Catch feelings in a month

[Geeljire lotus]

you ever catch feelings for someone in a month and a half since you talk and see each other everyday but shit goes left, but you end up missing her . How do I get through this people lol

 

[King Khufu]

No.
I don't catch feelings, that's the woman's job!
If things aren't equal par - then keep it moving.

This is degrading to masculinity to be so weak. #SimpCard #SimpsRevoked

 

[BobSmoke]

Way dhacdaa. Don't see as a bad thing.
Let that be your scar tissue and move on to the next.
As a man, we need scar tissues and pain in our mind. It is the root of experience and the motivator to make more calibrated steps.

Apply the art of seduction and be very very patient with them and you'll notice something different.

 

[Geeljire lotus]

No.
I don't catch feelings, that's the woman's job!
If things aren't equal par - then keep it moving.

This is degrading to masculinity to be so weak. #SimpCard #SimpsRevoked

Facts this is unbecoming of me as a geeljire

 

[King Khufu]

(This article is written by me to serve as a public read to the audiences that stumbles on this)
[ wink wink you can thank the google search numbers later. Views skyrocket! Woosh.]

However some of you need the true genuine help. Oh my! What a mess.
Here some clues to get how the world works to know if something is real or not.
So here you go you fools, here's my tidbits on how to keep you all safe out there:

Love doesn't wait;
Because two people that love eachother desire to be with one another as they please.
Especially for the truth love of the feelings shared in treasured moments of chaerished time.

In the old days - people wrote letters and had them sent on by carriage from specialty couriers.
People would wait days excited for these letters to hear back from their loved ones!
When those letters arrived the person who received it will have a heart pumping full of joy back to life to await the good news that words were written by their dearest at most.
Real geeljire/bedoiun type of stuff. Imagine envoys on horseback in the Sahara to deliver the royal letter to the princess type of swag. Swear!

Now-A-Days: People have cellphones and mobile communication (Laptops,Tablets,Watches,e.t.c.)
There is no reason for delayed communication with no responses, if genuine then maybe something went wrong on their behalf which you'll just have to chance faith to luck to stay patient on whether their wait time is from a honest perspective (maybe she had phone bill cut, down power line, stolen device, out of air time, e.t.c.)
However if you'll feel something is a farce - like purposeful avoidant or blocked numbers that makes you feel rejected than you have wasted your feelings on a person who was just a phone call/profile account/guest appearance/time waster (e.t.c.) that had no true intent on being with you but enjoyed entertaining the idea with you to toy around with your time.
In the world of instant communication there is no reason for dishonesty about the time spent shared to lay await in stirred imagination to the worst scenario.
People can be more open about their honest intent: (with simple phrases such as.)
"I don't feel like talking today. I got to go." - "I don't have data so I'll be away for a while."

Also remember that internet communication is never the most stable way to go about in maintaining a relationship. Normally, a common meeting ground or in person familiarity will lead to higher chances of long term lasting mutual feelings shared.

 

[Abu Hesi]

No.
I don't catch feelings, that's the woman's job!
If things aren't equal par - then keep it moving.

This is degrading to masculinity to be so weak. #SimpCard #SimpsRevoked

 

[Abu Hesi]

go NO CONTACT.

 

[Angelina]

Facts this is unbecoming of me as a geeljire

Don't listen to him, you're human.

How can he say men don't catch feelings for women? So what do men catch feelings for? Other men? Feelings and attraction is natural for straight men.

I would say time is the biggest healer and also putting yourself out there. Speak to other girls and in time you'll find another who you will catch feelings for and things will progress into something serious.

 

[salma saluuni]

Facts this is unbecoming of me as a geeljire

Let yourself go and love her

 

[Material]

Simp

 

[BobSmoke]

Facts this is unbecoming of me as a geeljire

You're your own competition so don't hold yourself to anybody else's standards.

The world responds to each individual differently because everyone got dealt their own set of cards in their hands.

Just play yours as good as you can and regularly check yourself. Never let your ego blind you from reality. That's the only way to progress with females or anything for that matter

 

[King Khufu]

Don't listen to him, you're human.
How can he say men don't catch feelings for women? So what do men catch feelings for?

First off! How about catching a break? Lol.
No-one reads the big blocks of solid advice I just wrote?
That's some of the most insightful thorough information the internet can ever have that I just wrote on Post #5. Seriously! You people are sleeping on me by taking jokes to heart!

