Do Somali guys or women initiate divorce more?

[BlackManActivist]

I thought it was mostly women but I have heard guys in the community do it more than them. Which is it?

 

[Ozark]

Has to be women, especially the ones that have more equal roles in their relationship (they work, earn money, etc)

As for Somalis in the old country, I’m not sure at all.

 

[TekNiKo]

90% of divorce is intiated by women. In Somali culture being a divorcee is not shameful. They can get another man within 4 months.

 

[AbdiFreedom]

If her dad gave her little to no affection or her parents split up, it will be women. Its not if but when (usually when they get the # of kids they want). Fathers and husbands are useless to them except for baby making and temporarily providing until the government will step in. Men will only leave if you disrespect them but only if they have much better options.

 

[Farahslayer]

I thought it was mostly women but I have heard guys in the community do it more than them. Which is it?

I saw a clip where a guy went on a minibus in hargeisa and asked a stranger if he should divorce his wife. He immediately divorced.

Back home they marry and divorce like no other especially the older Somali men from abroad looking for a young child bride. There’s a whole documentary on how they abandon them, don’t even bother to divorce properly.