Youre mentality is weak youre thinking like a bakthi If you hit the gym you need to Cook healthy meals or you Will have gacmo baastoI can cook basic meals but i would never cook for my wife. Imagine that, she's watching tv enjoying herself whilst you just came from work and now you're cooking for the kids. You're basically a husband and a housewife. No woman would respect that. They will see you as a meek and weak husband who they can take advantage of. Your wife will cheat on you if you cook and clean.
Or you can Cook romantic meals and set up candles at home
You could even prepare healthy meals and train together to get in shape