Dating out of your ethnicity

[KuleilGyalBilan]

clowning a qabil is still being a tribalist.. i can already tell what you look like miskeen lmao, get out of your room and do something with your life you bum, these people you complain about are above you

 

[J-Rasta]

I don't have an option , to date within my ethnicity which is basically impossible regardless wether my status are economically sufficient or not , I will be reminded of my qabiil that we are incompatible with the rest of Somalis which is depressing

Here in South Africa
Somali women are extremely limited , the ones I've encountered are mostly housewives of the shopkeepers , older women , younger Somali women are rare to be spotted they'd prefer dudes from the UK , US overseas they wouldn't date anyone in Africa
we call them Passport-Riders

I once dated woman from Zambia we got along she grew up there
finally a somali chick I can relate with without the qabiil talk everything went well until group of her family members threatend to burn my business " We don't mix with your kind stay away motherfucker"
I never even disclose my qabiil to anyone but since Somalis are a talkative bunch they found out who I was lol

That's when I decided it's not even worth to mix with ignorants date out and forget about Somalis wlahi

I just realised it's more convenient here to date a coloured, black , white whatever