Do you agree that Somalis are naturally good at picking up women?

[The Somali Caesar]

Huno I have a lot kalsooni In myself and for good reason too
I just find it funny you’re going after me when I wasn’t even in the group that violated you on here. I was merely a bystander watching it all unfold. Say whatever you like If it makes you feel better abaayo

Bro You spoke like a true gentleman. Not my style I can’t lie as if it was me I would’ve violated her but I respect your gentlemenimo

 

[BobSmoke]

If they grew up with a healthy self esteem that's high and they know themselves, then yes. Guys like that are usually authentic and girls will throw themselves at those guys.

It's not an ethnic thing. It's the mindset.
I've seen farahs that baddies will throw themselves at and they don't know why. When you talk to them, you'll quickly realise that they love and respect themselves in a way that can't be faked.
You will never catch them doing too much, they're laid back even when they are aggressive.

Why many Somali guys have a hard time with women is because they haven't deal with their own mental and emotional wounds. That shit will affect the energy/aura you give off. And girls can sense your energy subconsciously when they see you.

The aura/energy is the first door. And it's composed of many factors.
The biggest factor is self-esteem. What you think of yourself and does it match with reality. Your worldview, how capable you think you are, how you deal with adversity all impacts the aura you give off.

If you think negative thoughts or have ulterior motives, you'll give off a dark energy. That's why you feel iffy on some people and people can feel yours aswell.

If you think highly of yourself and you think highly of people, you'll give off an aura that's appealing to people.

All of this is affected by past teachings and experiences. And it can be altered with time and deliberate effort.

This is beyond just picking up women. It's about how a man thinks vs how a boy thinks.

 

[Boogie]

Faan badana yahuu. You guys are usually awkward around the opposite gender.

 

[Caaro]

You sound like one yourself, I know you look to the ground when speaking to girls. Personal attacks cos it hits home sow ma aha kkkk.

I didn’t even get personal. I just said it how it was, half jokingly too.

But the fact you took it personal says a lot

And you can assume what you want about me. I really don’t have anything to prove to people online

 

[Fratello]

I didn’t even get personal. I just said it how it was, half jokingly too.

But the fact you took it personal says a lot

And you can assume what you want about me. I really don’t have anything to prove to people online

Yeah she clearly got offended

 

[Boogie]

Yeah she clearly got offended

Her rn

 

[inflorescence]

The fobs has the same success rate as the “bobs and vegana” indians

 

[celidheere]

kap

 

[Marshall D Abdi]

the only guys willing to talk to her are those types of guys.

They’re just using her as a practice round to get more confidence to approach the prettier girls

U didnt have to go that far

 

[Marshall D Abdi]

Salma right now

 

[Lostbox]

Faan badana yahuu. You guys are usually awkward around the opposite gender.

Around somali girls act socially inept. They love spreading rumours in my local community.


This is me around somali girls

Around no somalis

 

[KingSomali999]

Not everyone is like the Abdis you date

There is a difference between being awkward and not trying to mingle for religious reasons, now a days if you act the way we’re suppose to act around opposite gender they think u awkward and mashallah for those that do that.

but nah fr tho somalis r smooth they’ll sweet talk their way into your heart. nobody got more game than a FOB somali

 

[KingSomali999]

the only guys willing to talk to her are those types of guys.

They’re just using her as a practice round to get more confidence to approach the prettier girls

i’m guilty of this I use to go to the mall and before approaching the pretty girls I’d have a warm up round with ugly/decent looking girls cuz it don’t hurt getting rejected by them

 

[Lord]

This is how we do, but not 50 cent

 

[Wervelwind]

First time I've heard of chatting up uglier girls to build confidence

 

[Vanessa]

Diaspora or western abdis- nah
Fob- yes! They’re so bold and confident