"Did yk your lil sis is acting like a wh*re online?" Random man to my sister at the Mosque

[roses4me]

For context the oh so "scandalous" thing I did was post a selfie with my friends during recess...it was too "risque" because I wasn't wearing a hijab, literally everyone knows im a non hijabi I have no clue who this man is why is the world coming at me these last few months omg
+He also told her that she should tell my parents so that they would "punish" me

 

[wonyluvr]

Bisinka why don’t people leave you alone

 

[roses4me]

Bisinka why don’t people leave you alone

Im like the only non hijabi Somali girl where I live somehow this made me a bit infamous among other Somali people in the community

 

[caanoshaah]

If he’s so religious why tf was he even looking through ur page f*king creep

 

[The Macrobian]

But aren't you wrong for not wearing the hijaab?

 

[berberaboy66]

A lot of somali men seem to have this overfamiliarity with women they don’t know unfortunately. Do you have a brother to check him?

 

[The Macrobian]

Where’s the accountability?

 

[Grimmer]

Recess? Wtf is middle schooler doing on this website lol

 

[roses4me]

Im

Recess? Wtf is middle schooler doing on this website lol

not a middle schooler we call break here "recess"

 

[roses4me]

But aren't you wrong for not wearing the hijaab?

Im not ready for one, it's kinda complicated

 

[The Macrobian]

Im not ready for one, it's kinda complicated

Wdym ready? Its a responsibilty all you have to do is put a scarf on your head and wear an abaya and not beautify yourself. Its genuinely ntd

 

[roses4me]

Wdym ready? Its a responsibilty all you have to do is put a scarf on your head and wear an abaya and not beautify yourself. Its genuinely ntd

This is exactly why I posted this in the *women's* den, a dude like you wouldn't understand that its not that easy to just wear a scarf or whatever else piece of clothing on your head for the rest of your life ever since you were 9

 

[The Macrobian]

It seriously is ntd. Do you desire to be seen? Genuine question.

 

[roses4me]

It seriously is ntd. Do you desire to be seen? Genuine question.

What does ntd even mean? And id be "seen" no matter what I wear, you're acting like the aabaya is some sort of invisibility cloak or something

 

[The Macrobian]

What does ntd even mean? And id be "seen" no matter what I wear, you're acting like the aabaya is some sort of invisibility cloak or something

It does help. Men are encouraged to lower the gaze and cover and same with women. Abayas really help as they cover the beauty inside.

 

[roses4me]

It does help. Men are encouraged to lower the gaze and cover and same with women. Abayas really help as they cover the beauty inside.

Nty

 

[The Macrobian]

?

 

[roses4me]

A lot of somali men seem to have this overfamiliarity with women they don’t know unfortunately. Do you have a brother to check him?

Yeah, told my brother

 

[roses4me]

?

Nty. = no thank you

 

[_Yusuf_]

But aren't you wrong for not wearing the hijaab?

In the west wearing a hijab is a "Process, Journey, Goal" It's not inherent like in Somalia. The most reasonable excuse I heard is that they have been harassed by islamophobes and are scared for their safety which I respect. However many times it's just out of wanting to beatify them selves. Unfortunately this is the major vice for women in this world, may allah swt make it easy for them all. It's the responsibility for Muslim men to create a safe space for our women folk. Especially for reer USA using our votes to lobby the policies we need for that sense of security to be achieved.

If that don't work buy a gun probably