How do ur family feel about u being a homosexual? Do u keep in touch with them? U do realise Somalia will never ever accept ur gay western ideology agenda, can that be one of the reasons u hate Somalia
They eventually will but not for a long while. No one is immune from societal change; FGM is slowly becoming eradicated and is looked down upon by many even though it's a very old deeply rooted tradition. Who would have thought when just a few years ago vagina talk was totally off limits?
Also, have you seen how liberal the once religious Somalis in the diaspora have become? There is a lot of unmarried sex going on in Somalia today, probably as common as Westerners. There's also an increase in alcohol consumption (like before the war). People evolve in the way they think and see things, especially with internet access improving over there. The internet is your biggest enemy. I can also bet you anything Al Shabab and Sunni extremism is turning some Somalis over there searching for something else.
Change is slow but it'll eventually happen and it'll hit you in your big foreheaded face.