No one on here said that people shouldn't have feelings for another person that they truly know with care returned. No! Nah, nah-nah. That's warmly receipted (but that's not the case here on OP's topic obviously) Instead, I'm joking to help myself as well as other readers with mindful intent on creating a dynamic of manners exchanged.

Here's why:
Because when someone understands the inner workings to a crisp (at top point, ins-outs) then they can change the situation with the information to benefit.

Think of it like this? What would you rather google for an article on building chairs?
A plain two word article that was written by a simple nobody that doesn't make sense, or an article that not only explains how to make the chair putting it into pieces but with funny pictures and relevant information that show's the complete workings on how to assemble your chair?
I just know most people pick the article they can read & relate to best till it becomes standard on the search bar as google reads. Just ask Google yourself, since I know you know how to use SEO on Adsense. Heh heh.

 

[King Khufu]

And @Angelina ay I got more feelings for all sorts of women of many different backgrounds half of them you will never even know about so don't take me for no wimpy guy.
And yes - most of the are really good looking ladies too, so I got tastes.
(No it's not daily, and yes, I have never been with any of them to know I win their hearts.)

The mistake is yours, but I know when I got a chick - she'll be worth the keeper. #MehrDown.

 

[BobSmoke]

(This article is written by me to serve as a public read to the audiences that stumbles on this)
[ wink wink you can thank the google search numbers later. Views skyrocket! Woosh.]

However some of you need the true genuine help. Oh my! What a mess.
Here some clues to get how the world works to know if something is real or not.
So here you go you fools, here's my tidbits on how to keep you all safe out there:

Love doesn't wait;
Because two people that love eachother desire to be with one another as they please.
Especially for the truth love of the feelings shared in treasured moments of chaerished time.

In the old days - people wrote letters and had them sent on by carriage from specialty couriers.
People would wait days excited for these letters to hear back from their loved ones!
When those letters arrived the person who received it will have a heart pumping full of joy back to life to await the good news that words were written by their dearest at most.
Real geeljire/bedoiun type of stuff. Imagine envoys on horseback in the Sahara to deliver the royal letter to the princess type of swag. Swear!

Now-A-Days: People have cellphones and mobile communication (Laptops,Tablets,Watches,e.t.c.)
There is no reason for delayed communication with no responses, if genuine then maybe something went wrong on their behalf which you'll just have to chance faith to luck to stay patient on whether their wait time is from a honest perspective (maybe she had phone bill cut, down power line, stolen device, out of air time, e.t.c.)
However if you'll feel something is a farce - like purposeful avoidant or blocked numbers that makes you feel rejected than you have wasted your feelings on a person who was just a phone call/profile account/guest appearance/time waster (e.t.c.) that had no true intent on being with you but enjoyed entertaining the idea with you to toy around with your time.
In the world of instant communication there is no reason for dishonesty about the time spent shared to lay await in stirred imagination to the worst scenario.
People can be more open about their honest intent: (with simple phrases such as.)
"I don't feel like talking today. I got to go." - "I don't have data so I'll be away for a while."

Also remember that internet communication is never the most stable way to go about in maintaining a relationship. Normally, a common meeting ground or in person familiarity will lead to higher chances of long term lasting mutual feelings shared.

I can agree with you that the Internet is a different ball game from writing letters and stuff.
But all the other stuff is just an expression of neediness.

The waiting game, the delay with the answers, the waiting on telling your intention IS THE GAME. Just learn to play it. Girls say they hate mind games but that is a big lie, they're addicted to this shit. You need to play this out like a movie in their heads. Smooth, patient and potent with your words is what will make them fall for you.

It's about creating attraction thru mystery and stirring up different emotions. Girls just love this whole "does he like/does he not like me" dilemma. It makes them more attracted to you. You're pursuing them with the illusion that they are pursuing you. The more emotionally invested they get, the more they will fall for you.

Lets just say a woman knows after some time of talking to them that you're sexually attracted to them, but you're not stressing on meeting them, that makes them think you get your rocks off elsewhere, which makes them even more attracted to you.
Ghost on them for a day or two, maybe a week every now and then. Use innuendos every now and then.
Become a drug to them. Your presence should be pleasant and exciting but inconsistent. Avoid feeling some type of way if they ghost you for a few days or leave you on read, they just testing you.

Bro try it.

This whole expecting the opposite gender to answer immediately and expecting them to tell you that you're her no 1 is SUPER NEEDY.

Spoiling the game too early kills the attraction and will make you seem boring.

