Continuation of the alpha/beta phenomenon

I remember a guy came up to me at work once and told me he was an alpha. he just walked up to my desk and started claiming such.
Damn 💀 my condolences that you had to deal with that kind of stupidity in person jaynerd.png

I have never taken the concept seriously. everyone in life has ups and downs, to think there are people exempt from this is a fantasy.
Yeah everyone has ups and downs but that doesn't mean people should be buying into these concepts it's literally astrology for men farole.png

Never partook in actual astrology I ain't ever going to partake in this bootleg version either tocry.png
 

Omar del Sur

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lol i would laugh in his face

he was a fat older man in a wheelchair. he just randomly went up to my desk and started telling me about how he's an alpha male. it was pretty strange. I was into this girl I was talking to. I just sort of ignored him and went back to daydreaming about the nice girl.
 

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Yeah everyone has ups and downs but that doesn't mean people should be buying into these concepts it's literally astrology for men View attachment 264172

Never partook in actual astrology I ain't ever going to partake in this bootleg version either View attachment 264173

what I'm saying is the alpha male thing isn't real and the ups and downs illustrate how it's fake. in the alpha male fantasy, the "alpha male" is free from ups and downs and his entire life is an endless string of victories without ever experiencing any ups and downs.
 

Yaraye

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he was a fat older man in a wheelchair. he just randomly went up to my desk and started telling me about how he's an alpha male. it was pretty strange. I was into this girl I was talking to. I just sort of ignored him and went back to daydreaming about the nice girl.
Maybe he was also into that girl :deadpeter:
 
he was a fat older man in a wheelchair. he just randomly went up to my desk and started telling me about how he's an alpha male. it was pretty strange. I was into this girl I was talking to. I just sort of ignored him and went back to daydreaming about the nice girl.
All the guys who claim it are basically coping because of some major insecurities they have. It's a cover up for that
 

Omar del Sur

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All the guys who claim it are basically coping because of some major insecurities they have. It's a cover up for that

I don't understand people being insecure. I see all the time if you are not some sort of dayuth type, according to current Western culture you are "insecure". for example you don't want your wife hanging out with other men or displaying herself on social media.... liberal types will say this means you are "insecure".

but this whole way of looking at things I think is wrong.... I am very secure when it comes to talking about topics I know about, I am insecure when it comes to talking about topics like math where I am weak....

I see myself in a very lowly way but Allah is utterly exalted.... and so insha'Allah Allah will grant me great success but if so it will be due to Allah, not any greatness or not-greatness on my part
 
I don't understand people being insecure. I see all the time if you are not some sort of dayuth type, according to current Western culture you are "insecure". for example you don't want your wife hanging out with other men or displaying herself on social media.... liberal types will say this means you are "insecure".

but this whole way of looking at things I think is wrong.... I am very secure when it comes to talking about topics I know about, I am insecure when it comes to talking about topics like math where I am weak....

I see myself in a very lowly way but Allah is utterly exalted.... and so insha'Allah Allah will grant me great success but if so it will be due to Allah, not any greatness or not-greatness on my part
I don't mean insecurities in that sense I mean insecurities about your ownself like being short or ugly or dumb basically personal insecurities that one want to compensate for by trying to take on this whole alpha persona on. Obviously everyone has some type of insecurity but not everyone copes with it the same some have chosen to take the angry at the world alpha approach
 

Omar del Sur

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I don't mean insecurities in that sense I mean insecurities about your ownself like being short or ugly or dumb basically personal insecurities that one want to compensate for by trying to take on this whole alpha persona on. Obviously everyone has some type of insecurity but not everyone copes with it the same some have chosen to take the angry at the world alpha approach

oh I see..... well if people are obsessed with an image of themselves as failures or incapable or something, they should just put their confidence in God and rely on God to help them.... but people think success comes from their own self rather than God so they focus on confidence in themselves rather than being confident in Allah and relying on Allah
 

Arma

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Miskeen defo has a condition, aspergers most likely, given the way he's talking.
 
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