Do you still think about your first love?

[Odious Delirium]

10/10 would not recommend. Espcially if your not married

Oh I don't intend to fall in love with someone who isn't already my wife to be by the time I fall in love

 

[Barni]

10/10 would not recommend. Espcially if your not married

Why?

 

[JackieBurkhart]

Oh I don't intend to fall in love with someone who isn't my wife

Ah, If only you could choose who you fall in love with. It's irrational.
So it goes.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Ah, If only you could choose who you fall in love with. It's irrational.
So it goes.

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I'm very pragmatic if I can't see myself in the long run with an individual I lose complete interest.
The more they align with my principles the more I end up liking them which would eventually lead me to falling in love with them. I don't believe people randomly fall in love that's just lust or Limerence.

Looks fade I don't want to regret my choice or have to ever divorce I want to make the right decision the first time and personality if one lacks it can be developed. Deen and principles is what matters to me the most and that isn't apparent from the exterior so I can't just fall inlove until I get to know them and we are on the same page.

 

[Keep it a boqol]

Why?

It takes a piece of you espcially if it doesn’t work out. You can get over it but depending on how it went, it can leave you pessimistic about relationships

 

[JackieBurkhart]

I'm very pragmatic if I can't see myself in the long run with an individual I lose complete interest.
The more they align with my principles the more I end up liking them which would eventually lead me to falling in love with them. I don't believe people randomly fall in love that's just lust or Limerence.

We're more alike than I thought we would be. I'm like that as well. If someone can't fit into my criteria or what I want for myself, it's hard to fall in love with them. Though, I can still find them attractive. I definitely think you're an outlier, most people recklessly fall in love. People aren't as level-headed as we think.

 

[Odious Delirium]

We're more alike than I thought we would be. I'm like that as well. If someone can't fit into my criteria or what I want for myself, it's hard to fall in love with them. Though, I can still find them attractive. I definitely think you're an outlier, most people recklessly fall in love. People aren't as level-headed as we think.

Attractiveness is what would initially get me interested since its what's apparent on the exterior but I can simply never fall in love by appearance alone that's asking for trouble. I'm not big on forcing people to fit into what I expect either its either there already there or there making the changes needed to get there by the time we get married. If there not about it I would just move on and lose complete interest.

 

[Odious Delirium]

People aren't as level-headed as we think.

I think everyone can go about it pragmatically it's just a lack of mentorship with most people and being left to your own device

 

[Danakiil]

Ah, If only you could choose who you fall in love with. It's irrational.
So it goes.

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Ain't this the same nigga who fell in love with a pigeon

 

[JackieBurkhart]

Ain't this the same nigga who fell in love with a pigeon

Uh..........

 

[Danakiil]

Uh..........

 

[Odious Delirium]

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Imagine it was a different white pigeon each time

 

[World]

Shoot your shot after 3rd year bro after you get an internship or experience. Inshallah by then you’ll have things going for you after lifemaxxing

3 years is a long time bro she could be married with a kid by then

 

[Lowkey]

@Danakiil better slide in her dms before I steal yo girl

 

[Yaraye]

Everyone is talking about first loves, i'm jealous. i've definitely found certain guys attractive but that's it. Never experienced any actual feelings besides lust. Is there something wrong with me?

 

[Odious Delirium]

Everyone is talking about first loves, i'm jealous. i've definitely found certain guys attractive but that's it. Never experienced any actual feelings besides lust. Is there something wrong with me?

Most of these people didn't actually fall in love it was just Limerence which circles round to infatuation and lust and that just means you haven't been talking to guys which is good don't feel like your missing out on anything otherwise you'll get duped trying to rush into it and then you'll actually get your heartbroken if the wrong kind of guy comes around.

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[Yaraye]

Most of these people didn't actually fall in love it was just Limerence which circles round to infatuation and lust and that just means you haven't been talking to guys which is good don't feel like your missing out on anything otherwise you'll get duped trying to rush into it and then you'll actually get your heartbroken if the wrong kind of guy comes around.

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I really don't think I'm missing out when I hear other people's stories.

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[Ozymandias]

No, I have more important things to think about

 

[iskufilann]

Everyone is talking about first loves, i'm jealous. i've definitely found certain guys attractive but that's it. Never experienced any actual feelings besides lust. Is there something wrong with me?

Me and you both sis

 

[Odious Delirium]

I really don't think I'm missing out when I hear other people's stories.

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