Go in with the mindset that she's already talking to 5-10 guys and all you need to do is to stand out with your good vibes. You're not pressing her to carve out a piece of her day for you. You understand she got a busy life and you do too. Nothing she does offends you. Both of you can reply anytime you like and if you don't get an answer until next week, act like nothing happened. You do the same.
Check on her every now and then to see if she's doing good.

Before you know it, she can't stop thinking about you. She got friend zoned by you yet you still flirting with her. It will mess with her head and that's how you catch them.
You can catch feelings for her but you still gotta keep her on her toes. They live for this shit

Some might say this is manipulation. I say this is a woman's game flipped on its head
The harder to get she acts the better it works. But she still has to be attracted to you

 

[Jaydaan]

you ever catch feelings for someone in a month and a half since you talk and see each other everyday but shit goes left, but you end up missing her . How do I get through this people lol

If you can’t have her no one else should. Give her a choice

 

[Angelina]

If you can’t have her no one else should. Give her a choice

That sounds very sinister....

 

[King Khufu]

@BobSmoke
No need to construe any of my words as attacks to your posts critique.
There maybe certain agreeable talking points as far as "pick up" for the phone if you're chancing yourself to a quick hook up with nobody you care to remember about. No! My talking points is completely different. I don't know why you're advising back to me. Your post is complete non-sense to me. I was speaking on for people to be advisable to their internet dealings with communication only so they are with awareness. (Yes, I do share my posts to public mediums for live audiences to critique.)

People that play games need to grow up. Functioning families have no time to be a waste when people are more seriously productive than the one-track one-dimensional cast of characters you're assuming to be about. Because anybody that's impressed by being chased (put on a unearned pedestal for being desired) is only in it for themselves that caters to their own thrills. Selfish!!! Anybody of a sound mind with enough reasoning to be wise knows better than to seek their own gains not before the birth of a connection that creates a lasting bond first. Ha-Ha!

Be diverse with an open mind; I speak from a Somali perspective that relates to my people back in the Horn of Africa. Our culture is very romantic at nature as it's easily exploited. Our people come that way with much open love to give even when it's not so easily shown to us, so it's well that these advices that I give is from this spirit of wording to all even among crowds of others not like myself.

 

[BobSmoke]

@BobSmoke
No need to construe any of my words as attacks to your posts critique.
There maybe certain agreeable talking points as far as "pick up" for the phone if you're chancing yourself to a quick hook up with nobody you care to remember about. No! My talking points is completely different. I don't know why you're advising back to me. Your post is complete non-sense to me. I was speaking on for people to be advisable to their internet dealings with communication only so they are with awareness. (Yes, I do share my posts to public mediums for live audiences to critique.)

People that play games need to grow up. Functioning families have no time to be a waste when people are more seriously productive than the one-track one-dimensional cast of characters you're assuming to be about. Because anybody that's impressed by being chased (put on a unearned pedestal for being desired) is only in it for themselves that caters to their own thrills. Selfish!!! Anybody of a sound mind with enough reasoning to be wise knows better than to seek their own gains not before the birth of a connection that creates a lasting bond first. Ha-Ha!

Be diverse with an open mind; I speak from a Somali perspective that relates to my people back in the Horn of Africa. Our culture is very romantic at nature as it's easily exploited. Our people come that way with much open love to give even when it's not so easily shown to us, so it's well that these advices that I give is from this spirit of wording to all even among crowds of others not like myself.

I hear you.

I'm not imposing nothing on no one. Just sharing my perspective on public platform just like you. It may sound like I'm advising back to you but it's intended target is for niggas that seem to struggle with women's mind games on the Internet based of my personal trials and errors.
It may not work for everyone but for what it's worth, it's worth trying.

I understand that you view this from a wholesome Somali perspective and I respect that.

I write this from the perspective of being practical. As noble as the Somali love may be, the cold truth is somali girls in the west or any girls for that matter don't really care about that. They're hybridized in culture and mindset so the game must be hybridized to catch them. Seduce them first then give them that hard earned love.
It's not so much about the action but developing the mindset that you are not an easy nigga. It's about making her putting some effort for a nigga and let her reveal her emotions before you lay yours out. She will feel like she won but in reality you won.
Just a different way to go about things

I'm not writing from the perspective of getting quick seal. That direct approach of yours is better suited for that, imo. This theory in practice of mine's intended goal is to catch the girl's heart and mind before the body.
I would not advise anyone to do this on a woman that they don't really like. Only on those that they are really attracted to

If I don't make sense to you, then that's calm. I'm not here to convince no one.
Just sharing free gems for my fellow faraxs.

