monk Mode for life

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I’ve known several guys that passed away before they had a chance too. It’s whatever Allah wills is what you’ll get.

Death is more certain than marriage.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Humans need 'community' to function, that doesn't mean just romantic obviously. I think it's important for people to keep good relationships with their relatives, be good to their neighbours and all that Allah SWT has told us to do. Ultimately, there is no guarantee for how long you or your partner will live. There are people who lose their entire family within a second.

We are born alone and are buried alone. Our constant companion should be Allah SWT, and if we focus on that bond first, we will always be content.

 

[Unicorn]

Its very possible as long as the person is healthy. Wht i usually see is tht people who dont find partners or the people they date have been horrible to them usually stay single. However these two people who were talking to each other; wht race are they? Cuz if they are yt or madow they still can have relations and even kids while being single and by themselves and does tht even count?

 

[Farah717]

Yes but you will be extremely miserable.

 

[Keep it a boqol]

Marriage is qadr

 

[Basra]

I overheard a conversation at work during lunch break between two friends once.

One said previous relationships have been so bad they're comfortable at the idea of being single forever.

The other friend instantly reminded them they're designed to couple up. It's in our DNA. Without this, they'll remain unhealthy and not balanced.

What are your thoughts...? Is there any truth to this? Does it matter about the gender? E.g. does it affect male more than female?

Generally women have more social bonding than men so can offset a romantic relationship with platonic ones - how true is that?

Men need a wife. Women can be single for life.

 

[The truth seeker]

Men need a wife. Women can be single for life.

Men tend to soften up around women and be more like themselves

 

[Hodan from HR]

Men need a wife. Women can be single for life.

Most men are masculine and lacking in feminine energy, hence needing a wife to bring balance in their lives.

Women inherently possess both masculine and feminine traits so can find this balance from within, if they want to. That's why they can be single for life.

#DivineFeminine

 

[Basra]

Most men are masculine and lacking in feminine energy, hence needing a wife to bring balance in their lives.

Women inherently possess both masculine and feminine traits so can find this balance from within, if they want to. That's why they can be single for life.

#DivineFeminine

How u doin' huuno u r absolutely correct!


by the way did u get the china HPV flu? Was vomiting part of your symptom?

 

[Bari]

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Masturbation halaal?

 

[Hodan from HR]

How u doin' huuno u r absolutely correct!


by the way did u get the china HPV flu? Was vomiting part of your symptom?

I'm doing good generally macanto

Yes, I did. My body has been out of whack but alhamdullilah, I'm hopeful these days as relapses are getting fewer and symptoms less severe.