Childbirth is scary shit

[xoxoboredgirl]

It’s not too scary anymore, unless you go for the archaic way of giving birth the natural way. My sister had C-section with all her kids and she is fine. She had no problems with the surgery and was basically all sleeping when they got the babies out. It was like going to the hairdresser, survey at 8:30 am and baby was out by …. Stitch statch and bam! All done. No complications no long painful labour etc. It’s the civilized way, humane way. No need to go thought the BS anymore.

The problem with c-section is that u become bed ridden for a while and are in pain/healing. It’s not ideal with a newborn as u can’t care for them properly and create that bond

 

[Giftxo]

It’s sometimes so painful that many women’s vagina ripped through their anus which would give them 1 “hole”.

 

[KobeBryant]

It’s sometimes so painful that many women’s vagina ripped through their anus which would give them 1 “hole”.

I didn’t need to read that

 

[Boqorada]

Having kids just seems inhumane, idk how somali women be popping out 8+ especially with fgm. My house worker has 17 and still wants more.

Just seems like gluttony for pain, your body gets deformed, you lose hair, teeth, severe depression, potentially die all for some kid that's 99% gonna be a screw up. Just too many risks and not many rewards.

 

[KobeBryant]

Having kids just seems inhumane, idk how somali women be popping out 8+ especially with fgm. My house worker has 17 and still wants more.

Just seems like gluttony for pain, your body gets deformed, you lose hair, teeth, severe depression, potentially die all for some kid that's 99% gonna be a screw up. Just too many risks and not many rewards.

I guess there body there Choice

 

[Xaruun]

Shits tough. Feels good to have a cock

 

[Guardafui]

This is why I would prefer having twins and be done with it. I’ll try to explore IVF am scared of natural childbirth making my pelvic floor weak. It’s not easy being women.

 

[xoxoboredgirl]

This is why I would prefer having twins and be done with it. I’ll try to explore IVF am scared of natural childbirth making my pelvic floor weak. It’s not easy being women.

I think u can strengthen ur pelvic floor muscles with certain exercises, but yh being a woman is not easy at all

 

[Nafisa1]

it's worth it in the end

 

[trucel]

It’s not too scary anymore, unless you go for the archaic way of giving birth the natural way. My sister had C-section with all her kids and she is fine. She had no problems with the surgery and was basically all sleeping when they got the babies out. It was like going to the hairdresser, survey at 8:30 am and baby was out by …. Stitch statch and bam! All done. No complications no long painful labour etc. It’s the civilized way, humane way. No need to go thought the BS anymore.

Apparently my birth was natural and fast asl , i was screaming to enter the world lmao.

 

[Xaawotaako]

Apparently my birth was natural and fast asl , i was screaming to enter the world lmao.

Fast delivery is not good that’s how you get tears. My sister did scheduled C section because-A she didn’t want her VJ to rip and C she didn’t want any surprises. Her BFF had it natural and her pelvic floor muscle was ruined, she couldn’t even run for months while my sister was running and back to her activities within two weeks.

 

[trucel]

Fast delivery is not good that’s how you get tears. My sister did scheduled C section because-A she didn’t want her VJ to rip and C she didn’t want any surprises. Her BFF had it natural and her pelvic floor muscle was ruined, she couldn’t even run for months while my sister was running and back to her activities within two weeks.

Listen my birth was smooth , like going in a waterslide and into the world.

 

[Qeelbax]

In my health class they made us watch a video of this lady giving birth. It looked so scary and painful oh man it lowkey put me off having kids. That video was essentially just pro abstinence content wallahi. Scary

Are you reer minnesota? They made me do the same shit in 7th grade.

Alhamdulilah I still want 3 kids

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Are you reer minnesota? They made me do the same shit in 7th grade.

Alhamdulilah I still want 3 kids

No I’m reer toronto Why did they make us watch that that was so traumatizing. I also want 3 kids! I think I’ll just plan a C section Lol

 

[Saredo]

In my health class they made us watch a video of this lady giving birth. It looked so scary and painful oh man it lowkey put me off having kids. That video was essentially just pro abstinence content wallahi. Scary

I was reading this. May Allah help us all

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[Xaruun]

I feel sorry for my future wife
she’s going to endure this quite a few times