 

[King Khufu]

@BobSmoke
Nicely said and well put.
It's true - dealing with any person with a mindset similar to yours will go "Give me the hook to catch" to feed off of. Lol

It just isn't very Islamic.
Most of us raised homeside are much more wholesome than that so it's a bit slower paced but more lively to the point.

But no blames, because it's too easy to be another person on the phone/internet in the friends list to some chick who got her own thing going on. Bro she could just be in it for the quick entertainment by being flirty for attention.
Women get by trolling men's time to sucker them into this stuff all the time.
Some chicks will do the worst like be a friend that flirts until she can pigeon some schmuck into pouring money. Then it's sayonora suckers!
Lol Could've you imagined actually catching hard feelings for a person you never faced time with but you sent them money by the hundreds?
All just by a facebook (or dating) account profile, whatsapp text, instagram, phone number ((that could be a fake or burner.))
It's just these chicks and their caretakers they roll with thrive off people being lowly by being greedily promiscuous so they'll take advantage.
So you never know who is behind that keyboard whether it be a cool chick or a worker pro or a romance scammer with a camera. Either way always be mindful!
Even when the person is bad to bone, better kindness on a good note to cliff hang rather than find out a horrid mystery. Lmao! Sick. Yep lol burn it!!!

I suggest if you got more honest connections (local or abroad, in town or other places) that you learn to treasure that as much measure of time from your best sincerity as it comes at those moments becomed experienced.
DM doesn't work well for me as I'm not a dater type of person since I do no sensual pursuits I try to have much more meaningful connections that are brought from all a meaningful place but I still always keep aware that it's not all that honest because so many people are in need to live but still are broken, boy so you have to watch what these chicks do cause anybody whose loyal to their own desire is nobody that I want to even deal with because I only like people I can trust.

Thanks for taking your time to dialouge insightfully along with me even though we echo two different talking points but I understand you without bias.

There should be more hot thorough explained conversations like this stated on the internet more often. That way people can make choices that are much more easier since it becomes all too simple when told right.

 

[BobSmoke]

@BobSmoke
Nicely said and well put.
It's true - dealing with any person with a mindset similar to yours will go "Give me the hook to catch" to feed off of. Lol

It just isn't very Islamic.
Most of us raised homeside are much more wholesome than that so it's a bit slower paced but more lively to the point.

But no blames, because it's too easy to be another person on the phone/internet in the friends list to some chick who got her own thing going on. Bro she could just be in it for the quick entertainment by being flirty for attention.
Women get by trolling men's time to sucker them into this stuff all the time.
Some chicks will do the worst like be a friend that flirts until she can pigeon some schmuck into pouring money. Then it's sayonora suckers!
Lol Could've you imagined actually catching hard feelings for a person you never faced time with but you sent them money by the hundreds?
All just by a facebook (or dating) account profile, whatsapp text, instagram, phone number ((that could be a fake or burner.))
It's just these chicks and their caretakers they roll with thrive off people being lowly by being greedily promiscuous so they'll take advantage.
So you never know who is behind that keyboard whether it be a cool chick or a worker pro or a romance scammer with a camera. Either way always be mindful!
Even when the person is bad to bone, better kindness on a good note to cliff hang rather than find out a horrid mystery. Lmao! Sick. Yep lol burn it!!!

I suggest if you got more honest connections (local or abroad, in town or other places) that you learn to treasure that as much measure of time from your best sincerity as it comes at those moments becomed experienced.
DM doesn't work well for me as I'm not a dater type of person since I do no sensual pursuits I try to have much more meaningful connections that are brought from all a meaningful place but I still always keep aware that it's not all that honest because so many people are in need to live but still are broken, boy so you have to watch what these chicks do cause anybody whose loyal to their own desire is nobody that I want to even deal with because I only like people I can trust.

Thanks for taking your time to dialouge insightfully along with me even though we echo two different talking points but I understand you without bias.

There should be more hot thorough explained conversations like this stated on the internet more often. That way people can make choices that are much more easier since it becomes all too simple when told right.

No worries bro. It was good conversating with you on this.
I understood your point and vice versa.

InshaAllah I hope you find a spouse thats beautiful AND hates toxic games.

InshaAllah I hope I find a woman worthy of changing my toxic ways for. My problem is that I'd like to think I desire women who are secure in themselves and yet I'm low-key attracted to and keep attracting women with unhealthy attachment styles .

InshaAllah I'm gonna take your advice on changing my environment

Until then, I'mma navigate thru this treacherous toxic waters best way I can