Do any of y'all no longer care

[Malikfiqi]

No offense, but I find that it's a common thing online that some young women, who are single, tend to think every guy around them is sub-par, do they actually believe this is the case, or is that a coping strategy until they find a good man, then the men around are suddenly decent.

Of course the men around her are sub-par she’s already in love, women aren’t like men they can for the most part love one man at a time. We have diffrent psychys

 

[Abdalla]

It seems hard to believe they're all wannabe rappers and/or lazy.

Also, looks like you're making those ajnabi men out to look like they're better than what they are, and the Somali ones as worse than what they are.

If those guys approaching you are decent looking and have money, why don't you marry them?

The way you're describing how sub-par the men around you are and what you're expectations in a man is, it seems like you're waiting for a guy that's never going to come or you're making excuses because you don't want to get married atm.

"The Somali guys around me are trash, I haven't found a decent one yet" is a great reason to give to someone asking why you're not married, and I feel like some women use to get people off their back.

She's not Somali but black revert.

I can feel your frustrations, but every girl on twitter trashes the men of her ethnicity. I hope you find solace in this thread of Albanian girls trashing Albanian men in favour of Somali men

Albanian incel MADDDDD because Albanian women are marrying Somalis

We know the feeling :francis:

www.somalispot.com

 

[jabsveg276]

At this point I might as well settle down with the first financially stable dude with a similar background and goals. I've accepted recently that although I am quite literally obsessed with my crush we will never ever be together for a number of reasons. I don't think I'm capable of loving anyone as i've loved him so at this point I'm going with the flow. I keep turning down proposals mainly because I don't swirl and it's always Arab men with interest. If salafi Idris Elba doesn't arrive soon I'm accepting the first Ahmed in line with good deen and dowry money. I could use it for textbooks.


Also side note, I'm just being crazy. I know Allah azza wajjal is the best of Planners. I'm just being ranty.

my nigga, don’t punish another man that you don’t truly love