"Chivalry Is Dead

[Mercury]

I dont think chivalry is dead its just being a nice human but I dont think its something people should expect all the time to hold the door and take out chairs and whatnot

I remember giving my seat on the bus to this old cadaan lady since the bus was full I had nowhere else to stand but next to her I was speaking on the phone and this old lady when she stood up to leave she "accidently" touched my butt and looked at me with a smile

 

[merka]

I'm happy to carry bags and open doors as long as she can get her freak on and can cook a mean bariis iskukaris.

But seriously I've seen too many somali women disrespect somali men because of feminism. If women say that they want to be equal to men, don't be upset when we actually do treat you like a man.

 

[Hafez]

Chivalry is only reserved for the wifey. As for the other z, I expect them to open the fkin door just so I can march through and sht.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Kkkkkk yaa Shaykh see camal

Shaykh? Watch your wife I'll sell her kkkk

That's insulting towards men of knowledge. If you called me Abu Lahab or hiram abiff, pharaoh I wouldn't felt a way laakinse shaykh? Stop that

 

[Hafez]

Shaykh? Watch your wife I'll sell her kkkk

That's insulting towards men of knowledge. If you called me Abu Lahab or hiram abiff, pharaoh I wouldn't felt a way laakinse shaykh? Stop that

Sxb, my wife ain't 'bout that life. She won't degrade herself when she's with the boss himself kkkkkk.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Sxb, my wife ain't 'bout that life. She won't degrade herself when she's with the boss himself kkkkkk.

I'm glad you got the gist of it, my nigga my trigger, waa saas

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Treat them mean keep them keen bradars!

 

[iNutEasily]

chivalry in 2016?

man, that shyt sunk along with the titanic.

 

[VixR]

A strange man coming to "help" me my bags isn't a comfortable sight. You may have good intentions, but your other 'brothers' have abused it.

Recently, I was traveling and I couldn't for the life of me lift my carryon up into the compartment. This nice guy on the plane didn't even ask, he just picked it up and effortlessly placed it where it went. I thanked him and I appreciated it. That was in a public, secure, plane full to the brink with people. But a strange man approaching me with my hands full, in the parking lot, near my car. Yeah, no thanks. I'll fumble and handle it myself. You keep your distance. Chivalry isn't for everyone or for every situation. Consider the context of your action as a stranger.

 

[Mckenzie]

I helped a girl struggling with directions once. A year later i'm breaking up with her because there was no direction in what we had

 

[Southerner]

I bet she was Somali, nigga can't even look at their general direction or say hi without getting her families approval

 

[RedStar]

Ever since my boy got arrested because a woman falsely accused him of rape, I keep my bloody distance from females I'm not acquainted with. Fat nearly ruined his life because he tried to help her while she was pissed off her brains.

 

[Zuleikha]

Ever since my boy got arrested because a woman falsely accused him of rape, I keep my bloody distance from females I'm not acquainted with. Fat nearly ruined his life because he tried to help her while she was pissed off her brains.

Oh my how did that happened

I am hearing a lot of similar stories recently, you guys need to be careful with cadaan women they will ruined you.

 

[Bahal]

I've never consciously helped anyone in my life.

 

[Mohamud]

Because Islam already gave me all my rights way before coming of any feminist movement. I also believe that feminism is a tool used by whites to break up the relationship between people of color. The only reason why the feminist ideology is being adopted by Somali women nowadays is because Somali men are disrespecting and unjust to their women.

Explain

 

[Yannie]

Explain

The feminist narrative is based on the middle white women's perspective and does not cater to women of color. You want and example, okay you hear white feminist talking about how Muslim women are oppressed because of their clothes and their men. They tell women to free themselves from the hijab and that they don't need a man, yet these are the same women who are married and have a nice stable house life. Sadly, feminist are able to cause this division between the sexes because the men are not just to their women.

 

[Mohamud]

That probably has a run-off effect for even non muslim minorities. I.e. women who do not fit that middle class mold.

Fair enough

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Chivalry is dead because of some women, these miserable es killed it. They always want to compete with men. I like my bags carried, doors held, and skipping the line when it's long.

I was once with a feminist/cadaan coworker and we went to chipotle for lunch, couple of guys were ahead of us and they told us to go ahead because ladies first, instead of thanking them and moving right along, this ogre started arguing with them, and telling them how dare they say ladies first. I scooted my ass to the front, ordered my food, they were 5 guys and you damn right they took their sweet time, the grumpy witch had the audacity to ask me for a bite because lunch hour was over.

 

[Bohol]

I don't mind helping old people with lifting bags and stuff when they need it. The old generation
are usually more appreciative of those gestures.

 

[Hemaal]

I've never consciously helped anyone in my life.

Same 'ere. i don't like helpin' people at all